That's How People Grow Up
Morrissey Lyrics


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I was wasting my time
Trying to fall in love
Disappointment came to me and
Booted me and bruised and hurt me

That's how people grow up
That's how people grow up
I was wasting my time
Looking for love
Someone must look at me
And see their sunlit dream

I was wasting my time
Praying for love
For a love that never comes from
Someone who does not exist and

That's how people grow up
That's how people grow up

Let me live before I die
Not me, not I!

I was wasting my life
Always thinking about myself
Someone on the deathbed said
"There are other sorrows too"

I was driving my car
I crashed and broke my spine
So yes, there are things worse in life than
Never being someone's sweetie

That's how people grow up
That's how people grow up

That's how people grow up
That's how people grow up





As for me I'm okay
For now anyway

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Morrissey's "That's How People Grow Up" are a reflection on the disillusionment and disappointment experienced by the singer in their pursuit of love. The song's opening lines convey a sense of wasted time and effort in trying to fall in love as the singer experienced hurt and disappointment. However, Morrissey suggests that these experiences are how people grow up - learning from their mistakes and becoming wiser.


The second verse sees the singer continuing to "waste" their time searching for love, but they hope that someone will see them as their "sunlit dream." Yet, the reality is that the love and affection they crave may never come from someone who does not exist. Morrissey seems to be suggesting that it's important to move beyond these idealistic notions of love and focus on personal growth, which is how people mature.


The chorus provides a key message of the song: "That's how people grow up." The singer acknowledges that failure and hardship play an essential role in the process of growing up, and it's crucial that we accept these difficulties. The bridge of the song contains Morrissey's wish to live before dying and to experience life before it's too late, making the most of each moment.


In the final verse, the singer is confronted with a powerful reminder that there are more significant sorrows in life; someone on their deathbed tells them that "other sorrows" exist, implying a kind of wake-up call. The singer then experiences a car crash that results in a broken spine. Here, Morrissey drives home the point that there are indeed worse things in life than not having someone to love, and we should appreciate the simple things that we take for granted.


Overall, "That's How People Grow Up" is a song about learning, growing, and accepting the harsh realities of life. Morrissey delivers a powerful message, urging his listeners to embrace disappointment and find meaning in the face of adversity.


Line by Line Meaning

I was wasting my time
I spent too much time on fruitless endeavors


Trying to fall in love
Attempting to establish a romantic relationship


Disappointment came to me and
I suffered from disappointment


Booted me and bruised and hurt me
It caused me tremendous pain and affected me negatively


That's how people grow up
The hardships in life are what help people mature


I was wasting my time
I wasted my time


Looking for love
Trying to find romantic love


Someone must look at me
Someone must find me attractive


And see their sunlit dream
They must see me as the embodiment of their ideal partner


I was wasting my time
I was wasting my time


Praying for love
Seeking romantic love through prayer


For a love that never comes from
Seeking an unattainable love from


Someone who does not exist and
A non-existent partner


That's how people grow up
The disappointments and unattainable desires in life are what help people mature


Let me live before I die
I want to experience life before it's too late


Not me, not I!
I won't let life pass me by!


I was wasting my life
I was wasting my life


Always thinking about myself
I was too self-centered


Someone on the deathbed said
Someone close to me on their deathbed


"There are other sorrows too"
Reminding me that there are other types of pain and suffering in life


I was driving my car
I was driving alone


I crashed and broke my spine
I had a serious accident and was injured


So yes, there are things worse in life than
There are worse things in life than


Never being someone's sweetie
Not having a romantic partner


That's how people grow up
Life's hardships help us grow and mature beyond our self-centered desires


That's how people grow up
Life challenges make us stronger and help us mature


As for me I'm okay
At the moment, I am fine




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: STEVEN MORRISSEY, MARTIN JAMES BOORER

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Most interesting comments from YouTube:

Miiranda X

I was wasting my time
Trying to fall in love
Disappointment came to me and
Booted me and bruised and hurt me
That's how people grow up
That's how people grow up
I was wasting my time
Looking for love
Someone must look at me
And see their sunlit dream
I was wasting my time
Praying for love
For a love that never comes from
Someone who does not exist and
That's how people grow up
That's how people grow up
Let me live before I die
Not me, not I!
I was wasting my life
Always thinking about myself
Someone on the deathbed said
"There are other sorrows too"
I was driving my car
I crashed and broke my spine
So yes, there are things worse in life than
Never being someone's sweetie
That's how people grow up
That's how people grow up
That's how people grow up
That's how people grow up
As for me I'm okay
For now anyway



Ryski Dewanto

I was wasting my time
Trying to fall in love
Disappointment came to me and
Booted me and bruised and hurt me
That's how people grow up
That's how people grow up
I was wasting my time
Looking for love
Someone must look at me
And see their sunlit dream
I was wasting my time
Praying for love
For a love that never comes from
Someone who does not exist and
That's how people grow up
That's how people grow up
Let me live before I die
Not me, not I!
I was wasting my life
Always thinking about myself
Someone on the deathbed said
"There are other sorrows too"
I was driving my car
I crashed and broke my spine
So yes, there are things worse in life than
Never being someone's sweetie
That's how people grow up
That's how people grow up
That's how people grow up
That's how people grow up
As for me I'm okay
For now anyway



All comments from YouTube:

sea gull

Dear Morrissey...you've been helping me so much to face life lately... I'm very grateful to you...

Elias Correia

Yes ! I feel the same

Michael Dooley Project

same.

M WOLF

+sea gull Man... my exact same thoughts

Gordão Magro

Minha infância assistindo esse clipe na MTV, adorava. Sabia que essa música era do Morissey mas não sabia o nome porque quando era criança não entendia inglês e não lembrava de jeito nenhum nenhuma palavra da música mas felizmente achei.

Claudio Pereira Santos

A letra dessa Musica tem um dos mais Puro sentimentos na letra ke eu ja ouvi é só ouvir a intro ke é de arrepiar.. Muito FOda....

Ruby

Lo amo

Miiranda X

I was wasting my time
Trying to fall in love
Disappointment came to me and
Booted me and bruised and hurt me
That's how people grow up
That's how people grow up
I was wasting my time
Looking for love
Someone must look at me
And see their sunlit dream
I was wasting my time
Praying for love
For a love that never comes from
Someone who does not exist and
That's how people grow up
That's how people grow up
Let me live before I die
Not me, not I!
I was wasting my life
Always thinking about myself
Someone on the deathbed said
"There are other sorrows too"
I was driving my car
I crashed and broke my spine
So yes, there are things worse in life than
Never being someone's sweetie
That's how people grow up
That's how people grow up
That's how people grow up
That's how people grow up
As for me I'm okay
For now anyway

Tormentors

I absolutely love this song describes my situation perfectly,I used to look for love all the time and I always got dissapointed ,hurt and sad. I realised that Morrissey is right,there are worse things in life than never have loved or been loved by somebody.Morrissey has changed my life for the better,he doesn´t know it...yet.

Stevie P

Same here, this song changed my life immeasurably. For years I agonised about being single. Then I heard this song on the radio and it cured me! Pretty much instantly, I learned to just be happy being single and concentrate on all the good things about my life. Absolute life-changer

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