Breakin Up Is Hard to Do
Neil Sedaka Lyrics


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Do do do
Down dooby doo down down
Comma, comma, down dooby doo down down
Comma, comma, down dooby doo down down
Breaking up is hard to do

Don't take your love away from me
Don't you leave my heart in misery
If you go then I'll be blue
'Cause breaking up is hard to do

Remember when you held me tight
And you kissed me all through the night
Think of all that we've been through
And breaking up is hard to do

They say that breaking up is hard to do
Now I know
I know that it's true
Don't say that this is the end
Instead of breaking up I wish that we were making up again

I beg of you don't say goodbye
Can't we give our love another try?
Come on, baby, let's start anew
'Cause breaking up is hard to do

(They say that breaking up is hard to do)
Now I know
I know that it's true
(Don't say that this is the end)
Instead of breaking up I wish that we were making up again

I beg of you don't say goodbye
Can't we give our love another try?
Come on, baby, let's start anew
'Cause breaking up is hard to do

(Down dooby doo down down)
Comma, comma, down dooby doo down down
Comma, comma, down dooby doo down down




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Overall Meaning

The song "Breaking Up Is Hard to Do" by Neil Sedaka is a classic pop song originally released in 1962. The song tells the story of a couple considering ending their relationship, but both are struggling with the difficult decision of breaking up. The opening lines of "Do do do, down dooby doo down down" set the catchy tone for the song, and the use of the phrase "comma, comma" adds a playful element to the lyrics.


The song is driven by its memorable chorus, which repeats the line "Breaking up is hard to do" several times, emphasizing the difficulty the couple is facing. The verses highlight the reasons why the couple is struggling with the decision, focusing on the memories they share and the love they once had for each other. The song closes with a plea from the singer to his partner not to say goodbye, asking instead for them to try again and start anew.


Line by Line Meaning

Do do do
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Down dooby doo down down
A nonsensical line to set the song's upbeat tempo


Comma, comma, down dooby doo down down
Another nonsensical line to maintain the song's rhythm


Comma, comma, down dooby doo down down
Repeating the previous line to further the upbeat tone


Breaking up is hard to do
Expressing the theme of the song about the difficulty and pain in ending a relationship


Don't take your love away from me
Pleading for the continuation of their relationship and love


Don't you leave my heart in misery
Stating that leaving and ending the relationship will cause them great pain


If you go then I'll be blue
Elaborating on the previous line's point that leaving will make them sad


'Cause breaking up is hard to do
Reiterating the song's main theme


Remember when you held me tight
Recalling a time when they were happy and in love


And you kissed me all through the night
Continuing to reminisce about good moments in their relationship


Think of all that we've been through
Reflecting on the history that they have shared together


And breaking up is hard to do
Repeating the song's main theme with a more personal angle


They say that breaking up is hard to do
Mentioning a common phrase about how difficult it is to end a relationship


Now I know
Recognizing the truth in that statement


I know that it's true
Confirming the previously mentioned phrase


Don't say that this is the end
Requesting for the relationship to continue rather than end


Instead of breaking up I wish that we were making up again
Expressing the desire to reconcile and fix the issues in the relationship


I beg of you don't say goodbye
Pleading to not end the relationship


Can't we give our love another try?
Asking for a second chance in their relationship


Come on, baby, let's start anew
Proposing a fresh start in their relationship


'Cause breaking up is hard to do
Ending the song with a final repetition of its main theme


(Down dooby doo down down)
Repeating the earlier nonsensical lines to end with the same upbeat tempo


Comma, comma, down dooby doo down down
Continuing the song's rhythm


Comma, comma, down dooby doo down down
Another repetition of the above line


Comma, comma, down dooby doo down down
Ending the song with one last repetition of this line




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: Howard Greenfield, Neil Sedaka

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