Ditmas
Mumford & Sons Lyrics


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And in time
As one reminds the other of past
A life lived much too fast to hold onto
How am I losing you?

A broken house
Another dry month waiting for the rain
And I had been resisting this decay
I thought you'd do the same

But this is all I ever was
And this is all you came across those years ago
Now you go too far
Don't tell me that I've changed because that's not the truth
And now I'm losing you

Fragile sound
The world outside just watches as we crawl
Crawl towards a life of fragile lines
And wasted time

And so I cry
As I hold you for the last time in this life
This life I tried so hard to give to you
What would you have me do?

But this is all I ever was
And this is all you came across those years ago
Now you go too far
Don't tell me that I've changed because that's not the truth
And now I'm losing you

Where I used to end was where you start
You were the only one
And now I see your eyes move too fast
You were the only one

Careful hands
And wandering without that much to say
Your words are empty as the bed we made
Is there another way?
Oh love, is there another way?

But this is all I ever was
And this is all you came across those years ago
Now you go too far
Don't tell me that I've changed because that's not the truth
And now I'm losing you





And now I'm losing you

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Mumford & Sons's song Ditmas poignantly explore the theme of loss and heartbreak that comes with the end of a relationship. The opening lines set the tone for the rest of the song as they describe the pain and confusion that comes with the realization that a loved one is slipping away: "And in time, as one reminds the other of past, a life lived much too fast to hold onto, how am I losing you?" The singer reflects on the decay of their relationship and the resistance they had to acknowledging it, thinking that their partner continues to hold the same level of commitment: "Another dry month waiting for the rain, and I had been resisting this decay, I thought you'd do the same."


The refrain beautifully articulates the desperation and anguish of the singer as they plead with their partner, mourning the loss of their love: "But this is all I ever was, and this is all you came across those years ago, now you go too far, don't tell me that I've changed because that's not the truth, and now I'm losing you." The song culminates in a heart-wrenching moment where the singer holds their partner for the last time, reflecting on the life they tried to build together: "And so I cry, as I hold you for the last time in this life, this life I tried so hard to give to you, what would you have me do?"


Overall, Ditmas is a melancholic reflection on the pain of losing someone you loved deeply. The lyrics are beautifully written and convey the depth of emotion that comes with heartbreak.


Line by Line Meaning

And in time
As time goes by


As one reminds the other of past
As one person reminds the other of their shared past experiences


A life lived much too fast to hold onto
A life that went by too quickly and is hard to grasp onto


How am I losing you?
Expressing confusion over the loss of a loved one


A broken house
A home in disrepair that reflects a broken relationship


Another dry month waiting for the rain
A metaphor for waiting for something good to come in a time of drought


And I had been resisting this decay
Trying to hold onto something that is slowly falling apart


I thought you'd do the same
Assuming that the other person would also try to resist the decay


But this is all I ever was
Acknowledging that their past self was not enough


And this is all you came across those years ago
The person they love only saw one part of them from their past


Now you go too far
The person they love has changed too much and is now too far away


Don't tell me that I've changed because that's not the truth
Defending themselves against accusations and claiming that they haven't changed


And now I'm losing you
Describing the sadness and pain of losing the person they love


Fragile sound
A metaphor for the relationship that is hanging on by a thread


The world outside just watches as we crawl
Feeling like they are being watched and judged by others as the relationship deteriorates


Crawl towards a life of fragile lines
Trying to move forward slowly and cautiously in a relationship that is on the brink of breaking


And wasted time
Regretting the time that was spent in the relationship that is no longer salvageable


And so I cry
Expressing the pain and sorrow of the situation


As I hold you for the last time in this life
Describing the bittersweet moment of holding onto someone for the last time


This life I tried so hard to give to you
Failing to give the other person a good life despite their best efforts


What would you have me do?
Asking the other person for guidance in what to do in the current situation


Where I used to end was where you start
Describing the way their strengths and weaknesses complemented each other in the past


You were the only one
Acknowledging that the person they love is irreplaceable


And now I see your eyes move too fast
Noticing a change in their loved one's behavior and how they're moving on too quickly


Careful hands
A metaphor for handling a delicate situation


And wandering without that much to say
Feeling lost and unsure of what to do or say


Your words are empty as the bed we made
Feeling like the intimacy that once existed in the relationship is now gone


Is there another way?
Asking if there is another solution or path forward in the relationship


Oh love, is there another way?
Asking the person they love for another plan or solution in the relationship


And now I'm losing you
Repeating the final line to emphasize the sadness and finality of the situation




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: BENJAMIN WALTER DAVID LOVETT, EDWARD JAMES MILTON DWANE, MARCUS OLIVER JOHNSTONE MUMFORD, WINSTON AUBREY ALADAR MARSHALL

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And in time
As one reminds the other of the past
A life lived much too fast to hold onto
How am I losing you?

A broken house
Another dry month waiting for the rain
And I had been resisting this decay
I thought you'd do the same

[Hook:]
But this is all I ever was
And this is all you came across those years ago
Now you go too far
Don't tell me that I've changed because that's not the truth
And now I'm losing you

[Verse 2:]
Fragile sound
The world outside just watches as we crawl
Crawl towards a life of fragile lines
And wasted time

And so I cry
As I hold you for the last time in this life
This life I tried so hard to give to you
What would you have me do?

[Hook]

[Bridge:]
Where I used to end was where you start
You were the only one
And now I see your eyes move too fast
You were the only one

[Verse 3:]
Careful hands
And wandering without that much to say
Your words are empty as the bed we made
Is there another way?
Oh love, is there another way?

[Hook]

And now I'm losing you



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@laxplaya1346

Never losing faith in you guys. You'll be with me the rest of my life.

@Haaamoon

I feel you Bro, same for me

@utopia7067

Agree!! Amazing video !

@mel_nomato

Completly agreed! I just love this guys so fucking  much!

@tomadams911

Agreed😝

@metalangel01

RT Geary I feel the same way.

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@TheChrisHobsonProject

Banjo or no banjo, they're still Mumford & sons and they're still fucking awesome.

@catmom1322

I agree, but I do hope they make more music WITH the banjo. I love them either way:)

@DarkFrontier1

YES MATEEEEEEEEE

@Shaikat4U

i love without banjo more

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