Too Young to Go Steady
Nat King Cole Lyrics


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Too young to go steady, too young
I hear him (her) say.
He (she) says I'm (we're) not ready
But then why am I (are we) feeling this way?

Too young so he (she) tells me
He (she) says we'll have to wait.
Why wait till it may be too late?

Can't he (she) realize he (she) drive me wild
Is he (she) made of stone?
Must he (she) always treat me (act just) like a child?

Won't he (she) ever own up
I'm (we're) grown up?
Some day he'll (she'll) be sorry




Some day just wait and see
He'll (she'll) wish he'd (she'd) gone steady with me!

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of the song Too Young To Go Steady are sung with an underlying melancholic tone that is typical of Nat King Cole's genre of music. The song presents the perspective of a person who is experiencing the initial stages of love, but unfortunately, the love interest isn't ready to commit yet. The song portrays a frustrating situation where the person is unable to comprehend why the love interest is holding back from a possible relationship, while the person is experiencing strong emotions towards them. The sentiment of the lyrics is relatable to anyone who has experienced unrequited love.


The lyrics begin with the first-person narrator, probably a woman, relaying her feelings to her love interest, who responds by saying they're too young for any elaborate emotional commitment. Thus, the singer is filled with frustration, unable to comprehend why their love, which they describe as causing them to be "wild" with passion, is being dismissed on the grounds of their age. The question arises; why must they wait until some unspecified future date to express their feelings and emotions? Finally, the singer is eager for the day when their love interest will understand their emotions and feel regretful that they did not take them seriously.


Line by Line Meaning

Too young to go steady, too young
The singer is deemed too young to commit to a serious relationship.


He (she) says I'm (we're) not ready
Their romantic partner suggests that they are not yet prepared to explore their potential as a couple.


But then why am I (are we) feeling this way?
Despite their partner's misgivings, the singer cannot ignore the feelings of affection and attraction they have for them.


Too young so he (she) tells me
The partner repeats that they are too young to make a serious commitment, indicating their reluctance to engage in a relationship at the current time.


He (she) says we'll have to wait.
Their partner insists that they bide their time before making any major decisions about their relationship.


Why wait till it may be too late?
The singer questions the logic of delaying a potentially fulfilling relationship until it may be too late to pursue it further.


Can't he (she) realize he (she) drives me wild
The singer expresses frustration that their partner is unable to appreciate the depth of their feelings for them, which are strong and intense.


Is he (she) made of stone?
The artist wonders if their romantic partner is emotionally incapable of reciprocating their feelings, given their repeated rejections of a committed relationship.


Must he (she) always treat me (act just) like a child?
The artist feels belittled by their partner's insistence on treating them as though they lack the emotional maturity to pursue a committed relationship.


Won't he (she) ever own up
The artist expresses frustration that their partner refuses to be truthful about their feelings and intentions, despite the obvious affection between them.


I'm (we're) grown up?
The singer insists that they are mature enough to handle the complexities of a romantic relationship, and deserve to be treated as such.


Some day he'll (she'll) be sorry
The artist foresees their partner regretting their decision not to pursue a committed relationship, especially given the depth of their feelings for each other.


Some day just wait and see
The singer is confident that, in time, their partner will come to see the error of their ways and regret not pursuing a relationship with them.


He'll (she'll) wish he'd (she'd) gone steady with me!
The singer asserts that, given their strong connection and mutual affection, their partner will ultimately come to regret not pursuing a committed relationship with them.




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: Harold Adamson, Jimmy Mc Hugh

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Comments from YouTube:

Jber95

My dad was a huge Nat fan and loved this song but could never find it. I found it for him so he had it to enjoy before he died. It is one of many Nat King Cole classics.

Alfonso Izaguirre

My dad listened to Nat all the time, but I’ll be honest, it’s my first time hearing this version. He nailed it!

Corrie121

What a delight it is to listen to this great recording again. This is a great favourite from my National Service days in the Royal Air force. Loved it in 1956, and I still do. Thank you for sharing.

antonio campaneflho

parabéns grandes orquestras

Bud Lehn

I love this recording by Nat. It is lovely.

Michael Chapman

Another great Nat Cole song is "That Sunday That Summer"...... 'Nat recorded with Ralph Carmichael & His Orchestra- with Ralph's arrangement on May 16th, 1963 at Capitol Records on N Vine St.W/Britain's Cliff Adams Singers

Tony Learner

My favorite ROMANTIC SINGER of all time -- Nat King Cole!

keith leggett

I will always remember this song - It was the first time I had sung "solo"(around the "halls" England 1956. I now live
in New Zealand and still sing "solo" at the age of 84. (mainly retirement villages etc).

sauquoit13456

On this day in 1956 {May 6th} Nat 'King' Cole performed "Too Young To Go Steady" on the CBS-TV Sunday night variety program 'The Ed Sullivan Show'...
At the time the song was at #43* on Billboard's Top 100 chart; and on April 12th it had peaked at #21 {for 1 week} on Billboard's Most Played By Jockeys chart...
Two other versions of the song also made the Top 100; Patti Page {#73, also in 1956} and Connie Stevens {#71 in 1960}...
Sadly, Nathaniel Adams Coles passed away at the young age of 45 on February 15th, 1965...
May he R.I.P.
* According to Billboard "Too Young To Go Steady" was tied at #43 with "My Little Angel" by the Four Lads...

Gary K. Nedrow

If Nat King Cole was 25 today, who would record him? In the recording industry today, noise and flash have supplanted competence and intimacy. Thank heaven, he was born in an era that appreciated ballads and those who sang them well.

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