Not Sleeping Around
Ned's Atomic Dustbin Lyrics


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i don't know if i'm right but i'm not wrong just now
i don't know what makes you think
i'm so strong somehow
it's in keeping with my not sleeping around

you keep thinking i'm tired of you but i'm just tired
while i keep saying you're sick of me but you're just sick
it's in keeping with your not sleeping around

you only do it 'cause you can
you only say it 'cause you can
i'm supposed to take it like a man
what if i can?
i can't give more
you can't take more
you only do it 'cause you can
you only say it 'cause you can
i'm supposed to take it like a man
what if i can?

i can't keep it from my head
that you're never around
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you can't get yourself out of bed
so you never come 'round

it gets too hard for me to think
that becomes too much to drink
and now i'm scared that if i blink you'll be on the brink




of needing a free roam
but please don't let go

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Ned's Atomic Dustbin's song "Not Sleeping Around" seems to be about a turbulent relationship. The songwriter is conveying the message that he is not a promiscuous person as he keeps mentioning the phrase "it's in keeping with my not sleeping around." This could possibly indicate that he is in a committed relationship but is feeling unappreciated by his partner. He speaks of the ongoing confusion in the relationship as he cannot tell if he is right or wrong about certain issues. This confusion leads to the inevitable back and forth arguments that follow.


The songwriter goes on to describe how he is repeatedly accused of being tired of his partner when it is the other way around. He implies that his partner does this as they are insecure about their own feelings. They only say or do things because they can and then expect the songwriter to accept it. The songwriter seems to feel trapped in the relationship and expresses that he cannot give anymore. He also indicates that he is aware that his partner is unreliable as they are never around when needed.


Overall, the song appears to be a plea from the songwriter to his partner to not let go of the relationship. While facing difficulties and feeling unappreciated, he still values their relationship and seeks to salvage it in the end.


Line by Line Meaning

i don't know if i'm right but i'm not wrong just now
I am uncertain of whether my actions are right or wrong at this moment


i don't know what makes you think i'm so strong somehow
I am unable to comprehend why you perceive me as strong


it's in keeping with my not sleeping around
My actions are consistent with my decision to not engage in promiscuous behavior


you keep thinking i'm tired of you but i'm just tired
You are assuming I am tired of you but in reality, I am simply fatigued


while i keep saying you're sick of me but you're just sick
I keep telling you that you are sick of me, but the truth is that you are simply ill


it's in keeping with your not sleeping around
Your actions align with your decision to not engage in promiscuous behavior


you only do it 'cause you can you only say it 'cause you can i'm supposed to take it like a man what if i can?
You engage in certain behavior and say certain things because you are able to do so, and I am expected to handle it without protest, but what if I can't?


i can't give more you can't take more you only do it 'cause you can you only say it 'cause you can i'm supposed to take it like a man what if i can?
I am no longer capable of giving more, and you are no longer able to handle more from me, yet you continue to behave and speak as you do, and expect me to just take it. But what if I can't?


i can't keep it from my head that you're never around
It is impossible for me to stop thinking about the fact that you are always absent


you can't get yourself out of bed so you never come 'round
You are unable to motivate yourself to leave your bed, resulting in your failure to visit me


it gets too hard for me to think that becomes too much to drink and now i'm scared that if i blink you'll be on the brink of needing a free roam but please don't let go
The situation becomes too overwhelming for me to handle, forcing me to turn to drinking for solace. I fear that if I take my eyes off of you for even a moment, you will require the freedom to pursue your own desires, but I beg of you not to abandon me




Lyrics © O/B/O APRA AMCOS
Written by: ALEXANDER THOMAS GRIFFIN, DANIEL CHARLES WORTON, GARETH JOHN PRING, JOHNATHAN PENNEY, MATTHEW RICHARD CHESLIN

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damien williams

Takes me back... one of the best that the Neds ever did in my opinion. Truly fantastic!

Nathan Hammond

Oh, how I wish music and vids were still this RAD! I hate that the NAD shelf-life was so short. Their material remains so influential and intelligent after so long. I miss the Lads😥

Random Gaz

Ive still got the 10" single of this, play it a lot, classic, one of their best i think.

CptTangerine

The song that got me into Ned's and the song that keeps me coming back.

Where We're Going We Don't Need Eyes

Only got on to this song today - excellent track!

Olaf McKrak

Many years ago i sold all my cd's for ... money.... i miss them all but this this cd was SOOO good

Kompakt Mode

saw you guys play in Tokyo on that tour, one of the hottest gigs i ever attended !

chrissiemarn

reminds me of my youth forgot all about this track

Jorge Roca

amazing

Jeffrey Long

bam!

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