How Am I Supposed to Live Without You
Michael Bolton Lyrics


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I could hardly believe it
When I heard the news today
I had to come and get it straight from you
They said you were leavin'
Someone's swept your heart away
From that look upon your face, I see it's true

So tell me all about it
Tell me 'bout the plans you're makin'
Oh, tell me one thing more before I go

Tell me how am I supposed to live without you?
Now that I've been lovin' you so long
How am I supposed to live without you?
And how am I supposed to carry on?
When all that I've been livin' for is gone

Too proud for cryin'
Didn't come here to break down
It's just a dream of mine is coming to an end
And how can I blame you
When I built my world around
The hope that one day
We'd be so much more than friends
I don't wanna know the price I'm gonna pay for dreaming
Oh, even now it's more than I can take

Tell me how am I supposed to live without you?
Now that I've been lovin' you so long
How am I supposed to live without you?
And how am I supposed to carry on?
When all that I've been livin' for is gone

Now I don't wanna know the price I'm gonna pay for dreaming
Oh, now that your dream has come true

Tell me how am I supposed to live without you?
Now that I've been lovin' you so long
How am I supposed to live without you?




And how am I supposed to carry on?
When all that I've been livin' for is gone

Overall Meaning

In "How Am I Supposed to Live Without You," Michael Bolton is singing about the heartbreak and pain he is feeling after learning that his lover is leaving him for someone else. He expresses his shock and disbelief by saying he had to come and get the news straight from her, hoping that it wasn't true. However, seeing the look on her face confirms that it is, in fact, true. While he doesn't try to stop her from leaving, he asks her to tell him all about her plans for the future, wanting to know as much as he can from her before she is gone for good.


Throughout the song, Bolton is struggling to come to terms with the fact that everything he has been living for, his relationship, is slipping away. He is too proud to cry, but he admits that he is struggling to carry on with life without his lover by his side. Bolton is aware that he built his world around the hope that they would become more than friends one day, but now that the dream is coming to an end, he doesn't know how he will carry on. The song's title speaks directly to his pain -- he can't imagine how he will be able to live without her now that he has been loving her for so long.


In essence, the song is about heartbreak, loss, and the struggle to move on after a relationship ends. The lyrics express the pain, shock, and denial that often accompany such difficult situations. Bolton's powerful vocals and emotional delivery capture the emotions the listener can relate to, making "How Am I Supposed to Live Without You" a timeless classic.


Line by Line Meaning

I could hardly believe it
The news I heard was so shocking that it was difficult for me to accept.


When I heard the news today
I only learned about the news today and I'm still in disbelief.


I had to come and get it straight from you
I needed to hear the news from you directly so that I could confirm its accuracy.


They said you were leavin'
I was told that you were leaving.


Someone's swept your heart away
Somebody has taken your heart and left you.


From that look upon your face, I see it's true
Your expression confirms that what I've heard is indeed true.


So tell me all about it
I want you to tell me all the details about what happened.


Tell me 'bout the plans you're makin'
Let me know what your future plans are.


Oh, tell me one thing more before I go
Before I leave, there is one more thing I need to know.


Tell me how am supposed to live without you?
I need to know how I can go on living without you in my life.


Now that I've been lovin' you so long
I've been loving you for an extended period of time, and now you're leaving.


And how am I supposed to carry on?
How can I continue to exist and move forward knowing that you're gone?


When all that I've been livin' for is gone
Everything I have been working towards seems to have disappeared with you.


I'm too proud for cryin'
I don't want to cry or show any signs of weakness.


Didn't come here to break down
I didn't come here for an emotional breakdown.


It's just a dream of mine is coming to an end
It feels like a dream of mine is ending.


And how can I blame you
I can't blame you for leaving, even though it hurts me.


When I build my world around
I constructed everything in my life around you.


The hope that one day we'd be so much more than friends
I always hoped that we would have a deeper relationship than just being friends.


I don't wanna know the price I'm gonna pay for dreaming
I don't want to face the reality of the consequences of my dreams.


Oh, even now it's more than I can take
Even now, I'm struggling to handle the situation.


Now that your dream has come true
Now that you have achieved what you wanted, my dream is shattered.


And how am I supposed to carry on?
I'm still trying to figure out how I can keep going without you by my side.


When all that I've been livin' for is gone
Now that you're gone, it feels like everything I was doing was for nothing.




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: Doug James, Michael Bolton

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@yerryririassa3662

I could hardly believe it
When I heard the news today
I had to come and get it straight from you
They said you were leavin'
Someone's swept your heart away
From the look upon your face, I see it's true
So tell me all about it
Tell me 'bout the plans you're makin'
Then tell me one thing more before I go

Tell me how am I supposed to live without you?
Now that I've been lovin' you so long
How am I supposed to live without you?
And how am I supposed to carry on?
When all that I've been livin' for is gone

I'm too proud for cryin'
Didn't come here to break down
It's just a dream of mine is coming to an end
And how can I blame you
When I build my world around
The hope that one day
We'd be so much more than friends
And I don't wanna know the price I'm gonna pay for dreaming
When even now it's more than I can take

Tell me how am I supposed to live without you?
Now that I've been lovin' you so long
How am I supposed to live without you?
And how am I supposed to carry on?
When all that I've been livin' for is gone

Now I don't wanna know the price I'm gonna pay for dreaming
Now that your dream has come true

Tell me how am I supposed to live without you?
Now that I've been lovin' you so long
How am I supposed to live without you?
And how am I supposed to carry on?
When all that I've been livin' for is gone



@kimtinte84

Um, I don't agree.
Having been in these lyrics.
I love 1 man that deeply, .
I fell in love with him at 14.
Yes he shattered my heart 4 yrs later and I still
wonder how am I supposed to go on without him over 30 yrs later.
Doesn't matter if I'm happily married, ( I am. And my hubby knows all about it)
Now all chances are gone, even if I could go back.

If you can't love someone that deeply you dont need to be with them.



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@jonathanmullenix6714

22 years and my wife left me while I was in the hospital. Seven surgeries on my leg and didn't visit me once in a month. I'm so lost and devastated. How am I supposed to do this on my own. Can't walk, can't work and now I got our two beautiful boys to take care of when I can barely even take care of myself. God give me strength and peace.

@ruthmavinga1811

Where do you live??

@Kate-ju6tz

Oh man, that stinks, really really feel for you there. Stay strong, take each day as it comes, don't look forward too much and bit by bit the pain will very very slowly ease. I promise. Kate x

@ruthmavinga1811

Where do live? Maybe I can help

@vitalino1981

U should take some pills, if U feel U can't handle the pressure.
Pills carried me through hell.

@adb2490

Praying for your entire situation! Peace and blessings brother

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@soulchillvibes2006

To all future generations, do not let this classic die.

@Malitubee

We won’t

@Rodavid0919

Also this is one of my favorite songs even though I'm just 14

@Rodavid0919

And I rarely listen to 2010s-2020s music

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