It's You
Neal & Leandra Lyrics


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Alright, now let this be a lesson to you

Mama never raised any smart mouth kid
She told us once and that was it
She said, son, sit down, son, that's enough
Mama really loved us but she sure was tough
Could never get away with callin' her bluff
You been runnin' all night, chasin' those skirts
You ought to be ashamed, late again for work
Boy, don't you know you're on the wrong track
And throwin' it away, you never get it back?
Hard lovin' mamas don't cut you no slack

But my old man was a little bit more inclined to understand
'Cause daddies know, when to hang on and when to let go
He said, "Bein' addicted to love's a real bad habit
If you can't be good, son, be good at it"

Now mama's still on me 'bout wrong and right
Hopin' one day I might see the light
My heart's been broke, I make mistakes
I still try to give 'em as much as I take
Now old habits are hard to break

But my old man was a little bit more inclined to understand
'Cause daddies know, now when to hang on and when to let go
He said, "Bein' addicted to love's a real bad habit
If you can't be good, son, be good at it
If you can't be good, be good at it"

Oh, but my old man
Was a little bit more inclined to understand
'Cause daddies know, hey, when to hang on and when to let go
He said, "Now bein' addicted to love's a real bad habit
If you can't be good, son, be good at it
If you can't be good, be good at it"

Well, if you can't be good, be good at it
Take after your old man, son




Don't worry about bein' good
I'll show you how it's done

Overall Meaning

The song "It's You" by Neal & Leandra is about the lessons learned from childhood and the influence of parents on adult life. The song begins by talking about the tough love approach of the mother and how she raised her children to know the difference between wrong and right. The father, on the other hand, is described as being more understanding of his son's mistakes, offering advice for how to handle difficult situations. The lyrics suggest that the father's understanding and support has made a lasting impact on the son, who now tries to give as much as he takes.


The chorus repeatedly emphasizes the idea that if you can't be good, be good at it. The song suggests that it's better to make the most of what you have, even if it's not perfect, than to give up entirely. This is a message of resilience and perseverance in the face of challenges. The song is ultimately about accepting one's flaws and using them to grow and improve.


Overall, "It's You" is a touching tribute to the influence of parents on adult life. It's a reminder that even when parents may be tough or less-than-understanding, their love and support can help us become better people.


Line by Line Meaning

Alright, now let this be a lesson to you
Pay attention because what follows is a lesson or piece of advice.


Mama never raised any smart mouth kid
The singer was taught to respect authority and not to talk back.


She told us once and that was it
Once the singer's mother had spoken, there was no room for arguing or asking questions.


She said, son, sit down, son, that's enough
The singer's mother was strict and would only tolerate a certain behavior from her children.


Mama really loved us but she sure was tough
The singer's mother showed her love through setting boundaries for her children.


Could never get away with callin' her bluff
The singer's mother was not easily fooled or tricked.


You been runnin' all night, chasin' those skirts
The singer is rebuking someone for staying out late and chasing after women.


You ought to be ashamed, late again for work
The person being rebuked is consistently late for work and should feel embarrassed about it.


Boy, don't you know you're on the wrong track
The singer is telling someone that they are off course in their life, and they need to make a change.


And throwin' it away, you never get it back?
The singer questions the value of the person's behavior and warns them that they can't undo the damage they've done.


Hard lovin' mamas don't cut you no slack
The strict manner of a mother who loves her child can be unyielding in its expectations.


But my old man was a little bit more inclined to understand
The singer's father was more empathetic than his mother and more likely to see where his son was coming from.


'Cause daddies know, when to hang on and when to let go
The singer's father had a better grasp on when to give advice and when to allow his child to make mistakes and learn from them.


He said, "Bein' addicted to love's a real bad habit
The singer's father warned him that loving recklessly can become a bad pattern of behavior.


If you can't be good, son, be good at it"
The singer's father encouraged him to be the best at whatever he does, even if he can't be perfect.


Now mama's still on me 'bout wrong and right
The singer's mother still holds him accountable for his actions, even though he is an adult.


Hopin' one day I might see the light
The artist's mother wishes for her son to have a realization or change of mind about how he lives his life.


My heart's been broke, I make mistakes
The singer is admitting to past relationship failures and personal shortcomings.


I still try to give 'em as much as I take
The singer tries to make amends by giving as much as he takes in his relationships.


Now old habits are hard to break
The singer acknowledges that it is hard to change a pattern of behavior even after it has been acknowledged as detrimental.


Well, if you can't be good, be good at it
The artist reiterates his father's advice to be the best at whatever you do, even if you can't be perfect.


Take after your old man, son
The artist advises his son to follow in his father's footsteps and be understanding and empathetic.


Don't worry about bein' good
The singer implies that it is acceptable to make mistakes, as long as you learn from them and continue to try to be a better person.


I'll show you how it's done
The artist promises to be a positive role model and lead by example.




Lyrics © BMG Rights Management, Universal Music Publishing Group, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: Troy Harold Seals, Blue Miller

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