Tell Me
Michael Sarver Lyrics


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I drove that stretch of highway down to Jasper,
Left everything I had searching for answers
The only thing I really knew, is he left home when I was two
And we just carried on

A few miles down the road it started to sink in
Looked in the rearview mirror, said what are you thinking?
What if he lets you down?
Doesn't care that he was never around all the years that he'd been gone?
Had a longing in my heart for something I had never felt
Had to look him in the eye and tell him you put us through hell
You put us through hell

Tell me what could have been better than your own son?
How could you walk away forever just as my life had begun?
What happened in your life that you would pay the price
of giving up everything so selfishly?
Tell me

I knew the moment I walked through his front door
That I wouldn't find the love that I was hoping for
A little smile and a short embrace
It's kinda nice but it can't erase all the pain of yesterday
I said I knew that we are blood but I guess blood just ain't enough
And you can't fill the empty hole that all your lies have dug

As I look at my little boy, full of life and full of joy
I just can't understand, maybe I'll never understand
'Cause nothing could be better than my own son
Could never walk away forever, just as his life has begun
Yeah he is my whole life, so I will sacrifice
And give up everything so selflessly

Tell me




Why couldn't you do the same for me?
Oh tell me

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Michael Sarver's song "Tell Me" tell a story of a man who is seeking answers from his absent father. He drove down a stretch of highway to Jasper, leaving behind everything he had in search of the one thing he had always longed for - his father's love. He reflects on the fact that his father left home when he was just two years old, and wonders if his father even cares about him now, after all these years.


As he approaches his father's front door, he realizes that he may not find the love he's been searching for. He's met with a little smile and a short embrace, but the pain of yesterday is still there. There is a yearning in his heart for something he's never felt, and he can't understand why his father would choose to abandon him and his family.


In the end, the man finds solace in his own son, who is full of life and joy. He realizes that nothing could be better than his own child, and he vows to never abandon him as his father did to him. The lyrics to "Tell Me" are a heartbreaking reflection on the impact that absentee parents can have on their children, and the long-lasting effects that can linger for a lifetime.


Line by Line Meaning

I drove that stretch of highway down to Jasper,
I embarked on a journey to Jasper, leaving everything behind in search of answers.


Left everything I had searching for answers
I abandoned everything I had hoping to get answers to my questions.


The only thing I really knew, is he left home when I was two
The only information I had was that he left home when I was two years.


And we just carried on
We continued with our lives without him.


A few miles down the road it started to sink in
After driving for some distance, it occurred to me.


Looked in the rearview mirror, said what are you thinking?
I looked in the rearview mirror and asked myself what I was thinking.


What if he lets you down?
What if he disappoints me?


Doesn't care that he was never around all the years that he'd been gone?
What if he does not feel remorse for his absence all those years?


Had a longing in my heart for something I had never felt
I had a desire in my heart for something I had not experienced before.


Had to look him in the eye and tell him you put us through hell
I had to face him and tell him he caused us a lot of pain.


You put us through hell
You caused us a lot of agony.


Tell me what could have been better than your own son?
I want to know what could be better than having your own son?


How could you walk away forever just as my life had begun?
How could you leave forever just as my life started?


What happened in your life that you would pay the price
What unfortunate occurrence in your life led to you paying such a high price?


of giving up everything so selfishly?
Of giving up everything without consideration for others.


I knew the moment I walked through his front door
I knew immediately after walking through his front door.


That I wouldn't find the love that I was hoping for
That I would not find the affection I was searching for.


A little smile and a short embrace
A brief hug and a tiny grin.


It's kinda nice but it can't erase all the pain of yesterday
Although it's somewhat pleasant, it cannot wipe away the hurt and distress of the past.


I said I knew that we are blood but I guess blood just ain't enough
I acknowledged that we share the same blood, but that alone is not sufficient.


And you can't fill the empty hole that all your lies have dug
Your untruths have dug a hole far too deep that can never be filled.


As I look at my little boy, full of life and full of joy
As I gaze at my young son brimming with energy and happiness.


I just can't understand, maybe I'll never understand
I still cannot comprehend, maybe I never will.


'Cause nothing could be better than my own son
Because nothing could be more outstanding than having my child.


Could never walk away forever, just as his life has begun
I could never leave him forever, precisely at the beginning of his life.


Yeah he is my whole life, so I will sacrifice
He is my everything, and I am willing to give up everything for him.


And give up everything so selflessly
I will relinquish everything without consideration for myself.


Tell me
Please tell me.


Why couldn't you do the same for me?
What stopped you from doing the same for me?


Oh tell me
Please tell me.




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Steel Box

not a good video but I like this song. The song was very meaningful. I'm not a big fan of Michael Sarver before 'cause I don't expect that he can bring any other song but Country song. When I heard his song "You Are" and this song,I started to be a huge fan of him. He is very talented. Thanks for making this video. Without this video,I'll never know this great artist and this song.

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