Settling Down
Miranda Lambert Lyrics


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Should I give up sunsets for marigold mornings?
Should I look for rainbows or wait for the rain?
Is happiness on the highway? Or is it parked in the driveway?
Should I lean on you, babe? Or should you lean on me?

Am I looking for comfort? Am I looking for an escape?
Am I looking for you? Am I looking the other way?
I'm a wild child and a homing pigeon
Caravan and an empty kitchen
Bare feet on the tile with my head up in the clouds
One heart goin' both directions
One love and a couple of questions
Am I settlin' up or settlin' down?
Am I settlin' up or settlin' down?

I could plant a pretty garden, just send myself flowers
Be a jet-set Friday or a Sunday hometown girl
I could stay a little lonely or let you get to know me
Yeah, I could love a picket fence if it wrapped around the world

I'm a wild child and a homing pigeon
Caravan and an empty kitchen
Bare feet on the tile with my head up in the clouds
I'm one heart goin' both directions
One love and a couple of questions
Am I settlin' up or settlin' down?

Am I looking for comfort? Am I looking for an escape?
Am I looking for you? Am I looking the other way?

I'm a wild child and a homing pigeon
A caravan and an empty kitchen
Bare feet on the tile with my head up in the clouds
One heart goin' both directions
One love and a couple of questions




Am I settlin' up or settlin' down?
Am I settlin' up or settlin' down?

Overall Meaning

Miranda Lambert's Settling Down tackles the dilemma of choosing between two different lives - a life of stability and a life of adventure. The song is filled with rhetorical questions, as Lambert tries to figure out what she really wants out of life - "Should I give up sunsets for marigold mornings?" or "Am I looking for comfort? Am I looking for an escape?" The song captures the feeling of being at a crossroads in life, with no clear path forward.


The imagery used in the lyrics is evocative and powerful. Lambert portrays herself as both a wild child and a homing pigeon, someone who is equally at home on the road and in a stable relationship. She paints a vivid picture of her life, with "bare feet on the tile with my head up in the clouds", and talks about the pros and cons of different lifestyles, from "a jet-set Friday" to "a Sunday hometown girl".


Ultimately, the song is about finding balance and figuring out what works best for you. It's about realizing that there are different paths to happiness and that it's okay to take your time and figure out what you really want in life.


Line by Line Meaning

Should I give up sunsets for marigold mornings?
Should I sacrifice what I currently have for something new and unknown?


Should I look for rainbows or wait for the rain?
Should I search for good things or wait for them to come to me?


Is happiness on the highway? Or it is parked in the driveway?
Can I find happiness while traveling, or is it more likely to be found at home?


Should I lean on you, babe? Or should you lean on me?
Should we rely on each other equally to make our relationship work?


Am I looking for comfort? Am I looking for an escape?
Am I seeking comfort or trying to escape from something?


Am I looking for you? Am I looking the other way?
Am I focused on finding you, or am I missing you entirely while looking elsewhere?


I'm a wild child and a homing pigeon
I am adventurous but also crave a sense of home and belonging.


Caravan and an empty kitchen
I am always on the move yet remain alone, without a real sense of home.


Bare feet on the tile with my head up in the clouds
I am grounded yet also have my head in the clouds, dreaming of what's next.


I'm one heart goin' both directions
I am torn between two different paths or relationships.


One love and a couple of questions
I love someone, but still have some doubts or uncertainties about our relationship.


Am I settlin' up or settlin' down?
Am I choosing to pursue something new and potentially difficult, or settling for something familiar and comfortable?


I could plant a pretty garden, just send myself flowers
I have the ability to create beauty and happiness for myself, without the need for outside validation or assistance.


Be a jet-set Friday or a Sunday hometown girl
I can live a life of adventure and excitement, or choose to stay close to home and live a simpler, quieter life.


I could stay a little lonely or let you get to know me
I can choose to remain isolated and independent, or open myself up to a deeper connection with someone else.


Yeah, I could love a picket fence if it wrapped around the world
I could find happiness and contentment in a traditional, settled lifestyle - as long as it still offered some sense of adventure and exploration.




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, CONCORD MUSIC PUBLISHING LLC, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd.
Written by: Luke Dick, Miranda Lambert, Natalie Nicole Hemby

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