What About Me
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You begged me to stop my fussin'
There's something that needs discussin'
You've been keeping inside you
And it's high time I know

There's no way to break it gently
When you told me forever
It doesn't mean it wasn't true at the time
But it's time for you to go

Am I readin' you right?
Did you just turn out the light at the end
Of our ten year tunnel of love?
Yeah, I know it's your hour of need
But what about me?

I won't be the cage that holds you
I won't be the one who told you
That you're making a mistake¡
No baby­ I've never been that kind

And if you're sayin' that I've confined you
By all means go but let me remind you
You can't change your world as easy
As changin' your mind

What more do I have to give?
Guess I'll just have to live with the thought
My tears'll be setting you free
And I hope you find all you seek
But what about me?

What do you want me to say?
Girl, you're walking away with
The only dream I ever believed
You'll be livin' through leavin' us be
But what about me?





Well I know love don't come guaranteed
But what about me?

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Nelson's song "What About Me" convey a sense of painful realization and hurt from a love relationship that is seemingly coming to an end. The song raises some questions as the singer, whose partner has kept feelings inside for a while, asks, "Am I reading you right? Did you just turn out the light at the end of our ten-year tunnel of love?" Despite the emotional pain they are going through, the singer pledges not to be the one to hold onto their partner, insisting, "I won't be the cage that holds you," even if their departure means the end of a shared dream. The singer also insists that their partner cannot change their world as quickly as changing their mind, suggesting that leaving the relationship would not be easy.


Overall, the song seems to express a sense of sadness, betrayal, and questioning as the singer comes to terms with the end of something they've held onto for a long time. The song's lyrics evoke the feelings of being stuck, lost, and unrecognized.


Line by Line Meaning

You begged me to stop my fussin'
You requested me to stop being upset or angry.


There's something that needs discussin'
There is some issue that we need to discuss.


You've been keeping inside you
You have not disclosed something that you have been feeling or thinking.


And it's high time I know
And it's about time that I become aware of what you've kept inside you.


There's no way to break it gently
There is no easy way to present or express the situation delicately.


When you told me forever
When you said you would stay with me forever.


It doesn't mean it wasn't true at the time
It does not imply that it wasn't valid or real back then.


But it's time for you to go
But it is now time for you to depart.


Am I readin' you right?
Am I correctly understanding you?


Did you just turn out the light at the end
Did you just take away the hope or possibility for us?


Of our ten year tunnel of love?
Of the love that we had for ten years.


Yeah, I know it's your hour of need
I understand that you are currently in a difficult situation.


But what about me?
But what about how this affects me?


I won't be the cage that holds you
I will not be the one who limits or confines you in any way.


I won't be the one who told you
I will not be the person who instructed or advised you.


That you're making a mistake¡
That you are doing something that is wrong or unwise.


No baby­ I've never been that kind
No, my love, I have never acted like that before.


And if you're sayin' that I've confined you
And if you are asserting that I have restrained or limited you.


By all means go but let me remind you
If you want to go, then please do, but I want to remind you.


You can't change your world as easy
You cannot alter or transform your life as easily as you believe.


As changin' your mind
As changing your thoughts or opinions.


What more do I have to give?
What else can I offer or provide to you?


Guess I'll just have to live with the thought
I suppose that I will have to come to terms with the idea.


My tears'll be setting you free
My tears will release you and enable you to be free.


And I hope you find all you seek
And I hope you discover or obtain everything that you are searching for.


But what about me?
But what about how I am feeling in this situation?


What do you want me to say?
What do you expect me to express or convey?


Girl, you're walking away with
Dear, you are departing with.


The only dream I ever believed
The sole aspiration or ambition that I ever held.


You'll be livin' through leavin' us be
You will be living through departing and leaving us alone.


But what about me?
But what about how this impacts me?


Well I know love don't come guaranteed
I understand that love does not always come with a guarantee.


But what about me?
But what about my well-being in this scenario?




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: GUNNAR NELSON

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