Heartache
Nicki Bluhm and The Gramblers Lyrics


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Heartache, do you want to make it?
Or do you want to take it?
I'm sorry, if I played your guitar too hard
But you didn't have to rip all the strings off my heart

I didn't know that you were coming in
Cause you were coming in low
Never bring your own talent to a rock show

Does it have to be, a tragedy, always?

Heartache, do you want to make it?
Or would you rather take it?
I didn't think that you meant
What you said when you said it to me
I'd have to spend another weekend there of heartbreak

Does it have to be, a tragedy?
Does it have to be, a tragedy, always?

I always thought that my broken heart would fix yours
Looks pretty clear when I look in the mirror
I've only broken mine more
Do you wanna make it? (Do you wanna make it?)
Or do you wanna take it? (Or do you wanna take it?)
Do you wanna make it? (Do you wanna make it?)
Or would you rather take it? (Or would you rather take it?)

I didn't know that you you were coming in so low
I didn't think that you meant what you said to me
Does it have to be a heartache? A heartache
Does it have to be a heartache? A heartache

Does it have to be, a tragedy?




Does it have to be, a tragedy?
Does it have to be, a tragedy, always?

Overall Meaning

The song "Heartache" by Nicki Bluhm and The Gramblers is about the emotions and pain that come with heartbreak. The lyrics talk about the feelings of being hurt and brokenhearted, and the singer asks if the heartache is something that can be made or if it has to be taken. This suggests that the pain is not inevitable and can be avoided if one is careful enough.


The songwriter also mentions how they played someone's guitar too hard and how that person responded by ripping all the strings off their heart. This metaphorical use of the word “strings” suggests the singer was overly honest or passionate with this person and that their heart was left shattered as a result. They then reflect on their broken heart and how they had always thought that their broken heart would be the fix for the person's broken heart whom they were singing to but realized that they had only broken their own heart more.


Overall, the song "Heartache" is about the pain of heartbreak, the consequences of being too honest, and the questioning of whether heartache is something that can be made or if it has to be taken.


Line by Line Meaning

Heartache, do you want to make it?
Asks if heartache is intentional


Or do you want to take it?
Questioning whether heartache is inflicted purposefully


I'm sorry, if I played your guitar too hard
Apologizing for causing pain


But you didn't have to rip all the strings off my heart
Accusing the other party of causing emotional harm beyond what was deserved


I didn't know that you were coming in
Unaware of the other party's intentions or emotions


Cause you were coming in low
The other party wasn't forthcoming or honest


Never bring your own talent to a rock show
Advice to not show off or outshine others in group settings


Does it have to be, a tragedy, always?
Questioning the inevitability of heartache and negative experiences


I didn't think that you meant
Misinterpreted the other party's communication or actions


What you said when you said it to me
Felt misled or lied to


I'd have to spend another weekend there of heartbreak
Dreading the emotional pain and devastation that comes with being around the other party


I always thought that my broken heart would fix yours
Hoping that one's own pain would make the other party empathize and change


Looks pretty clear when I look in the mirror
Self-awareness that the situation is not healthy or sustainable


I've only broken mine more
Realization that one's actions and choices have caused self-inflicted pain


Do you wanna make it?
Asks the other party to take responsibility and work towards a healthy resolution


Or do you wanna take it?
Challenges the other party to not inflict further pain


Does it have to be a heartache? A heartache
Expressing exhaustion and discouragement with the constant pain and negativity


Does it have to be, a tragedy?
Questioning whether heartache and negative experiences are necessary or unavoidable


Does it have to be, a tragedy, always?
Reiterating the theme of the song - questioning the inevitability of negative experiences




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