From Above
Nick Hornby Lyrics


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They even looked at each other once across the crowded bar
He was with Martha, she was with Tom
Neither of them really knew what was going on
A strange feeling of never, heartbeats becoming synchronized

It's been that way forever but most of the time it's just near misses
Or kisses once at a bookstore, once at a party
She came in as he was leaving and years ago at the movies
She sat behind him, the 6:30 showing of "While You Were Sleeping"

He never once looked around

It's so easy from above
You can really see it all
People who belong together
Lost and sad and small
But there's nothing to be done for them
It doesn't work that way
Sure we all have soulmates but we walk past them every day

And it's not like they were ever
Actually unhappy in the lives they lived
He married Martha, she married Tom
Just this faint notion that something was wrong
An ache, an absence, a phantom limb

An itch that could never be scratched

It's so easy from above
You can really see it all
People who belong together
Lost and sad and small
But there's nothing to be done for them
It doesn't work that way
Sure we all have soulmates but we walk past them every day

Neither of them knew what was going on
A strange feeling of never,
Heartbeats becoming synchronized

Stay that way forever

Who knows whether that's how it should be
Maybe a ghost lived in that vacancy

Maybe that's how books get written
Maybe that's why songs get sung
Maybe we are the unlucky ones

It's so easy from above
You can really see it all
People who belong together
Lost and sad and small
But there's nothing to be done for them
It doesn't work that way
Sure we all have soulmates
But we walk past them every day

Maybe that's how books get written
Maybe that's why songs get sung
Maybe we are the unlucky ones
Maybe that's how books get written




Maybe that's why songs get sung
Maybe we are the unlucky ones

Overall Meaning

The song "From Above" by Nick Hornby delves into the idea of soulmates and how people may pass them by without realizing it. The lyrics describe two people who have crossed paths many times but never acted upon their connection. They share a strange feeling of never and their heartbeats become synchronized, indicating that they have a deep connection, although they are both with other people. They have had several near misses and even shared a kiss once, but never pursued anything beyond that.


Despite being happy in their current relationships, they both feel that something is wrong, an ache, an absence, a phantom limb. This could be a result of not being with their soulmate. The song suggests that people's soulmates may be out there, but they may never even realize it because they walk past them every day.


The chorus of the song repeats that it's easy to see everything from above, including the people who belong together but are lost and sad and small. However, there's nothing that can be done to change their situation. They are the unlucky ones.


Overall, the song is about missed chances and opportunities, the feeling of longing that may never be fulfilled, and the idea that there may be something missing in even the happiest of relationships.


Line by Line Meaning

They even looked at each other once across the crowded bar
Two strangers shared a brief glance in a crowded bar


He was with Martha, she was with Tom
The two strangers were each there with their respective partners


Neither of them really knew what was going on
Both parties were uncertain about the inexplicable attraction they felt


A strange feeling of never, heartbeats becoming synchronized
Despite not knowing each other, they shared an intangible feeling of destiny, as their heartbeats became synchronized


It's been that way forever but most of the time it's just near misses
Their paths have crossed many times, but it has always been by narrow margins


Or kisses once at a bookstore, once at a party
There were a couple of times where they could have kissed, but they didn't


She came in as he was leaving and years ago at the movies
Their paths have almost crossed many times, including at the movies years ago


She sat behind him, the 6:30 showing of "While You Were Sleeping"
She was sitting right behind him when they watched a movie once


He never once looked around
He was unaware of her presence behind him during the movie


It's so easy from above
Observing from an outside perspective makes it seem simpler


You can really see it all
The big picture is much clearer than the individual details


People who belong together
Some people are meant to be together


Lost and sad and small
Despite being fated for each other, they feel lost, sad, and insignificant


But there's nothing to be done for them
There's nothing that can be done to force love


It doesn't work that way
Love isn't always logical or straightforward


Sure we all have soulmates but we walk past them every day
There are many soulmates for everyone, but they often go unnoticed or unrecognized


And it's not like they were ever
Despite having a connection, both parties were happy with their own partners


Actually unhappy in the lives they lived
Martha, Tom, and the two strangers were content with the way things were


Just this faint notion that something was wrong
Something felt slightly off, but they couldn't put their finger on it


An ache, an absence, a phantom limb
They felt a persistent and phantom discomfort


An itch that could never be scratched
The feeling was insatiable and could never be fully resolved


Stay that way forever
Their lives would remain incomplete, and they would never find solace


Maybe a ghost lived in that vacancy
Maybe there was a spiritual force that they could not discern, but it was keeping them apart


Maybe that's how books get written
Artists create works about the struggles of people who feel the way these two do


Maybe that's why songs get sung
Musicians write songs about the pain of a love that could have been


Maybe we are the unlucky ones
Perhaps they have missed out on something special


Maybe we are the unlucky ones
Perhaps they have missed out on something special


Maybe that's how books get written
Artists create works about the struggles of people who feel the way these two do


Maybe that's why songs get sung
Musicians write songs about the pain of a love that could have been


Maybe we are the unlucky ones
Perhaps they have missed out on something special




Lyrics © BMG Rights Management
Written by: BEN FOLDS, BENJAMIN SCOTT FOLDS, NICHOLAS PETER JOHN HORNBY, NICK HORNBY

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@marcosmorais

Fantastic, just amazing. Ben Folds and Nick Hornby need to make another album together. The lyrics are so relatable and truthful and I can't even start talking about the amazing composition.

@johntirva8079

Marcos Morais Agreed

@PEneoark

Just the subtle truth behind this song hurts.

@trashleigh87

33 years old and I'm still looking.

@pinky12351

I always hear this song at my work and it really messes me up. Even if you don't believe in soul mates it's true that you could be passing people who you could have a real connection with.

@Mrhatmandu

One of the few artists of the 21st century that still appreciates of a pure pop/rock song. One who still knows the value of melody and lyrics.

@Puzzular

Ben Folds is the reason I'd rather be blind than deaf. His partnership with Nick Hornby sure turned out well. Lonely Avenue's one hell of an album.

@TNLMProductions

O.k. I had never heard a Ben Folds song before...but I can say with full certainty that I am now a Ben Folds fan. I've never fallen in love with a song like I just did.

@stephanieclarke8365

Love the juxtaposition of the jolly beat with the sad undertones of the lyrics...

"Just this vague notion that something was wrong
An ache, an absence, a phantom limb
An itch that could never be scratched."

@bronk2222

Congrats on using "juxtaposition" in a sentence.

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