Talking with Strangers
Miya Folick Lyrics


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Today I talked to a semi-stranger
A girl that I sorta know
But every encounter at the corner grocery
Holds potential for our relationship to grow
And half of my brain was totally afraid
That she'd hate me, never want to see me again
And half of my brain was equally afraid
That she'd like me, want to be my friend

I am learning to love
I am learning to let myself be loved
How did I miss this lesson when I was young?
How did I miss this lesson when I was young?
How did I miss this lesson when I was young?

Yesterday I was anxious and alone
So I called a friend to make me feel ok
And for a moment I found myself
Angry at him for offering help
When I should have just been grateful
For what he gave

I am learning to love
I am learning to let myself be loved
How did I miss this lesson when I was young?
How did I miss this lesson when I was young?
How did I miss this lesson when I was young?

Be gentle with me
I might not be ready




Be gentle with me
I might not be ready

Overall Meaning

In Miya Folick's song "Talking with Strangers," the singer expresses her anxieties and fears about opening up to others and forming meaningful connections. The first verse is about a semi-stranger that she talks to regularly at a corner grocery store, and how every encounter has the potential to strengthen their relationship. However, she is afraid of both rejection and acceptance. The chorus shows her acknowledging that she is still learning to both love and allow herself to be loved, and regretting that she did not learn this important lesson when she was young.


The second verse is about her calling a friend when she was anxious and alone, but feeling angry at him for offering help instead of being grateful. This shows the singer's struggle with vulnerability and accepting help from others. The repetition of the chorus emphasizes the theme of learning to love and be loved, and the regret of not having learned this earlier in life.


Overall, the song speaks to the universal struggle of forming emotional connections and allowing oneself to be vulnerable with others. The singer's lyrics are vulnerable and honest, which allows listeners to relate to her experiences.


Line by Line Meaning

Today I talked to a semi-stranger
I had a conversation with an acquaintance who is not quite a friend


A girl that I sorta know
The semi-stranger was a young woman who I only vaguely recognized


But every encounter at the corner grocery
Although we only meet at the corner grocery store, each interaction we have has the potential to develop our relationship


Holds potential for our relationship to grow
There is a chance for our friendship to become stronger


And half of my brain was totally afraid
One part of my mind was terrified


That she'd hate me, never want to see me again
I was scared that she might dislike me and never want to interact with me again


And half of my brain was equally afraid
Another part of my mind was just as afraid


That she'd like me, want to be my friend
I was afraid she might like me too much and want to be my friend, which I might not be ready for


Yesterday I was anxious and alone
The day before, I felt worried and isolated


So I called a friend to make me feel ok
I reached out to a friend because I needed someone to talk to and support me


And for a moment I found myself
At one point, I realized


Angry at him for offering help
I was angry with my friend for offering to help me


When I should have just been grateful
Instead of being angry, I should have been thankful


For what he gave
For the support and help he provided me


Be gentle with me
Please treat me kindly


I might not be ready
I may not be prepared or able to handle something right now




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@EmilyNoelM

Today I talked to a semi-stranger
A girl that I sorta know
But every encounter at the corner grocery
Holds potential for our relationship to grow
And half of my brain was totally afraid
That she'd hate me, never want to see me again
And half of my brain was equally afraid
That she'd like me, want to be my friend

I am learning to love
I am learning to let myself be loved
How did I miss this lesson when I was young?
How did I miss this lesson when I was young?
How did I miss this lesson when I was young?

Yesterday I was anxious and alone
So I called a friend to make me feel ok
And for a moment I found myself
Angry at him for offering help
When I should have just been grateful
For what he gave

I am learning to love
I am learning to let myself be loved
How did I miss this lesson when I was young?
How did I miss this lesson when I was young?
How did I miss this lesson when I was young?

Be gentle with me
I might not be ready
Be gentle with me
I might not be ready



All comments from YouTube:

@rajnishmishra453

"half of my brain was equally afraid that she'd like me , wanna be my friend ...."
This line

@SOLO-cj7zj

Yup..

@ThePortalGeek1337

This song is still one of the most beautiful and heartfelt songs I’ve ever heard.

@brandondenton494

I put it on repeat, I think, I vibe, then play it again. And again. Oh How I relate...

@jetser24

How did I miss this lesson when I was young?

@adamsimpson1979

Crying bop of the century 😍

@AngelBereje

Wow! That song push me to take the car and drive across lost roads to find myself. Very talented singer-songwriter. I'm happy to discover her with a serendipity.

@JChillz

Chills every time.

@jurnalannisa

My favourite song in 13 Reasons Why

@Miedo5068

Same for my this song te hace sentir dentro de la historia ❤🎧🎶🌌😢

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