4 Yrs
Nina Nastasia Lyrics


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It's time to state your name
It's time to stake your claim
But it's not everyone else's problem
And it's not anyone else's fault

You wanna feel okay
You wanna think you've tried hard
But it's not everyone else's problem
And it's not anyone else's fault

I know it's important
To feel justified
I know you thought everything
Would be much easier

It's time to show your face
It's time to know yourself
'Cause it's not everyone else's problem
And it's not anyone else's fault

You wanna feel okay
You wanna think you've tried hard

I know it's important
To feel justified




I know you thought everything
Would be much easier

Overall Meaning

In this song, Nina Nastasia is urging someone to take responsibility for their own life and stop blaming others for their problems. She tells them that it is time to take ownership of their own identity and stop trying to make their problems someone else's responsibility. The repetition of the phrase "it's not everyone else's problem, and it's not anyone else's fault" emphasizes that the person needs to stop looking outward for solutions and instead look within themselves.


Nastasia acknowledges that it is hard to let go of the desire to feel justified in one's actions, and that the person may have thought that life would be easier than it is. However, she is firm in her assertion that it is time for the person to face themselves and take control of their life. The repeated lines "you wanna feel okay, you wanna think you've tried hard" highlight the person's desire for validation and recognition, but Nastasia reminds them that it is ultimately their own responsibility to achieve those goals.


Overall, the song serves as a reminder for individuals to take responsibility for their own lives and not expect others to solve their problems. It encourages introspection and self-awareness as the first steps towards personal growth and fulfillment.


Line by Line Meaning

It's time to state your name
It's time to introduce yourself and make your presence known


It's time to stake your claim
It's time to assert your position or ownership of something


But it's not everyone else's problem
It's not the responsibility of others to solve or deal with your issues


And it's not anyone else's fault
Others are not to blame for the circumstances you are in


You wanna feel okay
You wish to feel content or satisfied with your life


You wanna think you've tried hard
You want to believe that you have put forth effort and worked hard towards your goals


I know it's important
I understand the significance of


To feel justified
To feel that your actions or decisions are fair and reasonable


I know you thought everything
I understand that you believed that everything


Would be much easier
Would not be as difficult or challenging as it is


It's time to show your face
It's time to make an appearance and be seen


It's time to know yourself
It's time to understand who you are as a person and what you stand for


'Cause it's not everyone else's problem
Because others are not responsible for your challenges or issues


And it's not anyone else's fault
Others are not to be blamed for the life you live


I know it's important
I understand the importance of


To feel justified
To feel that your actions or decisions are fair and reasonable


I know you thought everything
I understand that you believed that everything


Would be much easier
Would not be as difficult or challenging as it is




Lyrics © ROUGH TRADE PUBLISHING, Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd.
Written by: Nina Nastasia

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Comments from YouTube:

mazeomaze

This song still makes me shiver even after 10 years, while the time has gone by i had a 4 yrs relationship that betrayed my heart and left me in a whole, listening to this song helps me keeping my feet on the ground, nina, one of the most underrated artist, capable of moving stars and planets with a single guitar string and a lovely voice like this.

Kristy P

My now husband made me a mixed CD many years ago, with this song on it. We were falling in love, while working together, but I was living with abusive man that I needed help escaping. Soooo Dramatic, I know, but at the time it was serious sht in my life lol. I can't hear this without thinking of that time in my life, and it helps me remember why I fell in love with my hubby.

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