I Can't Be Bothered
Miranda Lambert Lyrics


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I can't be bothered to miss you anymore
It's month twelve, day thirty-one, and hour twenty-four
I used to think if I missed hard enough
You'd come back for sure
And I can't be bothered now to miss you anymore

It's not like I don't have tears to cry
Such memories, so little time
This box of photographs to go through one by one
There's just so much work to get done

And I can't be bothered to miss you anymore
It's month twelve, day thirty-one, and hour twenty-four
I used to think if I missed hard enough
You'd come back for sure
And I can't be bothered now to miss you anymore

When you skipped town I was such a mess
So I found some things To do instead
Trick is to find something to occupy your mind
Now I spend most days chasing mine

And I can't be bothered to miss you anymore
It's month twelve, day thirty-one, and hour twenty-four
I used to think if I missed hard enough
You'd come back for sure
And I can't be bothered now to miss you anymore





I'm cuddling up to kiss you
And I can't be bothered now to miss you anymore

Overall Meaning

In Miranda Lambert's song "I Can't Be Bothered", she expresses that she can no longer be bothered to miss her former lover anymore. The lyrics use a very specific time reference, the last day of the year, at the final hour, which represents the end of a long journey of trying to make the relationship work. She had become tired of trying and has given up. In the past, she believed that if she missed him enough, he would come back, but now she's realized that she's wasting her time.


The song's lyrics also address the difficulty of letting go of memories from the past, especially with a box of photographs, that serve only as a constant reminder of the relationship that was. Lambert acknowledges that she still has tears to cry, but she refuses to let herself be stuck missing someone who is no longer there. She's learned instead to find other things to fill her time, which she suggests is the key to moving on.


Lambert's song is relatable and inspiring to listeners who may be struggling with similar situations in their own lives. It is a representation of the process of letting go, and the reminder that moving on is an essential part of the healing process.


Line by Line Meaning

I can't be bothered to miss you anymore
I am no longer willing to put in the effort to miss you


Month 12, day 31, and hour 24
It is the end of the year and I have had enough of missing you for all this time


I used to think if I missed hard enough, You'd come back for sure
I believed that my intense longing would bring you back to me


But I can't be bothered now to miss you anymore
I have moved on and I am no longer interested in missing you


It's not like I don't have tears to cry
I do have emotions that need to be expressed


Such memories, so little time
I have so many memories with you, but so little time to relive them


This box of photographs to go, Through on by one
I have a box full of memories, that I need to go through one by one


There's just so much work, To get done
I have other important things to do and I cannot afford to dwell on the past


When you skipped town, I was such a mess
When you left me, I was devastated and it was hard for me to cope


So I found some things, To do instead
I found new activities to occupy my time


Trick is to find something, To occupy your mind
The key to moving on is to find ways to keep your mind occupied


Now I spend most days, Chasing mine
Now, I spend most of my days pursuing my own interests and goals


I'm cuddling up to kiss you, And I can't be bothered, Now to miss you anymore
I am moving on and enjoying my life without you, and I no longer feel the need to miss you




Lyrics © Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd.
Written by: John Travis Howard

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