I Want You to Want Me
NOFX Lyrics


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Jenny, so many times I tried to get away
But you kept following me all over town
I'll display it, there's no way to say it
I don't just want you,

I just don't want you around,
I don't want you around,
You follow me around
It's really bringing me down
I don't want you around

When it was time to go I had nothing to say
Don't you look at me,
Don't you look at me that way
"I love you!" Oh, really? Please go away

What gave you the idea?
Get it out of your head
You follow us around
We're not the Grateful Dead

I wanted to be friends but you wanted more




So, like I told you before
I don't want you around

Overall Meaning

These lyrics by American punk rock band NOFX in their song "I Want You to Want Me" express the frustration and exasperation of one party of an unwanted romantic pursuit. The singer, Jenny, has been following the singer around town and professing their love, but the singer tries to make it clear that they do not reciprocate those feelings and just want Jenny to stay away. The singer is feeling suffocated and burdened by this unwanted attention.


At the same time, the song can be interpreted as a commentary on societal norms and expectations surrounding romantic relationships. Even though it's made clear that the singer does not want to be in a relationship with Jenny, there is a certain pressure for them to feel obligated to reciprocate or at least not hurt Jenny's feelings. The lyrics highlight how difficult it can be for someone who is not interested in someone else to navigate this social obligation while still being true to themselves.


Overall, "I Want You to Want Me" is a powerful commentary on the complexities of romantic relationships and the pressures that society places on individuals to conform to certain expectations. It's a relatable song for anyone who has ever been in a situation where they're not interested in someone else, but struggle with finding a way to communicate that without causing pain.


Line by Line Meaning

Jenny, so many times I tried to get away
The singer has attempted to distance themselves from Jenny multiple times.


But you kept following me all over town
Despite the singer's efforts to get away, Jenny continues to pursue and follow them.


I'll display it, there's no way to say it
The singer struggles to express their feelings towards Jenny.


I don't just want you,
The artist has no romantic interest in Jenny.


I just don't want you around,
The artist wishes for Jenny to leave them alone and stop following them.


You follow me around
Jenny stalks and follows the singer constantly.


It's really bringing me down
Jenny's constant presence is negatively affecting the singer.


I don't want you around
The artist reiterates their desire for Jenny to leave them alone.


When it was time to go I had nothing to say
The artist has nothing left to say to Jenny after multiple attempts to distance themselves.


Don't you look at me,
The artist is uncomfortable with Jenny's gaze.


Don't you look at me that way
The singer does not appreciate the way Jenny is looking at them.


"I love you!" Oh, really? Please go away
Despite Jenny's declaration of love, the artist wants her to leave them alone.


What gave you the idea?
The singer questions why Jenny believes they are in a romantic relationship.


Get it out of your head
The singer wants Jenny to stop thinking that there is something more between them.


You follow us around
Jenny follows the singer and their group of friends around.


We're not the Grateful Dead
The artist's group of friends is not a band to be followed around like the Grateful Dead.


I wanted to be friends but you wanted more
The artist intended for their relationship with Jenny to be platonic, but she desired something more.


So, like I told you before
The singer has previously told Jenny that they are not interested in a romantic relationship.


I don't want you around
The song ends with the singer firmly stating their desire for Jenny to leave them alone.




Lyrics Ā© Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: MIKE BURKETT

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Comments from YouTube:

@Anderson-rt7yk

The song is fun enough to fool us into the flow of the music as soon as we hear the first lines that really sounds like fat Mike. The fact that we end up noticing something is off with Fat Mike. We wonder how much of us want to like the music. How much of us just not want because it's not what wanted. the music becomes a mythic artistical creation of which we see the cognitive dissonance of emotional possitivelness and negativeness go up and down in the line of avaliation of the quality (aesthetics + emotional bias) of the music.
A great number seem to just forget that we were supposed to think it was fat Mike, it's a great song anyway. You can see a kind of sense of intensity of how unsure people are that are sure of saying what they have said.
Most say yeah, it's a good song, but leave it at it.

@slash2jimi

I love NOFX songs!

@amberandjustin25

slash2jimi not nofx

@JoseLopez89213

When I heard this as a kid, I could've sworn that it was Nofx.

@fullskapunkalchemist3471

The fact that you only wrote nofx 3 times in the description was great. So long and thanks for all the propaghandi.

@regalbeagle780

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@aionadevilsadvocate5845

Haha good to know that this is propaghandi, for years I had this track on mp3 ( as in around 98 latest ) and being in new zealand we didn't get much punk over here. Good to have this cleared up. Cheers.

@Sessodj

Me too

@juniorjr6413

i love the ohhh megan part. idc what band did it

@drewallworth

this actually isn't bad... definitely not NOFX but who is it?

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