Party Girl
Nanci Griffith Lyrics


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She was a party girl
Now the party's over
she was a beauty
And that's changing too
Now she's barefoot and having babies
She was a party girl
Now the party's over
Now her husband watches TV
After working hard all day
And she's crying into her pillow
'cause it's night time
and she want's to play

She was a party girl
Now the party's over
she was a beauty
And that's changing too
Now she's barefoot and having babies
She was a party girl
Now the party's over

She can't cry to mama
She can't go home to daddy any more
They both tried to warn her
she was throwing away her sweet young life
When she walked out that door

She was a party girl
Now the party's over
she was a beauty
And that's changing too
Now she's barefoot and having babies




She was a party girl
Now the party's over

Overall Meaning

In Nanci Griffith's song Party Girl, the lyrics describe the life of a woman who used to live a carefree existence as a party girl. The song paints a picture of her transformation from a fun-loving, attractive young woman to a mother living a quiet life at home. The lyrics suggest that the woman may now regret her past choices and long for the excitement and freedom of her former life.


The first verse sets the scene by introducing the woman as someone who used to be the life of the party. But now, that has all changed. She no longer parties and even her physical appearance has changed - she is no longer the "beauty" she once was. Instead, she has settled down and is raising children, living a much more subdued life. The second verse gives a glimpse into what her life is like now. Her husband works hard all day and is now watching TV, while she is left alone feeling sad and isolated. She wants to go out and have fun, but is unable to do so.


The third verse reveals that she no longer has anyone to turn to for comfort. She cannot cry to her mother or go home to her father - they had warned her about the dangers of the party lifestyle, but she didn't listen. She is now living with the consequences of her choices, and the party is well and truly over.


Overall, Griffith's lyrics in Party Girl convey a sense of regret and remorse for choices made in youth, and the consequences of abandoning caution for a life more carefree.


Line by Line Meaning

She was a party girl
She used to go out and have fun with friends, perhaps to the point of excess.


Now the party's over
She no longer engages in those wild and carefree activities.


She was a beauty
In the past, she was physically attractive.


And that's changing too
Her physical appearance is undergoing change, possibly as a result of motherhood and aging.


Now she's barefoot and having babies
She is a mother, spending her time managing a household and raising children.


She can't cry to mama
She cannot seek comfort or advice from her mother.


She can't go home to daddy any more
She cannot return to her father's house, perhaps because she is married and has her own family or because of a strained relationship.


They both tried to warn her
Her parents cautioned her about the path she was taking.


she was throwing away her sweet young life
Her parents believed that she was wasting her youth and potential by engaging in reckless behavior.


When she walked out that door
She left her parents' home and lifestyle to pursue her own choices.


Now her husband watches TV
Her partner spends his evenings relaxing in front of the television.


After working hard all day
He has spent his day laboring at a job, likely to provide for his family.


And she's crying into her pillow
She is emotional, possibly feeling overwhelmed or unfulfilled with her current circumstances.


'cause it's night time
These feelings may be exacerbated by the quiet and darkness of the nighttime.


and she want's to play
She longs for the days when she could let loose and enjoy herself, without the responsibilities of motherhood.




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: DEE MOELLER

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