I'm OK by Myself
Morrissey Lyrics


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Could this be an arm around my waist?
Well, surely the hand contains a knife
It's been so all of my life
Why change now? - "It hasn't!"
Now this might surprise you, but
I find I'm OK by myself
And I don't need you
Or your morality to save me
No, no, no, no, no

Then came an arm around my shoulder
Well surely the hand holds a revolver
It's been so all of my life
Why change now? - "It hasn't!"
Now this might disturb you, but
I find I'm o.k. by myself
And I don't need you
Or your benevolence to make sense
No, no, no!

After all these years
I find I'm OK by myself
And I don't need you
Or your homespun philosophy
No, no, no, no

This might make you throw up in your bed
I'm o.k. by myself!
And I don't need you




And I never have, I never have
No, no, no, no!

Overall Meaning

In "I'm OK by Myself," Morrissey talks about his self-reliance and how he does not need anyone's help or companionship, even if someone seemed like a welcome presence. He starts with the lines, "Could this be an arm around my waist? Well, surely the hand contains a knife. It's been so all of my life. Why change now? - 'It hasn't!'" This illustrates his mistrust in others and how he has always been alone, finding it really hard to trust anyone. Even though someone might come as a comforting presence, Morrissey thinks that they might bring danger about, which is why he would rather be alone. He continues to sing, "Now this might surprise you, but I find I'm OK by myself, And I don't need you or your morality to save me." Here, Morrissey refers to people who would mask their inherent motive of being moralistic towards Morrissey. Morrissey is at ease by himself, and he does not need anyone's guidance on how to live his life.


Furthermore, Morrissey talks about how someone comes close to him, "Then came an arm around my shoulder, Well surely the hand holds a revolver It's been so all of my life Why change now? - "It hasn't!"' He feels the threat of imminent danger even though someone is trying to come near him. The way in which he repeats the phrase "Why change now?" highlights his reluctance to allow anyone to get closer to him. Morrissey believes that he does not need anyone else's help, and he is comfortable on his own. The lyrics convey Morrissey's disillusionment with society and how he has learned to be self-sufficient in a world where he saw no reason to trust those closest to him.


The overall message of "I'm OK by Myself" is Morrissey's sense of self-reliance and his unwillingness to rely on anyone. Morrissey prioritizes his independence and is better off without someone. He even seems to take pride in it and ends the song with the assertion, "This might make you throw up in your bed. I'm OK by myself! And I don't need you, and I never have, I never have. No, no, no, no!"


Line by Line Meaning

Could this be an arm around my waist?
Is someone trying to embrace me? But wait, they might be concealing a weapon.


Well, surely the hand contains a knife
The hand that is embracing me might be holding a knife.


It's been so all of my life
I've always been wary of physical affection due to possible hidden intentions.


Why change now? - "It hasn't!"
There's no reason for me to start trusting people now since my experience has always been the same.


Now this might surprise you, but
I know this may be unexpected to some.


I find I'm OK by myself
I am content with my own company and do not feel the need for companionship.


And I don't need you
I do not require anyone's assistance or support.


Or your morality to save me
I do not need anyone to tell me what is right or wrong.


No, no, no, no, no
Absolutely not.


Then came an arm around my shoulder
Someone has now tried to embrace me from a different angle.


Well surely the hand holds a revolver
The hand that is now embracing me might be concealing a gun.


It's been so all of my life
I've always been suspicious of people and their intentions, even in acts of supposed affection.


Why change now? - "It hasn't!"
There's no reason for me to start trusting people now since my experience has always been the same.


Now this might disturb you, but
This next statement may be unsettling for some to hear.


I find I'm o.k. by myself
I have come to accept and enjoy my solitude.


And I don't need you
I do not need anyone else to make me happy or feel complete.


Or your benevolence to make sense
I do not need anyone's kindness or generosity to understand the world around me.


No, no, no!
Absolutely not!


After all these years
Despite the passage of time and my experiences, my outlook has not changed.


I find I'm OK by myself
I am still comfortable with my own company and do not require anyone else to be content.


And I don't need you
I do not need anyone's help, guidance, or companionship.


Or your homespun philosophy
I do not need anyone to give me their personal wisdom or beliefs about life.


No, no, no, no
Absolutely not.


This might make you throw up in your bed
This statement may make some listeners sick to their stomach.


I'm o.k. by myself!
I am completely content being alone and do not feel the need for anyone else's companionship.


And I don't need you
My happiness and contentment do not depend on anyone else's presence or involvement in my life.


And I never have, I never have
I have always been self-sufficient and have never felt that I needed anyone else to make me happy.


No, no, no, no!
Absolutely not!




Lyrics © Songtrust Ave, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: JESSE ALEJANDRO TOBIAS, STEVEN MORRISSEY, STEVEN PATRICK MORRISSEY

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