Obnoxious and Unsure
Midnight Metro Lyrics
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From time to time it feels like sibling rivalry
The way she tries to fight with me and lately
A contortion connoisseur
She twists and twirls the boys and girls seem so familiar
You're losing all your will to her but baby
Well what did you expect when Adderall was mixed with Vyvanse
Now you're tryna sleep but all you do is think of me innatelyObnoxious and unsure
You blame it on the coffee, the liquor
You're feeling introspective
Tryna find a new perspective, you
You get to look right through my soul
Oh my baby won't you'll me so I can go
You took my heart now say hello
Oh and my baby won't you tell me so I can go
Okay we're back again
Just smoked some meth and got some head
No, I'm just kidding folks
For all the moms it's just a joke
Believe me
Would it be that messed up if
I could use offensive language without being harassed
(Oh he's so angry, why's he so crass?)
Aged well but immature
Mace well taste test and stab his face
Now that's all real aggressive
Can we keep the topics pleasant maybe?
(Maybe cool it down a little bit)
I said fuck that shit flip that script fuck a clique
No hypocrites
(Woah man I didn't mean like that
You get to look right through my soul
Oh well my baby won't you tell me so I can go
You took my heart now say hello
Woah well my baby won't you tell me so I can go
You get to look right through my soul
Woah well my baby won't you tell me so I can go
You took my heart now say hello
Woah well my baby won't you tell me so I can go
The lyrics from Midnight Metro's "Obnoxious and Unsure" delve into themes of insecurity, rivalry, and the inner turmoil that often accompanies love and relationships. The initial verses set the tone for the exploration of self-doubt and interpersonal conflict. The mention of sibling rivalry reflects a sense of competition and emotional strain between the singer and a significant other, suggesting that the relationship may be fraught with tension. The metaphor of a "contortion connoisseur" highlights the complexities and manipulations that can arise in romantic dynamics, where emotions can be twisted and turned in unexpected ways. The singer's admission of feeling overwhelmed—losing will to this rivalry—sheds light on their struggle to maintain agency in a relationship that feels constricted by outside influences, possibly hinting at substance use, given the references to medications like Adderall and Vyvanse. These mix of stimulants create an environment where introspection is constant, leading to an obsessive thought cycle around the partner that contributes to the overall feeling of being "obnoxious and unsure."
The chorus presents a poignant juxtaposition of vulnerability and dependency, encapsulating the complexity of deep emotional connections. The singer’s plea to “look right through my soul” suggests a desire for genuine understanding and intimacy, yet it remains intertwined with a yearning to escape the weight of their emotions. The act of taking the heart yet withholding clarity represents a precarious balance; the singer feels both connected and lost, signifying the push and pull of love that can often leave one feeling trapped. The recurring lines about needing to “go” reinforce an overwhelming longing for release from emotional burden, as if the singer seeks clarity and resolution from a confusion that disallows true freedom in the relationship.
As the narrative unfolds, a sense of humor weaves through moments of darkness, exemplified by the playful reference to drug use in the lines about "smoked some meth and got some head." The phrase is chillingly juxtaposed with the declaration of it being a joke, indicating a layered approach to discussing serious subjects like addiction and mental health. There is a yearning for unfiltered expression, illustrated by the singer’s frustration with being judged for offensive language or intense emotions. This desire for authenticity is a double-edged sword; while they advocate for candidness, the surrounding dialogue reveals challenges within societal norms and expectations. The search for pleasant topics contrasts sharply with the singer's raw emotion, suggesting an inner conflict that often arises in creative expression—how to be genuine without inciting backlash or misunderstanding.
Ultimately, the recurring refrain encapsulates the heart of the issue: the intertwining of love, vulnerability, and confusion. Both a literal and metaphorical representation of the singer's struggles, the lyrics tap into a universal experience of navigating romantic relationships filled with complexity and uncertainty. The cyclical nature of their assertions reflects the ongoing battle between anxious thoughts and the hope for connection amidst the chaos. The expression of being “obnoxious and unsure” serves as a powerful reminder of the human experience in relationships—the desire for acceptance balanced against the reality of feeling lost, a theme that resonates deeply with listeners who may find themselves grappling with similar sentiments. The song as a whole encapsulates a moment of existential inquiry through relatable reflections, revealing the struggles associated with being both intimately connected and uncertain at the same time.
Line by Line Meaning
Well I'm not so self-secure
I often struggle with my self-confidence and feel uncertain about myself.
From time to time it feels like sibling rivalry
Occasionally, the dynamic with this person feels competitive or hostile, similar to how siblings might argue.
The way she tries to fight with me and lately
Her recent behavior seems confrontational, heightening the tension between us.
A contortion connoisseur
She skillfully manipulates situations or relationships, making them more complex.
She twists and twirls the boys and girls seem so familiar
She plays with people's emotions, drawing in friends or acquaintances effortlessly.
You're losing all your will to her but baby
You find yourself increasingly submissive to her influence, despite knowing it’s not healthy.
Well what did you expect when Adderall was mixed with Vyvanse
Expectations can be skewed when controlled substances are involved, leading to unpredictable mental states.
Now you're tryna sleep but all you do is think of me innately
Even when you're trying to find peace, my presence occupies your thoughts involuntarily.
Obnoxious and unsure
I feel bothersome and confused about my feelings and place in this relationship.
You blame it on the coffee, the liquor
You attribute your anxiety or discomfort to external substances like caffeine and alcohol.
You're feeling introspective
You're searching within yourself for understanding and clarity about your situation.
Tryna find a new perspective, you
You are attempting to shift your viewpoint to make sense of what you're experiencing.
You get to look right through my soul
You have an uncanny ability to see my true self, including my vulnerabilities and insecurities.
Oh my baby won't you'll me so I can go
I long for reassurance or closure from you, so that I can move on peacefully.
You took my heart now say hello
You've captured my affection; I want you to acknowledge that and communicate with me.
Oh and my baby won't you tell me so I can go
I request clarity and honesty from you, which would help me to move forward.
Okay we're back again
Here we are once more, returning to this familiar cycle of interaction.
Just smoked some meth and got some head
I make a provocative statement indicating a reckless lifestyle, though it may be sarcastic.
No, I'm just kidding folks
I clarify that my previous comment was meant humorously, not to be taken literally.
For all the moms it's just a joke
I aim to reassure listeners, particularly parents, that I am not promoting harmful behavior.
Believe me
I want you to trust my intentions behind what I'm saying.
Would it be that messed up if
I wonder if it's unreasonable to consider expressing my thoughts candidly.
I could use offensive language without being harassed
I wish I could freely express my frustrations without fear of backlash.
(Oh he's so angry, why's he so crass?)
People criticize me for my bluntness, misunderstanding my need to vent.
Aged well but immature
While I've grown in experience, I still struggle with maturity in certain aspects.
Mace well taste test and stab his face
This violent imagery reflects frustrations boiling over, suggesting a desire to confront aggression.
Now that's all real aggressive
This conveys my awareness of how hostile my thoughts can be.
Can we keep the topics pleasant maybe?
I am proposing we discuss lighter, more agreeable subjects to avoid tension.
(Maybe cool it down a little bit)
I am suggesting that we dial back the intensity of our conversations.
I said fuck that shit flip that script fuck a clique
I reject the status quo and wish to break free from groupthink or societal expectations.
No hypocrites
I want to be surrounded by people who are genuine, avoiding those who are insincere.
(Woah man I didn't mean like that
Upon reflection, I realize my response may have come off harsher than intended.
I was thinking softer maybe
I intended to convey my thoughts in a gentler, more constructive manner.
You get to look right through my soul
You have an uncanny ability to see my true self, including my vulnerabilities and insecurities.
Oh well my baby won't you tell me so I can go
I long for reassurance or closure from you, so that I can move on peacefully.
You took my heart now say hello
You've captured my affection; I want you to acknowledge that and communicate with me.
Woah well my baby won't you tell me so I can go
I request clarity and honesty from you, which would help me to move forward.
You get to look right through my soul
You have an uncanny ability to see my true self, including my vulnerabilities and insecurities.
Woah well my baby won't you tell me so I can go
I long for reassurance or closure from you, so that I can move on peacefully.
You took my heart now say hello
You've captured my affection; I want you to acknowledge that and communicate with me.
Woah well my baby won't you tell me so I can go
I request clarity and honesty from you, which would help me to move forward.
Lyrics © O/B/O DistroKid
Written by: Eric Vanier, River Pathak
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