Why Does She Stay
Ne-Yo Lyrics


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Why does she stay
Why does she stay, hey
Why does she stay, hey

She hates that I don't do dishes
Even though I mess up the most
And she begs me all the time to help her
I know that I should but I'm lazy so I don't (yeah)
She's always considering my feelings
Thinkin' of me before herself
Most of the time I'm so damn selfish
I don't even realize she treats me so well

She's so much better than me
I'm so unworthy of her
Oh, Why does she stay
Why does she stay, why

She hates that we don't spend much time
We barely see each other at all
She don't even nag me 'bout always working
She just says I just wish every now and then that you'd call
And I don't know why she?s still here
She could have any man that she wants
I step outside of myself
To see how much she loves me
And all the things that I should do for her that I just don't, just don't
And I realize

She's so much better than me
I'm so unworthy of her
Oh, Why does she stay
Why does she stay, why

She's in love
She's in love
She's in love
And I don't understand
And I don't understand
She's in love
She's in love
She's in love
Gotta be a better man for her
So I take my time and do what I'm suppose to do
Because I just cant see my life without you

Oh, oh, yeah

Why does she stay

She's so much better than me
I'm so unworthy of her
Oh, Why does she stay
Why does she stay, why





Why does she stay
Why does she stay

Overall Meaning

The song "Why Does She Stay" by Ne-Yo is a poignant ballad that explores the feelings of guilt and unworthiness that often accompany a relationship where one partner feels they are not doing enough for the other. In this case, Ne-Yo is singing from the perspective of a man who recognizes that he is not doing his fair share in the relationship, yet his partner still chooses to stay with him. He lists various reasons why she should leave him, such as his laziness in doing household tasks and his failure to make time for her, yet despite these flaws, she remains by his side. The chorus, which is repeated several times throughout the song, begs the question, "Why does she stay?"


Through his lyrics, Ne-Yo captures the complex mixture of emotions that can arise in relationships where one partner feels they are undeserving of the other's love. He acknowledges his own flaws and shortcomings, while also recognizing the extent to which his partner goes out of her way to make him happy. The line "She's so much better than me, I'm so unworthy of her" is particularly poignant, as it encapsulates the sense of inferiority that often fuels feelings of guilt and self-doubt in relationships.


Overall, "Why Does She Stay" is a touching and honest exploration of the complexities of love and commitment. It is a reminder that even in relationships where one partner feels they are not doing enough, there can still be a deep and abiding love that keeps them together.


Line by Line Meaning

Why does she stay
The singer is questioning why his significant other continues to stay with him despite his flaws and mistakes.


Why does she stay, hey
The singer repeats the question in a more emotional tone, showing his confusion and desperation for an answer.


Why does she stay, hey
The singer repeats the question again, emphasizing his continued confusion and lack of understanding.


She hates that I don't do dishes
The singer's significant other dislikes that he does not help with household chores, despite making mistakes in other areas.


Even though I mess up the most
The singer acknowledges that he is not perfect and makes mistakes, but still fails to help his significant other with chores.


And she begs me all the time to help her
Despite her dislike for the singer's lack of help with chores, she still pleads for him to assist her.


I know that I should but I'm lazy so I don't (yeah)
The singer admits that his failure to help with chores is due to his own laziness and lack of motivation.


She's always considering my feelings
The singer's significant other always takes his feelings into consideration when making decisions or taking actions.


Thinkin' of me before herself
The singer's significant other prioritizes his needs over her own, always putting him first.


Most of the time I'm so damn selfish
The singer admits that he is often selfish and fails to reciprocate the selflessness of his significant other.


I don't even realize she treats me so well
The singer fails to appreciate the good treatment he receives from his significant other, taking it for granted.


She's so much better than me
The singer recognizes that his significant other is a better person than he is and feels unworthy of her love.


I'm so unworthy of her
The singer feels undeserving of his significant other's love and attention due to his flaws.


She hates that we don't spend much time
The singer's significant other dislikes that they do not spend enough time together and have limited quality time.


We barely see each other at all
The singer and his significant other have very little time to spend together due to their busy schedules.


She don't even nag me 'bout always working
The singer's significant other does not complain about the amount of time he spends working, but rather wishes for more quality time.


She just says I just wish every now and then that you'd call
The singer's significant other simply wishes for more communication and contact, even if they cannot physically be together.


And I don't know why she?s still here
The singer expresses confusion and surprise that his significant other continues to stay with him despite their limited quality time together.


She could have any man that she wants
The singer recognizes that his significant other is desirable and could easily find someone else to be with.


I step outside of myself
The singer tries to see things from his significant other's perspective, recognizing his own shortcomings and faults.


To see how much she loves me
The singer tries to understand the depth of his significant other's love for him and how much she is willing to overlook.


And all the things that I should do for her that I just don't, just don't
The singer realizes all the things he should be doing for his significant other but has failed to do so in the past.


And I realize
After reflecting on his behavior and his significant other's love for him, the singer comes to a realization.


She's in love
The singer confirms that his significant other is in love with him despite his flaws and shortcomings.


And I don't understand
Despite her love for him, the singer still struggles to understand why his significant other continues to stay with him.


Gotta be a better man for her
The singer recognizes that he needs to make changes and become a better person to deserve his significant other's love and devotion.


So I take my time and do what I'm suppose to do
The singer decides to take action and make changes to become a better partner for his significant other.


Because I just cant see my life without you
The singer realizes how important his significant other is in his life and decides to do what it takes to make the relationship work.




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: JEREMY REEVES, JONATHAN YIP, MICAYLE MCKINNEY, RAY ROMULUS, SHAFFER SMITH

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