S.O.B.
Nathaniel Rateliff & the Night Sweats Lyrics


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I'm gonna need someone to help me
I'm gonna need somebody's hand
I'm gonna need someone to hold me down
I'm gonna need someone to care
I'm gonna writhe and shake my body
I'll start pulling out my hair
I'm going to cover myself with
The ashes of you and nobody's gonna give a damn

Son of a bitch
Give me a drink
One more night
This can't be me
Son of a bitch
If I can't get clean
I'm gonna drink my life away

Oh oh
Oh oh
Oh oh oh oh oh
Oh oh
Oh oh
Oh oh oh oh oh

Now for seventeen years I've been throwing them back
Seventeen more will bury me
Can somebody please just tie me down
Or somebody give me a goddamn drink

Son of a bitch
Give me a drink
One more night
This can't be me
Son of a bitch
If I can't get clean
I'm gonna drink my life away

Mhm, mhm
Mhm, mhm, mhm, mhm
Mhm, mhm
Mhm, mhm, mhm, mhm

My heart was breaking, hands are shaking, bugs are crawling all over me
My heart was breaking, hands are shaking, bugs are crawling all over me
My heart was breaking, hands are shaking, bugs are crawling all over me
My heart was breaking, hands are shaking, bugs are crawling all over me

Son of a bitch
Give me a drink
One more night
This can't be me
Son of a bitch
If I can't get clean
I'm gonna drink my life away

Son of a bitch
Give me a drink
Son of a bitch
This can't be me
Son of a bitch
If I can't get clean
I'm gonna drink my life away

Oh oh
Oh oh
Oh oh oh oh oh
Oh oh
Oh oh
Oh oh oh oh oh

Oh oh
Oh oh
Oh oh oh oh oh
Oh oh




Oh oh
Oh oh oh oh oh

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Nathaniel Rateliff & the Night Sweats's "S.O.B." tell the story of someone who is struggling with addiction and desperately needs help. The opening lines show the person needs someone to support them through their troubles, with the lines, "I'm gonna need someone to help me/I'm gonna need somebody's hand/I'm gonna need someone to hold me down/I'm gonna need someone to care." However, the rest of the song portrays the singer's desperation for a drink and how it has taken over their life, as they sing "Son of a bitch/Give me a drink/One more night/This can't be me/Son of a bitch/If I can't get clean/I'm gonna drink my life away."


The singer is at the end of their rope and seems to have given up on anyone helping them as they sing "I'm going to cover myself with/The ashes of you and nobody's gonna give a damn." The repetition of the lines "My heart was breaking, hands are shaking, bugs are crawling all over me" in the bridge of the song reinforces their desperation and the physical toll addiction has taken on them.


Line by Line Meaning

I'm gonna need someone to help me
I can't do this alone, I need someone to assist me.


I'm gonna need somebody's hand
I need a friend or loved one to hold my hand and guide me through this.


I'm gonna need someone to hold me down
I'm feeling out of control and need someone to ground me.


I'm gonna need someone to care
I need someone to show me love and concern for my well-being.


I'm gonna writhe and shake my body
I'm going to be overcome with emotion and my body will respond accordingly.


I'll start pulling out my hair
I'm going to be so overwhelmed that I'll resort to self-destructive behavior.


I'm going to cover myself with
I'll use the remnants of this failed relationship as a sort of armor.


The ashes of you and nobody's gonna give a damn
I'll be left with nothing but the remains of this relationship and nobody will care.


Son of a bitch
Exclamation of frustration.


Give me a drink
I need alcohol to numb my pain.


One more night
One final night of indulgence before I try to turn things around.


This can't be me
I can't believe I've become this version of myself.


If I can't get clean
If I can't overcome my addiction and destructive behavior.


I'm gonna drink my life away
I'll continue down this path until it destroys me.


Now for seventeen years I've been throwing them back
I've been struggling with addiction for a long time.


Seventeen more will bury me
If I don't get clean soon, my addiction will kill me.


Can somebody please just tie me down
I need someone to physically restrain me from drinking or acting out.


Or somebody give me a goddamn drink
If nobody will stop me, I'll continue to indulge in my addiction.


My heart was breaking, hands are shaking, bugs are crawling all over me
I'm experiencing extreme physical and emotional symptoms of withdrawal.


Oh oh
Refrain used to emphasize the severity of the situation.


Mhm, mhm
Vocalizations used to express distress.




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Written by: Nathaniel Rateliff

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Most interesting comments from YouTube:

@fr4dj0e55

Actually its about quitting drinking. He says:
Son of a bitch, give me a drink.
One more night, this cant be me.
Son of a bitch, if i cant get clean
I'm gonna drink my life away.

For 17 years I've been throwing them back
17 more will be bury me.

That's definitely about struggling to stay sober.



@jellybathwater

@@christine6878 Its especially hard for families of alcoholics. Heres the cold hard truth from a (recovered) alcoholic herself;
You do not come before alcohol. Getting a drink is No1 priority. We don't think of anything else. We don't even enjoy the drink thats in our hands because we are worrying about the next. Loved ones do not take up space in our thoughts unless they are buying. In drink we are the most selfish people on the planet....and we don't care.
You cant make him quit and for that matter, you cant use love/kids/even death to make him stop drinking. We know alcohol will kill us, so if we are not bothered about our own lives, so how do you think your life factors in our thoughts?
You cannot make him quit for anyone. It doesnt work that way. Quitting for someone else never works. Hes got to quit because he wants to.
Rock bottom is not real. People have this notion that if they wait for someone to reach a certain point, things will magically turn around. It almost never happens. Some people have a near death wake up call, this is true. But these are just stories. The hard fact is, rock bottom is death for most of us.
If you enable him, he will use you until there is nothing left. He will drain your soul if it got him another bottle.
Don't think this is a disease. It is not. And it will be removed from the DSM-V as such in the future. (There are plenty of arguments in the science community. Read about it) Alcohol is a choice. The disease part came because they want to sell sobriety (a multi billion dollar business). A disease is physiological. Like cancer, heart disease, etc. You need medication for diseases. For addiction, you just need to stop. You cant just stop having cancer can you?
But,
Alcohol causes disease, you can make your liver better by not drinking (I did)However, there comes a point of no return.
Finally. There is a choice and its yours. I know you probably still love him but that man is no longer there. You are waiting for him to come back and the truth is, people rarely come back from this. I wish it were different for you. But like I tell all long suffering families (im a therapist now) You have to think about your life because at the moment, you arent living and eventually his addiction will consume you entirely. Im sorry for my frankness, but I have this overwhelming urge to not pussyfoot around. People need to know the absolute truth of what it is really about. I wish you all the luck in the world. I also recommend that you talk to someone about what you go through on a daily basis. He may be the alcoholic. But you are the one suffering.



@jackmidiq

Lyrics I'm gonna need someone to help me
I'm gonna need somebody's hand
I'm gonna need someone to hold me down
I'm gonna need someone to care
I'm gonna writhe and shake my body
I'll start pulling out my hair
I'm going to cover myself with
The ashes of you and nobody's gonna give a damn

Son of a bitch
Give me a drink
One more night
This can't be me
Son of a bitch
If I can't get clean
I'm gonna drink my life away

Oh oh
Oh oh
Oh oh oh oh oh
Oh oh
Oh oh
Oh oh oh oh oh

Now for seventeen years I've been throwing them back
Seventeen more will bury me
Can somebody please just tie me down
Or somebody give me a goddamn drink

Son of a bitch
Give me a drink
One more night
This can't be me
Son of a bitch
If I can't get clean
I'm gonna drink my life away

Mhm, mhm
Mhm, mhm, mhm, mhm
Mhm, mhm
Mhm, mhm, mhm, mhm

My heart was breaking, hands are shaking, bugs are crawling all over me
My heart was breaking, hands are shaking, bugs are crawling all over me
My heart was breaking, hands are shaking, bugs are crawling all over me
My heart was breaking, hands are shaking, bugs are crawling all over me

Son of a bitch
Give me a drink
One more night
This can't be me
Son of a bitch
If I can't get clean
I'm gonna drink my life away

Son of a bitch
Give me a drink
Son of a bitch
This can't be me
Son of a bitch
If I can't get clean
I'm gonna drink my life away

Oh oh
Oh oh
Oh oh oh oh oh
Oh oh
Oh oh
Oh oh oh oh oh

Oh oh
Oh oh
Oh oh oh oh oh
Oh oh
Oh oh
Oh oh oh oh oh



All comments from YouTube:

@chunkle0004

I first heard this song years ago on an indie radio station at 4am. I was driving home from my 3rd shift job, through a deserted area of downtown. It roared through the airwaves and lit a fire within me. It saved me from a very deep depression. I don't know why most things happen, but I will be forever grateful that this tune just happened to crackle through the ether that night. If anyone reading this is having a rough go at it, do not give up. You can find yourself again. I promise.

@owendong4166

I just was bored at school and randomly searched up “son of a bitch”
Greatest search I ever made

@HeatherLikesArt

Have you ever thought about writing? That's a good short read, I like the description and word usage. Poetic.
I'm happy that this music helped you.

@owendong4166

Also, good for you

@The_Man-chanic

Amen brother

@glassslippergourmet

Got chills reading this. 🤗

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@AGP187

As an alcoholic. This song makes me feel justified and proud. I might be missing the point.

@akjaded

You just won the internet! I am dying here! :))))))

@mikhailtunnell2304

Bob smith may very well be disappointed in ya but I sure as fuck ain't

@kirstiemunn6449

I feel you 👍

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