By Her Own Hand
Mudhoney Lyrics


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She cut her face in the mirror last night
Trying to get through to another side

She says she doesn't understand men's pride
She says she can not stand her life

She's looking for any way out
I can't stand what she's thinking about

I want to tell her everything will be all right
But I love her too much, too much to lie

She's looking for any way out
I can't stand what she's thinking about




She's looking for any way out
I can't stand what she's thinking about

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Mudhoney's "By Her Own Hand" depict the struggles and pain of a woman who is deeply unhappy with her life. The first line of the song is particularly poignant, as it sets the stage for the self-destructive behavior that will be revealed later on. The woman has cut her face in the mirror, likely out of a desperate need to feel alive or to escape from her current reality. Despite her efforts, she is still unable to connect with the world around her.


The second verse speaks to the woman's frustration with men, as she cannot comprehend their priorities and priorities. This may speak to a larger societal issue with toxic masculinity, as the woman's experiences may have been shaped by oppressive or abusive men. She proclaims that she cannot stand her life, which underscores her sense of entrapment and hopelessness.


The chorus highlights the singer's love for this woman and his desire to help her find a way out of her pain. However, he is also honest about his inability to fully fix her problems, and the song ends on a somewhat unresolved note. It's a painful and powerful depiction of the complexities of mental health and the struggle to find a way forward.


Line by Line Meaning

She cut her face in the mirror last night
She intentionally harmed her own physical appearance by causing injury to her face while looking at herself in a mirror.


Trying to get through to another side
She was hoping to experience something that would take her away from her current circumstances or state of mind.


She says she doesn't understand men's pride
She is struggling to comprehend the way men behave when it comes to their feelings of self-worth or status.


She says she can not stand her life
She is feeling a great deal of dissatisfaction with her current situation or existence overall.


She's looking for any way out
She is actively searching for something that will help her escape from her problems or misery.


I can't stand what she's thinking about
The singer is troubled by the kinds of thoughts that are occupying the woman's mind.


I want to tell her everything will be all right
The singer feels an urge to provide the woman with comfort or reassurance about her future.


But I love her too much, too much to lie
Despite the artist's desire to alleviate the woman's distress, they cannot bring themselves to tell her a mistruth because their love for her demands truthfulness.


She's looking for any way out
The woman is continuing to seek out ways to escape from her current situation or troubles.


I can't stand what she's thinking about
The artist remains troubled by the woman's persistent negative thoughts.


She's looking for any way out
The woman is still desperately seeking a solution to her problems or a way to leave her present circumstances behind.


I can't stand what she's thinking about
The artist is overwhelmed by the woman's despair and the prospect of her making a hasty or self-destructive decision.




Lyrics © O/B/O APRA AMCOS
Written by: DANIEL PETERS, MARK MCLAUGHLIN, MATTHEW LUKIN, STEVEN TURNER

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