The song addresses a son's regret over unresolved conflict with his now-deceased father. It won the Ivor Novello Award for Best Song Musically and Lyrically in 1989, and was nominated for four Grammy awards in 1990, including Record and Song of the Year, as well as Best Pop Performance by a Duo or Group with Vocals and Best Video. In 1996, famed composer Burt Bacharach opined that the song was one of the finest lyrics of the last ten years.
In 2004, "The Living Years" was awarded a 4-Million-Air citation by BMI.
The Living Years
Mike & The Mechanics Lyrics
Jump to: Overall Meaning ↴ Line by Line Meaning ↴
Blames the one before
And all of their frustrations
Come beating on your door
I know that I'm a prisoner
To all my Father held so dear
I know that I'm a hostage
I just wish I could have told him in the living years
Oh, crumpled bits of paper
Filled with imperfect thought
Stilted conversations
I'm afraid that's all we've got
You say you just don't see it
He says it's perfect sense
You just can't get agreement
In this present tense
We all talk a different language
Talking in defence
Say it loud (say it loud), say it clear (oh say it clear)
You can listen as well as you hear
It's too late (it's too late) when we die (oh when we die)
To admit we don't see eye to eye
So we open up a quarrel
Between the present and the past
We only sacrifice the future
It's the bitterness that lasts
So don't yield to the fortunes
You sometimes see as fate
It may have a new perspective
On a different day
And if you don't give up, and don't give in
You may just be okay
So say it loud, say it clear (oh say it clear)
You can listen as well as you hear
Because it's too late, it's too late (it's too late)
When we die (oh, when we die)
To admit we don't see eye to eye
I wasn't there that morning
When my Father passed away
I didn't get to tell him
All the things I had to say
I think I caught his spirit
Later that same year
I'm sure I heard his echo
In my baby's new born tears
I just wish I could have told him in the living years
Say it loud, say it clear (oh say it clear)
You can listen as well as you hear
It's too late (it's too late) when we die (it's too late when we die)
To admit we don't see eye to eye
So say it, say it, say it loud (say it loud)
Say it clear (come on say it clear)
Say it loud
(Don't give up, don't give in and don't look away 'til it's too late)
Say it clear
Say it loud (say it loud, say it loud)
Mike & The Mechanics's song "The Living Years" is an emotional reflection on the strained relationship between a father and son. The song captures the universal theme of how we often take our loved ones for granted and only realize what we've missed when it's too late. The opening lines set the tone for the song, with the singer reflecting on how every generation blames the previous one for their frustrations. The singer then acknowledges his own feelings of being a prisoner and hostage to his father's expectations and dreams, which he feels went unspoken.
The chorus of the song becomes a rallying cry to the listener to speak up and communicate with their loved ones while they are still alive. The lyrics warn that it is "too late when we die to admit we don't see eye to eye," and that "it's the bitterness that lasts" if we do not take the time to open up a dialogue with those who mean the most to us. The bridge of the song reveals a personal moment of regret for the singer who wasn't able to express everything he wanted to say to his father before he passed away. However, he finds solace in his baby's newborn tears, interpreting them as a sign that his father's spirit lives on.
Line by Line Meaning
Every generation
Every new generation of people
Blames the one before
Blames the previous generation for the problems they inherit
And all of their frustrations
All the current generation's frustrations
Come beating on your door
Are often directed towards the older generation
I know that I'm a prisoner
I feel trapped
To all my Father held so dear
By the beliefs and values my Father instilled in me
I know that I'm a hostage
I feel captive
To all his hopes and fears
By his aspirations and anxieties for me
I just wish I could have told him in the living years
I wish I could have talked to him while he was still alive
Oh, crumpled bits of paper
All the letters and notes we wrote to each other
Filled with imperfect thought
Were not always well written or expressed
Stilted conversations
Our dialogs were often awkward
I'm afraid that's all we've got
This is all we have left of our conversations
You say you just don't see it
You claim you can't understand
He says it's perfect sense
He believes it's entirely logical
You just can't get agreement
You can't agree with each other
In this present tense
Here and now
We all talk a different language
We express ourselves in different ways
Talking in defense
We argue and defend our position
Say it loud (say it loud)
Express yourself loudly
say it clear (oh say it clear)
Speak out boldly and make yourself understood
You can listen as well as you hear
Pay attention to what others say
It's too late (it's too late)
When we're gone
when we die (oh when we die)
Once we've passed away
To admit we don't see eye to eye
To acknowledge our disagreements
So we open up a quarrel
We start arguing
Between the present and the past
About what happened before versus what's happening now
We only sacrifice the future
We're missing an opportunity to build a better future
It's the bitterness that lasts
We'll only remember the argument and not the actual disagreement
So don't yield to the fortunes
Don't get discouraged by bad luck
You sometimes see as fate
That seems like it's beyond your control
It may have a new perspective
It might change in the future
On a different day
Depending on the circumstances
And if you don't give up, and don't give in
If you keep trying and don't quit
You may just be okay
Things could still turn out fine
I wasn't there that morning
I was absent the day my Father died
When my Father passed away
When my Father died
I didn't get to tell him
I wasn't able to speak to him
All the things I had to say
All the unspoken words I had for him
I think I caught his spirit
I felt his presence somewhere near me
Later that same year
Later on in the same year
I'm sure I heard his echo
I believe I heard his voice or influence
In my baby's new-born tears
In my child's crying
Say it loud, say it clear (oh say it clear)
Emphasize your message
It's too late (it's too late)
When we pass away
When we die (oh, when we die)
After we die
To admit we don't see eye to eye
To accept that we don't agree
Say it, say it, say it loud (say it loud)
Repeat yourself as often as it takes
Don't give up, don't give in
Persist and keep trying
And don't look away 'til it's too late
Stay focused until it's over
Say it clear
Be clear in your communication
Say it loud (say it loud, say it loud)
Emphasize your message
Lyrics © BMG Rights Management, CONCORD MUSIC PUBLISHING LLC, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: B.A. Robertson, Mike Rutherford
Lyrics Licensed & Provided by LyricFind
@ericengbloom3857
It's so true each day year decade president congress polibereau prime minister queen king mother father bother sister
Son n Daughter you can say it clear they don't listen and hear and see eye to eye you have 50s 60s 70s Oh
80s 90s 2000s
Putin Trump
Debt Greed Pollution on a nuclear scale
With the green house
Green period a negative
Polar bears Whales Elephants Rhinos Tigers birds frogs fish. Plants eco systems gone going extinct!
The powers at be
Lip Svc for last 100 yrs and still!
Our democracy started in 1700s and will NOT SURVIVE THIS CENTURY hands down!
The Republican party is in my opinion and in all our faces is the start of a very extreme dangerous movement
That will make our country go to a kgb
Type country
We all are already in deep s.
For once in our history we need to put a President in jail quit worrying about oh it looks so bad!
The privileged have gotten free ride to long and should be no more
Tax the SOBS!
@garyfeenan8143
I have terminal cancer less than 4 months to live. Went from a 220 pound ripped bodybuilder who ran half marathons to a 98 pound skeleton. Thought I would live to a good age I am only 42. Everybody live your life to the fullest.
@stevethomas4353
Call out to Jesus-- you'll be in a far better place!
@michaelcalmeyn7376
My thoughts are with you
@ashleytaylor994
God bless you
@j.daniel6357
Jesus saves ! Call out to him. I did. It was like life from the dead . Depression hit me hard but I prayed to him and was saved. All glory to him !
@benjaminngubeni5812
Sending you all the love and light in all the world for you.
@tonyhodgin1158
My father passed away on Saturday January 13,2024. And it hurts. He was a great man As I am listening to this song I am crying. My father taught me a lot. And it made me the Man I am today.
@kathycuster1714
So very sorry for your loss!
@baretk
Sorry for your loss brother
@xXxBl4ckD3v1lxXx
My Dad died on 14 january. 71 years old. I missed him so much.