Wives And Lovers
Nancy Wilson Lyrics


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Hey, little girl, comb your hair, fix your make-up, soon he will
open the door,
Don?t think because there?s a ring on your finger, you needn?t
try any more.
For wives should always be lovers too,
Run to his arms the moment that he comes home to you.
I?m warning you,
Day after day, there are girls at the office and the men will
always be men,
Don?t stand him up, with your hair still in curlers, you may not
see him again.
Wives should always be lovers too,
Run to his arms the moment he comes home to you.
He?s almost here, hey, little girl, better wear something
pretty,
Something you wear to go to the city,
Dim all the lights, pour the wine, start the music, time to get
ready for love.




Time to get ready for love, yes it?s time to get ready for love,
It?s time to get ready, kick your shoes off, baby....,

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Nancy Wilson's song "Wives and Lovers" were written in 1963 by Burt Bacharach and Hal David. The song has a jazzy and cheerful melody that contrasts with the lyrics' message. The song's first verses instruct married women to maintain their beauty and appearance to please their husbands. The lyrics suggest that wives bear the responsibility of ensuring that their husbands remain interested and attracted to them. The line, "for wives should always be lovers too," implies that it is the wife's duty to keep the romance alive in the marriage. The song also advises women not to neglect their appearance, especially when their husbands come home to avoid losing them to the competition, like female coworkers, who may attempt to steal their husbands.


The chorus emphasizes the message that wives need to be attentive to their husbands and always ready to please them with love and affection, both physically and emotionally, as soon as they arrive home. The song has a condescending tone towards women, suggesting that their worth lies mainly in their beauty and their ability to please their husbands. It is a reminder of the traditional sexist notion that women should submit to the wishes and desires of their husbands to keep them happy and committed.


Despite the sexist message of the song, "Wives and Lovers" has become a classic and has been covered by several artists over the years. The song's cheerful tune and catchy lyrics made it popular and recognizable, especially during the early 1960s when it was released. Nonetheless, it serves as a stark reminder of the misogynistic attitudes prevalent during that era.


Line by Line Meaning

Hey, little girl, comb your hair, fix your make-up, soon he will open the door,
Prepare yourself and look good because your husband is about to come home.


Don’t think because there’s a ring on your finger, you needn’t try any more.
Just because you are married does not mean you should neglect your appearance and stop putting in effort to make your husband attracted to you.


For wives should always be lovers too, Run to his arms the moment that he comes home to you.
Being a wife does not mean that you should stop being a lover to your husband. Always show him love and affection as soon as he comes home.


I’m warning you, Day after day, there are girls at the office and the men will always be men,
Men will always be tempted by other women, especially those they come in contact with every day such as co-workers at the office.


Don’t stand him up, with your hair still in curlers, you may not see him again.
Don't neglect your appearance when he comes home, as it may be the last time you see him if you do.


Wives should always be lovers too, Run to his arms the moment he comes home to you.
Reinforcing the message that being a wife does not excuse you from being a lover to your husband. Show him love and affection as soon as he comes home.


He’s almost here, hey, little girl, better wear something pretty, Something you wear to go to the city,
Make sure you wear something nice and attractive to impress your husband when he comes home.


Dim all the lights, pour the wine, start the music, time to get ready for love.
Get into the mood for love by creating a romantic atmosphere with dimmed lights, wine, and music.


Time to get ready for love, yes it’s time to get ready for love, It’s time to get ready, kick your shoes off, baby....,
Get ready to show love and affection to your husband. Take off your shoes and relax while showing him love.




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: BURT BACHARACH, HAL DAVID

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Comments from YouTube:

@sawdustcaesar6853

Beautiful voice and a swinging groove.

@mysteriomartinez8239

By far the BEST cover of this song.

@David-td9fe

Love Nancy's version, love Dionne's version. Both beautiful renditions.

@jazziejackie7206

Love this reality song.
Miss you Nancy Wilson 8/10/21

@calamity2383

This is my favourite version ❤️

@jerrodshackelford6773

this recording saved my marriage

@MadameLadyM

Time to get ready for Loveeeee!

@animalmini1

Would love for them to do a man's version now

@todroulette6381

He is almost there! 

@vickywilliams9444

R.I.P and Love🌹

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