Jordan attended Pepperdine University in California to pick up a bachelor's degree in communications, graduating summa cum laude and was a state finalist for the Rhodes Scholarship.
Jordan's first single was the 1995 #1 hit single "This Is How We Do It", and defined his hip hop soul musical style. "This Is How We Do It" and its follow-up, "Somethin' 4 Da Honeyz", show a strong hip hop influence, and Jordan's material fit alongside the rest of Def Jam's output. Future hits would include "Let's Ride" with Master P in 1998 and "Get It on Tonite" in late-1999.
Besides crafting his own material, Jordan has written and produced for a number of outside artists, including Christina Milian, 98 Degrees, Deborah Cox ("Nobody's Supposed to Be Here", 1998), and Sisqó (the number-one hit "Incomplete", 2000). The singer has had cameo roles in the films "The Fighting Temptations" and "The Nutty Professor."
Jordan left Def Soul in 2003 and released the album "Life After Def" on Koch Records.
Jordan released his 7th project - "Let It Rain" - on October 21, 2008.
In 2010, Jordan left the music business to become a minister. As he explained on his Twitter feed, the decision is "a calling that’s probably been with me all my life since I was a child. And I’ve known it. A lot of people in the business know it and have the same calling but that leap of faith is difficult."
Why Can't We
Montell Jordan Lyrics
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How much longer 'til you let me taste your lips?
You can make a nigga wait if that's your thing
But anticipation drivin' me insane
I'm losing my composure
Tryin' to keep my cool
You start me, then you stop me
Sometimes you be actin' so scared
When you know in my heart that I care
[Chorus]
Why can't we, just get past the smalltalk and formalities?
want to tell you that I want you, but it seems so hard
To let down my guard, and reveal my cards
Your body's convincin' me, so why can't we?
Get right to the foreplay, and right now we'll be
Got me dippin' in your ocean, did I go to deep?
I'm just tryin' to see, baby why can't we?
Now I'm working hard to build your trust in me
But I can see that's not gon' happen easily
When you're livin' in your past and in your pain
It's so hard to let your roses bloom again, again
I'm never gonna judge you
Girl you know it's true
I'll take care of your garden
That's what I intend to do
You won't have to be so scared
'Cause you know in my heart that I care
[Chorus: x 2]
See'mon baby, don't hold back, don't hold back
[Give it to me, give it to me]
I can feel you comin' on now (let it go, let it go)
I promise I won't hurt you, it'll be okay
I won't give you more than your body can take
Yeah, yeah
Your juices might flow like a river
'Til your body shakes, here is my plan
So you can come when you want
As long as you want, as loud as you want
Come on, come on
[Chorus: x 2]
Makin' me say, yeah, ooh
[Chorus]
The lyrics to Montell Jordan's song "Why Can't We" depict a man's frustration with his partner's reluctance to engage in sexual intimacy with him. He poses a question about when she will let him taste her lips, expressing his eagerness to move past the formalities and get to the foreplay. However, his partner seems to be held back by her past and her pain, making it difficult for her to open up and trust him. The singer of the song assures her that he will take care of her and not judge her, but her reluctance remains.
The song showcases the tension that arises when sexual desire is unfulfilled in a relationship. The singer is trying to be patient, but the anticipation is driving him insane, and he is losing his composure. He tries to convince his partner that he cares for her and will take care of her, but she is hesitant due to her past experiences. The lyrics highlight the importance of trust and communication in sexual relationships and the negative consequences of holding back.
Line by Line Meaning
Girl I've got a question, here it is
I am about to ask you something important
How much longer 'til you let me taste your lips?
I want to know when we can become more intimate
You can make a nigga wait if that's your thing
I am willing to be patient for you
But anticipation drivin' me insane
Waiting for you is making me go crazy
I'm losing my composure
I am struggling to remain calm
Tryin' to keep my cool
I am attempting to keep my emotions under control
You start me, then you stop me
You are inconsistent with your affections
So what am I supposed to do?
I am confused about how to handle our situation
Sometimes you be actin' so scared
You often seem afraid of getting close to me
When you know in my heart that I care
You should know that I have genuine feelings for you
[Chorus]
Refrain: Why can't we just be intimate without hesitation?
Now I'm working hard to build your trust in me
I am investing time and effort into earning your trust
But I can see that's not gon' happen easily
I understand that it will be difficult for you to trust again
When you're livin' in your past and in your pain
Your past trauma is causing you to be hesitant
It's so hard to let your roses bloom again, again
It is difficult for you to open up and be vulnerable again
I'm never gonna judge you
I will not criticize or judge you for your past experiences
Girl you know it's true
You should trust that I mean what I say
I'll take care of your garden
I will protect and nurture your emotional wellbeing
That's what I intend to do
My goal is to make you feel safe and loved
You won't have to be so scared
I will make sure that you feel secure in our relationship
[Chorus: x 2]
Refrain: Why can't we just be intimate without hesitation?
See'mon baby, don't hold back, don't hold back
Please don't be afraid to be with me
[Give it to me, give it to me]
Please be intimate with me
I can feel you comin' on now (let it go, let it go)
I sense that you are starting to warm up to me
I promise I won't hurt you, it'll be okay
I swear that I will not cause you any pain
I won't give you more than your body can take
I will be respectful of your limits and boundaries
Your juices might flow like a river
You might become aroused and experience pleasure
'Til your body shakes, here is my plan
I will make sure that you feel satisfied and fulfilled
So you can come when you want
You should feel free to orgasm whenever you desire
As long as you want, as loud as you want
You should never feel ashamed or embarrassed about expressing your pleasure
Come on, come on
Let's be intimate without hesitation
[Chorus: x 2]
Refrain: Why can't we just be intimate without hesitation?
Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, THE ADMINISTRATION MP, INC.
Written by: BERNARD EDWARDS, MONTELL JORDAN
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