What About Me?
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You begged me to stop my fussin'
There's something that needs discussin'
You've been keeping inside you
And it's high time I know

There's no way to break it gently
When you told me forever
It doesn't mean it wasn't true at the time
But it's time for you to go

Am I readin' you right?
Did you just turn out the light at the end
Of our ten year tunnel of love?
Yeah, I know it's your hour of need
But what about me?

I won't be the cage that holds you
I won't be the one who told you
That you're making a mistake¡
No baby­ I've never been that kind

And if you're sayin' that I've confined you
By all means go but let me remind you
You can't change your world as easy
As changin' your mind

What more do I have to give?
Guess I'll just have to live with the thought
My tears'll be setting you free
And I hope you find all you seek
But what about me?

What do you want me to say?
Girl, you're walking away with
The only dream I ever believed
You'll be livin' through leavin' us be
But what about me?





Well I know love don't come guaranteed
But what about me?

Overall Meaning

In Nelson's song "What About Me?", the singer is coming to terms with the end of a ten year relationship. The lyrics suggest that the singer's partner has been holding back feelings and thoughts that they now need to share. While the singer is understanding and supportive, they also express their own feelings of hurt and confusion. The chorus, "Am I readin' you right? Did you just turn out the light at the end of our ten year tunnel of love? Yeah, I know it's your hour of need, but what about me?" encapsulates the frustration and sadness the singer feels about their relationship coming to an end. They acknowledge the importance of their partner's needs but also express their own sense of loss and uncertainty.


The song paints a picture of a relationship that has ended with mutual respect but also a sense of sadness and loss. The singer is torn between wanting to support their partner's decision to leave and feeling abandoned and hurt. The song's emotive lyrics and heartfelt delivery make it a relatable and moving portrayal of love and loss.


Line by Line Meaning

You begged me to stop my fussin'
You asked me to stop worrying or complaining.


There's something that needs discussin'
There is something important that needs to be talked about.


You've been keeping inside you
You have been holding something inside of you.


And it's high time I know
And it's about time I find out, too.


There's no way to break it gently
There is no easy or gentle way to say what needs to be said.


When you told me forever
When you said you would be with me forever.


It doesn't mean it wasn't true at the time
It may have been true when you said it, but things change.


But it's time for you to go
But now it's time for you to leave.


Am I readin' you right?
Am I interpreting your actions or words correctly?


Did you just turn out the light at the end
Did you just end our relationship abruptly?


Of our ten year tunnel of love?
Of our ten-year-long committed relationship?


Yeah, I know it's your hour of need
I understand that you need support right now.


But what about me?
But what about my own needs and feelings?


I won't be the cage that holds you
I won't restrict or hold you back.


I won't be the one who told you
I won't be the person who told you to stay.


That you're making a mistake
That you are making the wrong decision.


No baby, I've never been that kind
I've never been the type of person to hold someone back or force them to stay.


And if you're sayin' that I've confined you
If you feel like I have held you back or restricted you in any way.


By all means go but let me remind you
If you need to leave, then go ahead, but let me remind you of something.


You can't change your world as easy
You can't just change your whole world or life as easily as you think.


As changin' your mind
It's not as easy as just changing your mind.


What more do I have to give?
What else can I possibly offer or give to you?


Guess I'll just have to live with the thought
I suppose I will have to deal with the idea or fact.


My tears'll be setting you free
My tears will be your release or freedom from me.


And I hope you find all you seek
I hope you find what you are looking for or what makes you happy.


But what about me?
But what about my own needs and feelings?


What do you want me to say?
What is it that you want me to say to you?


Girl, you're walking away with
You are leaving with something important or valuable.


The only dream I ever believed
The only dream that I ever trusted or hoped for.


You'll be livin' through leavin' us be
You will have to live with the consequences of leaving us behind.


But what about me?
But what about my own needs and feelings?


Well I know love don't come guaranteed
I understand that love isn't always guaranteed or easy.


But what about me?
But what about my own needs and feelings?




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: GUNNAR NELSON

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