That's How It Goes
Miriam Makeba Lyrics


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That's how it goes
That man who'll treat you cruel
Don't you let him near
Take care

That's how it goes
He'll promise you the world
And then he'll disappear
Beware

That's how it goes
That man who'll treat you cruel
Don't you let him near
Take care

That's how it goes
He'll promise you the world
And then he'll disappear
Beware

I know that this man is no laughter
I say send him back to his mother
My friend if it's lovin' you're after
I say go and look for another

That's how it goes
That man who'll treat you cruel
Don't you let him near
Take care

That's how it goes
He'll promise you the world
And then he'll disappear
Beware

That's how it goes
That man who'll treat you cruel
Don't you let him near
Take care

That's how it goes
He'll promise you the world
And then he'll disappear
Beware

Khanibabhalele incwadi
Nibaphe imali yokudla
Khanibabhalele incwadi
Nibaphe imali yokudla

Yini nsizwa?
Uyangibambezela
Ah nsizwa

Yin'insizwa?
Iyangibambezela
Ah nsizwa

That's how it goes
That man who'll treat you cruel
Don't you let him near
Take care

That's how it goes
He'll promise you the world
And then he'll disappear
Beware

That's how it goes
That man who'll treat you cruel
Don't you let him near
Take care

That's how it goes
He'll promise you the world




And then he'll disappear
Beware

Overall Meaning

The song "That's How It Goes" by Miriam Makeba warns women to be careful of men who treat them badly and make empty promises. The lyrics repeat the warning over and over again, with each verse emphasizing the importance of being cautious. The song starts off by warning of men who will treat you cruelly and not to let them get close. The second verse warns that such a man will promise you the world and then disappear. The chorus repeats the same message, reminding the listener to stay vigilant.


The song comes from a place of understanding and empathy, as the lyrics suggest that the singer has been through such situations before. She understands the pain and heartbreak that comes with dealing with such men, and is urging other women not to make the same mistakes. In the bridge, the singer pleads with her friend to not settle for a man who will treat her badly and instead find someone who will truly love her. The inclusion of the Zulu lyrics towards the end of the song adds an African touch to the message and reinforces the importance of women being cautious irrespective of cultural boundaries.


Miriam Makeba's "That's How It Goes" is a timeless classic that warns women to be wary of men who make empty promises and ultimately break their hearts. It conveys an important message of self-love and caution that still resonates with people today.


Line by Line Meaning

That's how it goes
This is how things happen


That man who'll treat you cruel
A man who will treat you badly


Don't you let him near
Do not allow him close to you


Take care
Be cautious


He'll promise you the world
He will make big promises


And then he'll disappear
But he will not keep his promises


Beware
Be warned


I know that this man is no laughter
I am certain that this man is not kind


I say send him back to his mother
I suggest removing him from your life


My friend if it's lovin' you're after
If you are seeking love


I say go and look for another
I suggest finding someone else


Khanibabhalele incwadi
Write a book for them


Nibaphe imali yokudla
Protect your money for food


Yini nsizwa?
Why young man?


Uyangibambezela
You are bothering me


Ah nsizwa
Oh young man




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Comments from YouTube:

Hermann EKEKE

what a nice voice Mama Africa !

Carlos Andrés Loaiza

Leopoldo Fleming, Congas. Excelente

Olivier South

Oh mirriam..

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