Your Complex
Ned's Atomic Dustbin Lyrics


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Don't go telling me it's gone wrong,
Don't go telling me on the phone
'Cause the only voice I hear is my own
So don't go telling me it's gone wrong

That don't rub with me
I know better
Don't go telling me it's gone wrong
And for christ's sake

Oh, for christ's sake not on the phone
'Cause the only voice you'll hear is your own
So don't go telling me on the phone
That don't rub with me

I know better
And it's not so complicated
It's not so complicated, is it?
There's a wire of tension





Between you and me
Why can't we disagree to agree?

Overall Meaning

Ned's Atomic Dustbin's song "Your Complex" is an intense yet cryptic comment on communication breakdowns in a relationship. The song begins with a plea to not inform the singer that something has "gone wrong." The use of the word "gone" suggests that whatever it is has already happened and cannot be reversed. The second line warns against telling the singer on the phone because the only voice that will be heard is the singer's. This line seems to suggest that the singer is unwilling to listen or accept any commentary about the situation.


The chorus implies that the singer thinks they know better than the person trying to inform them that "it's gone wrong." This idea is reinforced by the repetition of "That don't rub with me, I know better." The tone of the chorus is confrontational and aggressive. They continue to push back against the other person's attempts to communicate, insisting that they do not want to hear it on the phone. The third verse is possibly the most revealing, suggesting that there is tension between the singer and the other person, but they seem to be unable to find common ground. The final line, "why can't we disagree to agree," suggests that the singer is willing to compromise, but the other person is not.


Line by Line Meaning

Don't go telling me it's gone wrong,
I don't want to hear that something has gone wrong.


Don't go telling me on the phone
I don't want to hear bad news over the phone.


'Cause the only voice I hear is my own
When I'm on the phone, I can only hear my own voice.


So don't go telling me it's gone wrong
Once again, I don't want to hear that something has gone wrong.


That don't rub with me
I don't agree with that.


I know better
I am confident in my knowledge and understanding of the situation.


Oh, for christ's sake not on the phone
Once again, I really don't want to hear bad news over the phone.


'Cause the only voice you'll hear is your own
When you're on the phone, you can only hear your own voice.


And it's not so complicated
The situation is not as complex as it seems.


It's not so complicated, is it?
Don't you agree that it's not that complicated?


There's a wire of tension
There is a feeling of tension between us.


Between you and me
The tension is between the two of us specifically.


Why can't we disagree to agree?
Why can't we come to a mutual understanding, even if we don't agree on everything?




Lyrics © O/B/O APRA AMCOS
Written by: ALEXANDER THOMAS GRIFFIN, DANIEL CHARLES WORTON, GARETH JOHN PRING, JOHNATHAN PENNEY, MATTHEW RICHARD CHESLIN

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Grief_galaxy

I Loved This Stuff, and still do! What a great Album. Love It

bizzarrogeorge

My favorite Ned's! Still have this cd.gotta give it a whirl-been too long!

Dougie208

Ahhh memories from School, what a good band they were!!

R.A.W Wilso

Yeh yeh I wud third that excellent band ,melodic guitar riffs and Ned's givin all better than most ov the shite today,

Julia J

NYE 2022 - just thought of this song... have the cd, from 1991... Oh, if only.

Berzerker_CHW

I have to second that - like my ex-girlfriend from High School 16 years ago, ironicly when this song was out.

pfeds

I'm old

naefukabootio

It's OK to be old.

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