Been A Son {live @ Paramount Theatre
Nirvana Lyrics


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She should have stayed away from friends.
She should have had more time to spend.
She should have died when she was born.
She should have worn the crown of thorns.

She should have been a son.
She should have been a son.
She should have been a son.
She should have been a son.

She should have made her mother proud.
She should have stood out in a crowd.
She should have had another chance.
She should have fallen on her stance.

She should have been a son.
She should have been a son.
She should have been a son.
She should have been a son.

She should have stayed away from friends.
She should have had more time to spend.
She should have died when she was born.
She should have worn the crown of thorns.

She should have been a son.




She should have been a son.
She should have been a son.

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Nirvana's song "Been A Son" are open to interpretation, but they seem to capture a feeling of frustration and regret. The repeating phrase "she should have been a son" could be seen as a commentary on gender stereotypes and the limitations they impose. The verses seem to suggest that the person in question was not able to fulfill their potential and was held back by societal expectations.


The line "she should have died when she was born" is particularly striking and could be interpreted in a number of ways. It could be seen as a wish that the person never had to experience the hardships of life, or as a way of expressing the idea that the person was never fully alive to begin with. The line "she should have worn the crown of thorns" is likely a reference to the biblical story of Jesus, who was forced to wear a crown of thorns during his crucifixion.


The live version of "Been A Son" performed at the Paramount Theatre is particularly intense and raw. Kurt Cobain's vocals are filled with emotion, and the band's playing is tight and energetic. The song was originally recorded for the album "Incesticide" and was later included on the live album "From the Muddy Banks of the Wishkah."


Overall, "Been A Son" is a powerful song that captures the sense of frustration and alienation that many people feel at some point in their lives. The repeating refrain of "she should have been a son" is both haunting and thought-provoking, and the song's fast-paced punk rock sound adds to its intensity.


Line by Line Meaning

She should have stayed away from friends.
The subject of the song should have avoided social interaction with others.


She should have had more time to spend.
The subject of the song should have had more time to live her life.


She should have died when she was born.
The subject of the song's life is so full of pain and suffering that she would have been better off if she had not lived at all.


She should have worn the crown of thorns.
The subject of the song should have suffered even more than she had in her life.


She should have been a son.
The subject of the song, who is a female, should have been born as a male instead, which would have provided her with better opportunities and treatment in life.


She should have made her mother proud.
The subject of the song should have accomplished something that would have made her mother proud.


She should have stood out in a crowd.
The subject of the song should have been unique and exceptional, instead of being ignored by society.


She should have had another chance.
The subject of the song should have been given a second chance at life to improve her circumstances.


She should have fallen on her stance.
The subject of the song should have stood up for her beliefs, even if it meant facing opposition.


She should have been a son.
Reiteration of the previous chorus, highlighting the desire of the subject of the song to have been a male instead.


She should have stayed away from friends.
Reiteration of the previous verse, emphasizing the unfortunate effects of social interaction on the subject of the song.


She should have had more time to spend.
Reiteration of the previous verse, once again highlighting the shortness of the subject of the song's life.


She should have died when she was born.
Reiteration of the previous verse, further emphasizing the subject of the song's hopeless existence.


She should have worn the crown of thorns.
Reiteration of the previous verse, again highlighting the desire for the subject of the song to suffer more than she already has.


She should have been a son.
Final reiteration of the chorus, emphasizing the central message of the song that the subject of the song would have been better off as a male.




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OH, Hi Matt

[Verse 1]
She should have stayed away from friends
She should have had more time to spend
She should have died when she was born
She should have worn the crown of thorns
She should have...

[Chorus]
Been a son, she should have...
Been a son, she should have...
Been a son, she should have...
Been a son


[Verse 2]
She should have made her mother proud
She should have stood out in the crowd
She should have fallen on her stance
She should have had another chance
She should have..

[Chorus]
Been a son, she should have...
Been a son, she should have...
Been a son, she should have...
Been a son



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Lyrics :
She should have stayed away from friends
She should have had more time to spend
She should have died when she was born
She should have worn the crown of thorns

She should have been a son

She should have stood out in the crowd
She should have made her mother proud
She should have fallen on her stance
She should have had another chance



All comments from YouTube:

Sebastián Joel Calderón Melo

25 years later and it still feels like he's around

@Turk

no it don`t... Music is shit today and he contributed to that by quitting.

Dorian Gray

😞

caleb productions

" he" is. The joke is on us

TheSilverHawaiian

If he was around he would shit all over music now

Maringe Roosendaal

Sebastián Joel Calderón Melo It’s a band not a person

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handsomerube

Dave's background vocals are everything in this song.

A-Train of Thought

Agreed his background harmony vocals and his drumming are a crucial part of what nirvana were all about - a power trio

Lizanalice

Nirvana is everything in this song

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