The lyrics contain "Dear mother, dear father" around 10 times. It is said that Dyers Eve is about James Hetfield's anger for his problems/misfortunes in his childhood, with his parents "sheltering" him from the real world, something many teenagers can relate to.
Dyers Eve
Metallica Lyrics
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What is this hell you have put me through
Believer, deceiver
Day in day out live my life through you
Pushed onto me what's wrong or right
Hidden from this thing that they call life
Dear mother dear father
Curator, dictator
Always censoring my every move
Children are seen but are not heard
Tear out everything inspired
Innocence torn from me without your shelter
Barred reality
I'm living blindly
Dear mother dear father
Time has frozen still what's left to be hear nothing say nothing
Cannot face the fact I think for me
No guarantee, it's life as is
But damn you for not giving me my chance
Dear mother dear father
You've clipped my wings before I learned to fly unspoiled unspoken
I've outgrown that fucking lullaby
Same thing I've always heard from you
Do as I say not as I do
Innocence torn from me without your shelter
Barred reality
I'm living blindly
I'm in hell without you
Cannot cope without you two
Shocked at the world that I see
Innocent victim please rescue me
Dear mother dear father
Hidden in your world you've made for me
I'm seething I'm bleeding
Ripping wounds in me that never heal
Undying spite I feel for you
Living out this hell you always knew
The lyrics to Metallica's song Dyers Eve contain a powerful message of frustration and anger towards the singer's parents for their controlling and oppressive behavior. It begins with the lines "Dear mother Dear father, what is this hell you have put me through?" which set the tone for the rest of the song. The singer is addressing their parents directly, accusing them of being both believers and deceivers who have pushed their own ideas of what is right or wrong onto the singer. This has resulted in the singer feeling hidden from the realities of life and unable to speak their own thoughts or opinions.
The song then goes on to describe how the singer has been stripped of their innocence without any shelter or protection provided by their parents. They feel like they are living blindly, unable to cope with the world around them without the guidance of their parents. The frustration and resentment builds up throughout the song, with the singer accusing their parents of clipping their wings before they learned to fly and making them live in a world that has been created for them. They feel like they are trapped in a living hell that their parents have always known about.
Overall, Dyers Eve is a powerful commentary on the damaging effects of oppressive parenting styles and the importance of allowing children to grow and develop as individuals with their own thoughts and ideas.
Line by Line Meaning
Dear mother Dear father
Addressing the parents with whom the singer is angry and disappointed.
What is this hell you have put me through
Questioning the choices that the parents have made that have caused the singer pain and misery.
Believer, Deceiver
Acknowledging the parents' dual role as both misguided supporters and liars.
Day in day out live my life through you
Feeling trapped in the parents' expectations and being unable to live their own life.
Pushed onto me what's wrong or right
Being forced to accept the parents' version of morality and values, rather than developing their own.
Hidden from this thing that they call life
Not being allowed to experience life and make their own decisions.
Every thought I'd think you'd disapprove
Being afraid of the parents' disapproval and therefore censoring their thoughts and feelings.
Curator, Dictator
Describing the parents' dual role as both caretakers and oppressive rulers.
Always censoring my every move
Feeling constantly monitored and unable to act freely.
Children are seen but are not heard
Not being given the opportunity to voice their opinions or ideas, and being expected to stay silent.
Tear out everything inspired
Having their passions and creativity stifled by the parents' control.
Innocence Torn from me without your shelter
Feeling vulnerable and exposed without the protection of the parents.
Barred reality
Being denied a realistic view of the world due to the parents' sheltering.
I'm living blindly
Being kept in the dark about the true nature of life and the world around them.
Time has frozen still what's left to be Hear nothing Say nothing
Feeling like their life has been at a standstill, unable to express themselves or move forward.
Cannot face the fact I think for me
Having a difficult time asserting their own identity and beliefs without the influence of the parents.
No guarantee, it's life as is
Coming to terms with the unpredictability of life, and that there are no guarantees.
But damn you for not giving me my chance
Blaming the parents for not allowing them to make their own mistakes and learn from them.
You've clipped my wings before I learned to fly
Feeling like their potential has been cut short due to the parents' control and micromanagement.
I've outgrown that fucking lullaby
Feeling like they have matured beyond the parents' stagnant and outdated worldview.
Same thing I've always heard from you
Being subjected to the same messages and rules from the parents, never allowing for growth or change.
Do as I say not as I do
The parents' hypocritical message, telling the singer to behave one way while acting in another.
I'm in hell without you
Suffering in their absence, but also realizing that the parents' control and restrictions are what made life a hell before.
Cannot cope without you two
Feeling like they are unable to function and make decisions without the parents' input and guidance.
Shocked at the world that I see
Being overwhelmed and horrified by the reality of the world that they were sheltered from.
Innocent victim please rescue me
Begging for help and guidance in navigating the harsh realities of life that they were not prepared for.
Hidden in your world you've made for me
Feeling like the parents created a false reality for the singer that was not representative of the world at large.
I'm seething I'm bleeding
Being angry and hurt by the parents' actions and control over their life.
Ripping wounds in me that never heal
The lasting emotional scars of their upbringing, which have never fully healed.
Undying spite I feel for you
The enduring anger and resentment the singer has towards their parents.
Living out this hell you always knew
Realizing and accepting that the parents' choices were always going to lead to a life of misery and despair.
Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: James Alan Hetfield, Kirk L. Hammett, Lars Ulrich
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Dear mother, dear father
What is this hell you have put me through?
Believer, deceiver
Day in, day out lived my life through you
Pushed onto me what's wrong or right
Hidden from this thing that they call life
Dear mother, dear father
Every thought I'd think, you'd disapprove
Curator, dictator
Always censoring my every move
Children are seen but are not heard
Tear out everything inspired
Innocence
Torn from me without your shelter
Barred reality
I'm living blindly
Dear mother, dear father
Time has frozen still, what's left to be?
Hear nothing, say nothing
Cannot face the fact I think for me
No guarantee it's life as is
But damn you for not giving me my chance
Dear mother dear father
You clipped my wings before I learned to fly
Unspoiled, unspoken
I've outgrown that fucking lullaby
Same thing I've always heard from you
Do as I say, not as I do
Innocence
Torn from me without your shelter
Barred reality
I'm living blindly
I'm in hell without you
Cannot cope without you two
Shocked at the world that I see
Innocent victim, please rescue me
Dear mother dear father
Hidden in your world you've made for me
I'm seething, I'm bleeding
Ripping wounds in me that never heal
Undying spite I feel for you
Living out this hell you always knew
@metaloverkill6217
The transition from To Live Is To Die to this scared the shit out of me
@yippee8734
Lmao, me too!
@lukasmaks9617
YEEESSSSSSSS!!!! ❤️ ❤️
@kevinrinke9179
You're comnent made me cry it was so funny ☆
@maciejczech8975
You are not the only one Bro ;)
@drewm1808
That means the album worked!
@PeteyC_AZ
Imagine hearing this song for the first time ever in 1988. It was literally the heaviest song on earth.
@michaelstotts8332
Amen brother. All time favorite
@rickvsz3977
Almost
@triad5766
death metal existed by this time so no