Friend or Foe
Negative Approach Lyrics


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One moment you agree
With everything I say
Seemingly honest
You're never in the way
How could I have thought
When I'm not around
The shit you say about me
Stories well thought out

It's when I turn my back
You're ready to attack
A verbal abuse
Is what you choose to use

You must hold a grudge
Against the things I do




Why don't you admit it
Stand up and face the truth

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of "Friend or Foe" by Negative Approach reflect the ubiquitous nature of disloyalty and betrayal in friendships. The song pertains to the fear of not knowing whether a person is really a friend or if they are posing as one purely for their own vested interests. The verses of the song describe how the singer believes a person is honest and agreeable, but the moment they turn their back, they become verbally abusive and spread rumors about the singer. This could be interpreted as a paranoid response to the potential threat of disloyalty. The lyrics convey a sense of disappointment and anger that arise from the feeling of betrayal and dishonesty.


The chorus sets an ultimatum for those testing the singer’s loyalty, as they ask the so-called “friends” to admit they hold a grudge against him and a willingness to be honest about the relationship- that they either intend to be true friends or should back off. Hence, the song presents a sense of caution and highlights some of the issues faced when navigating meaningful relationships, where hidden agendas may exist.


Line by Line Meaning

One moment you agree
At times you appear to be in agreement with me


With everything I say
All of the opinions and beliefs that I voice


Seemingly honest
Displaying signs of being truthful


You're never in the way
Not impeding or obstructing me in any way


How could I have thought
What caused me to believe previously


When I'm not around
In my absence


The shit you say about me
The derogatory language used to describe me


Stories well thought out
Pre-planned tales meant to spread negative rumors about me


It's when I turn my back
At the point in time when I'm not watching or present


You're ready to attack
You are poised to insult and degrade me at that moment


A verbal abuse
Use of harsh and hurtful language


Is what you choose to use
Your preferred method of attack


You must hold a grudge
You seem to have a long-standing resentment towards me


Against the things I do
Disapproval of my actions and decisions


Why don't you admit it
Why not be honest about your feelings towards me


Stand up and face the truth
Confront the reality of our relationship and express yourself in a direct and truthful way




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