The Conversation
Motion City Soundtrack Lyrics


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Do you remember how we met?
Silhouetted by the lights...
You were drunk and tried to take a mental picture with your hands
I was thinking about that
And a bunch of other things
Stop looking at the floor...
I need to pour out this expansive dose of words.
I can't explain...
I need to be alone.

I know the timing isn't great
But these things, you just can't plan.
I just need a little time
So I can find myself again
'Cause I get buried underneath
All the things they think you are
And I'm too tired to pretend it doesn't hurt
To be left out

I had a pocket full of dreams
But I gave them all to you
Now I think I want them back
So can you tell me if I'm crazy or confused?
Don't ever change




The way you are
I've never loved anyone more.

Overall Meaning

The song "The Conversation" by Motion City Soundtrack is a heartfelt plea of a person asking for some time and space to find themselves back. The lyrics begin with the singer reminiscing about the first meeting with their partner, which started in a rather drunk and awkward manner, but left an indelible mark on their heart. As the song progresses, the singer confesses to feeling overwhelmed by the expectations others have of them in the relationship and that they have lost track of who they are. They seek some alone time to reignite their dreams and get back to the person they once were.


The lyrics are a relatable representation of what many people feel when they get too caught up in their relationships and forget their own dreams and aspirations. The singer's honesty and vulnerability showcase the difficulties that come with giving so much to someone you love and losing yourself in the process. The line "Don't ever change the way you are, I've never loved anyone more" is a reminder that they still love their partner, but they need to find themselves again, and it's not a reflection of any shortcomings in the relationship.


Line by Line Meaning

Do you remember how we met?
Do you recall the first time we crossed paths?


Silhouetted by the lights...
The way the light fell cast our figures in darkness.


You were drunk and tried to take a mental picture with your hands
At the time, you were intoxicated and attempted to capture a mental image using hand gestures.


I was thinking about that
That memory has been occupying my thoughts lately.


And a bunch of other things
Along with other unrelated thoughts.


Stop looking at the floor...
Please give me your attention, don't avoid eye contact.


I need to pour out this expansive dose of words.
I have an overwhelming amount of thoughts I need to express.


I can't explain...
I don't have the words to articulate my feelings.


I need to be alone.
I require solitude to process my emotions.


I know the timing isn't great
I realize this isn't the ideal moment to bring up my thoughts.


But these things, you just can't plan.
Some things in life are unexpected and can't be prepared for.


I just need a little time
All I require is a small amount of time to sort through my feelings.


So I can find myself again
I want to reconnect with my true self and my wants.


'Cause I get buried underneath
I can become emotionally weighed down by


All the things they think you are
The preconceived notions that others have about you can be overwhelming.


And I'm too tired to pretend it doesn't hurt
I don't have the energy to fake not being hurt by it anymore.


To be left out
It hurts when I feel excluded from things.


I had a pocket full of dreams
Once I had a collection of aspirations.


But I gave them all to you
But I relinquished them to you.


Now I think I want them back
Recently, I've been reconsidering whether I should have kept them for myself.


So can you tell me if I'm crazy or confused?
I'm uncertain whether my recent thoughts about my aspirations are reasonable or not.


Don't ever change
Please don't alter who you are.


The way you are
Stay true to yourself.


I've never loved anyone more.
I have never had greater affection for someone than I do for you.




Lyrics © BMG RIGHTS MANAGEMENT US, LLC
Written by: JESSE MACK JOHNSON, JOSHUA ALLEN CAIN, JUSTIN COURTNEY PIERRE, MATTHEW SCOTT TAYLOR, TONY RICHARD THAXTON

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Comments from YouTube:

Miki Seliger

I don't even have a boyfriend and this still makes me emotional. What a wonderful song.

Victor Reis

I'm one month away from my 30th birthday. Today I listend to Motion City Soundtrack in a Spotify playlist. It was the first time in many years since I last listened to them. This song and this album are bringing back some memories of the 15 years-old me. Nostalgia is kicking in pretty hard.

Elliot Skaleski

this song is way too relatable to me

night time television

Ben Folds Five vibes.. I like it

Joe Brommer

Anyone remember the amazing Julia Nunes Cover of this?

Todd Marshall

:(

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