One Too Many Times
Midnight Oil Lyrics


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She was the golden summer wine
And now she's black and blue resigned
He took advantage like the spider, helpless
One too many times

You had to go ahead and sing
You had to steal that diamond ring
Upon the headstone so inscribed, they cried
One too many times

We are so human, we're so small
We're always coming back for more
A second helping third and fourth, it's gone




One too many times
One too many times

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Midnight Oil's "One Too Many Times" explore the theme of abuse and the cycle of returning to a harmful relationship. The first verse introduces a woman who was once vibrant and lively, but has now become resigned and battered. The metaphor of a spider taking advantage of its helpless prey highlights the power dynamics at play in the relationship. The chorus focuses on the idea of going back to the same situation repeatedly, despite knowing it is harmful. The repeated phrase "One too many times" emphasizes the inevitability of the cycle and the feeling of being trapped.


The second verse shifts focus to the person who has inflicted the abuse. The line "You had to go ahead and sing" suggests a lack of remorse or responsibility for their actions, while the mention of stealing a diamond ring further underscores their selfishness. The reference to a headstone and crying suggests that the abuse has led to death, either metaphorical or literal. The final chorus repeats the message that humans are always coming back for more, even when it is not in their best interest.


Overall, the song is a powerful commentary on the destructive nature of abusive relationships and the difficulty of breaking free from them. Its somber tone and potent imagery make it a haunting reminder of the importance of recognizing abuse and seeking help.


Line by Line Meaning

She was the golden summer wine
She was once lively and free-spirited like a fine wine in summer.


And now she's black and blue resigned
But now she feels beaten up, deflated, and has accepted her fate.


He took advantage like the spider, helpless
Her partner acted like a predator, trapping her and leaving her helpless like a fly caught in a spider's web.


One too many times
It happened too frequently, one too many times.


You had to go ahead and sing
You couldn't resist showing off your talent and making a spectacle of yourself.


You had to steal that diamond ring
You couldn't resist the temptation of taking something that didn't belong to you, even if it was valuable and had sentimental value.


Upon the headstone so inscribed, they cried
When they saw the words written on the tombstone, they couldn't help but cry.


We are so human, we're so small
Despite our aspirations and desires, we are still limited by our humanity and smallness in the grand scheme of things.


We're always coming back for more
We have an insatiable desire for more, even if we know it's bad for us or will lead to negative consequences.


A second helping third and fourth, it's gone
We indulge in excess, consuming more and more until it's gone and we're left with nothing.


One too many times
It happened too frequently, one too many times.




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: PETER GARRETT, ROBERT HIRST, JAMES MOGINIE, MARTIN ROTSEY, WAYNE STEVENS

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