Looking Back
Nat King Cole Lyrics


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Looking back over my life
I can see where I caused you strife
But I know, oh yes, I know
I'd never make that same mistake again

Looking back over my deeds
I can see signs a wise man heeds
And if I just had the chance
I'd never make that same mistake again

Once my cup was overflowing
But I gave nothing in return
Now I can't begin to tell you
What a lesson I have learned

Looking back over the slate
I can see love turned to hate




But I know, oh yes I know
I'd never make that same mistake again

Overall Meaning

The song "Looking Back" by Nat King Cole is a reflective and introspective ballad about personal growth and regret. The first verse begins with the singer acknowledging the mistakes he has made in the past that have caused strife in his life, specifically towards the person he is singing to. However, he then states that he has learned from these mistakes and would never make them again. This theme of personal growth and redemption continues throughout the song as the singer reflects on other past actions that have caused him regret.


The second verse focuses on the lessons he has learned and the signs of a wise man that he should have heeded. The singer admits that he was once selfish and took more than he gave, but now realizes the value of giving back to others. The final verse delves deeper into the singer's past mistakes, including a turning point where love turned to hate due to his actions. However, he again reiterates that he has learned from these mistakes and would never repeat them.


Overall, the lyrics of "Looking Back" convey a sense of self-reflection and personal growth. The singer acknowledges his past mistakes and regrets, but also emphasizes the importance of learning from them and striving to be better in the future.


Line by Line Meaning

Looking back over my life
As I reflect on my past experiences and choices


I can see where I caused you strife
I am able to recognize the instances where I caused pain or difficulty to someone close to me


But I know, oh yes, I know
However, I understand and acknowledge


I'd never make that same mistake again
That I would not repeat those same poor choices in the future


Looking back over my deeds
Upon reflection of my actions


I can see signs a wise man heeds
I can identify the warning signs or lessons that a wise person would take notice of


And if I just had the chance
If given an opportunity


I'd never make that same mistake again
I would not repeat the same mistake in the future


Once my cup was overflowing
At one point in my life, I had an abundance of something


But I gave nothing in return
However, I did not reciprocate or give back in equal measure


Now I can't begin to tell you
Now, I cannot express or describe to you


What a lesson I have learned
What an important life lesson I have gained from that experience


Looking back over the slate
Reflecting on the events and relationships in my past


I can see love turned to hate
I can recognize instances where affection or fondness were replaced by hostility or anger


But I know, oh yes I know
Despite this, I still understand and acknowledge


I'd never make that same mistake again
That I would not repeat those same negative actions or behaviors in the future




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: Belford C. Hendricks, Brook Benton, Clyde Otis

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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

@sauquoit13456

On this day in 1958 {May 4th} "Looking Back" by Nat King Cole peaked at #2 {for 1 week} on Billboard's Most-Played R&B Records By Jockeys chart, the week it was at #2, the #1 record for that week was "Wear My Ring Around Your Neck' by Elvis Presley...
And also at the time, "Looking Back" was at #4 on Billboard's Best Selling R&B Records In Stores chart...
Between 1942 and 1991 the Montgomery, Alabama native had thirty nine records on the Billboard's R&B charts, thirty one made the Top 10 with six reaching #1...
His "Unforgettable" charted twice, in 1951 it peaked at #12, then as a duet with his daughter Natalie Cole, it reached #10 in 1991...
Sadly, Nat King Cole, born Nathaniel Adams Coles, passed away at the young age of 45 on February 15th, 1965 {lung cancer}...
May he R.I.P.
* "Looking Back" was Mr. Cole's fourth of four of his records to peak at #2, his other three #2 records were "I Can't See For Lookin'" {1944}, "I'm A Shy Guy" {1945}, and "Nature Boy" {1948}...
And from the 'For What It's Worth' department, the remainder of the Most-Played R&B Records By Jockeys' Top 10 on May 4th, 1958:
At #3. "Twilight Time" by the Platters
#4. "Witch Doctor" by David Seville
#5. "Johnny B. Goode" by Chuck Berry
#6. "Talk To Me, Talk To Me" by Little Willie John
#7. "What Am I Living For" by Chuck Willis
#8. "To Be Loved" by Jackie Wilson
#9. "All I Have Do To Is Dream" by the Everly Brothers
#10. "He's Got The Whole World In His Hand" by Laurie London



All comments from YouTube:

@patriciapierre878

This. song. is. dedicated. to. my. late. Mum. who. passed. away. some. nine. weeks. ago. Mum. just. simply. loved. this. song. Mum,. wherever. you. are,. I. hope. you. will. continue. enjoying. it.

@100AMBUS

this was my mom's favorite song.. my daughter played this for her as she laid sick in the hospital.. she smiled and said NAT KING COLE...   RIP MOM RIP

@cammiesmith632

mike collymore it was my uncle fav as well he was like a father to me and leading up to his death he use to sing it to me..... RIP uncle

@garylykins2584

I listened to this song back in my junior year in high school, I was always looking back, I am 73 now, and still looking back. Funny how time slips away. Great song, great lyrics and it brings back great memories.

@hillaryndimele4858

I have listened to this wonderful song still my childhood and it brings sweet memories all the time....

@ruthiecampbellcampbell1247

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@richardmalig42

True.....I am in my early 70s.....how time slips away....

@rickrick5041

It's so easy to have a great song like this. All you need is an absolutely perfect voice in every way, great lyrics, great musicians, be able to tell a story with your heart and mean it, and be Nat King Cole

@user-kt9wr6ut7f

MR NAT KING COLE WAS AND IS ONE OF THE GREATEST SINGERS EVER IN HIS OWN RIGHT , HE COULD GO FROM LOW TO HIGH WITH THE GREATEST OF EASE, AWESOME AND DYNAMIC.

@kernal1042

im 80 and looking back,,,amazing how i listen in my teens at this song and it fits today

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