In My Head
No Doubt Lyrics


Jump to: Overall Meaning ↴  Line by Line Meaning ↴

I try to think about rainbows
When it gets bad
You got to think about something
To keep from going mad

I try to think about big fat roses
When the ship starts going down
But my head is wicked jealous
Don't want to talk about it right now

Long distance, don't talk about
Ex-girlfriends, don't talk about
You without me, don't talk about
The past

In my head, it's only in my head
In my head, it's only in my head

There's just something about you
That gets me in a twist
And sometimes I think that cupid
Is just taking the piss

It only takes one though or idea
To send me in real deep
So if you think you're clever
Use the right words when you talk to me

Long distance, don't talk about
Ex-girlfriends, don't talk about
You without me, don't talk about
The past

In my head
It's only in my head (only in my head)
In my head
It's only in my head (only in my head)

In my head
It's only in my head (only in my head)
In my head
It's only in my head (only in my head)

I really think I have a problem
I really can't control myself
Why do I get so suspicious?
Do you want someone else?
'Cause everybody wants everybody else
Everybody wants everybody else
Everybody wants everybody else
Everybody wants everybody else

(Only in my head)
It's only in my head

In my head
It's only in my head (only in my head)
In my head
It's only in my head (only in my head)

Long distance, don't talk about
Ex-girlfriends, don't talk about
You without me, don't talk about
The past

Lets talk about the future
Lets talk about the wedding
Lets talk about Gwen Stefani




Let's talk about how much you like me
And all that

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of No Doubt's "In My Head" is about the struggle of trying to maintain a relationship while dealing with jealousy and suspicion. The song starts by Gwen Stefani singing about trying to think about happy thoughts like rainbows and big fat roses to help cope when things get tough. However, the constant worry and jealousy that arises when thinking about their partner's past relationships or the possibility of them wanting someone else is too much to bear. Stefani expresses that all the feelings are only in her head, but it does not make them any less real or significant.


The second verse mentions Cupid and how it does not take much for someone to get her "in a twist." This suggests that Stefani falls in love easily but is at constant odds with herself about whether it's justified. She expresses a desire for her partner to use the right words because even a small misunderstanding can send her spiraling.


The pre-chorus highlights the things that Stefani does not want to hear about in conversation with her partner. She does not want to discuss long-distance, ex-girlfriends, or how they were before they were together. She wants to focus on their present and future together. The chorus repeats a few times as she reiterates that everything is happening only in her head.


Line by Line Meaning

I try to think about rainbows When it gets bad
When things get tough, I try to focus on positive things like rainbows, to keep from feeling overwhelmed.


You got to think about something To keep from going mad
It's important to have something to distract you or focus on when life gets difficult.


I try to think about big fat roses When the ship starts going down
Even in the most dire of situations, it's important to try to remain positive and focus on the good things in life, like big, beautiful roses.


But my head is wicked jealous Don't want to talk about it right now
I'm feeling very jealous, and it's hard to talk about my feelings at this time.


Long distance, don't talk about Ex-girlfriends, don't talk about You without me, don't talk about The past
There are certain topics that are off-limits for discussion - anything related to past relationships or events, and anything that might make our current relationship feel more distant.


In my head, it's only in my head In my head, it's only in my head
These thoughts I'm having are only in my head - they're not real events that are happening in our relationship.


There's just something about you That gets me in a twist And sometimes I think that cupid Is just taking the piss
You drive me a little bit crazy sometimes, and it feels like even Cupid is messing with our relationship.


It only takes one though or idea To send me in real deep So if you think you're clever Use the right words when you talk to me
I'm easily affected by what people say to me, so it's important that you choose your words carefully around me.


I really think I have a problem I really can't control myself Why do I get so suspicious? Do you want someone else?
I'm struggling with my own feelings of jealousy and suspicion, and I'm not sure why I'm feeling this way.


'Cause everybody wants everybody else Everybody wants everybody else Everybody wants everybody else Everybody wants everybody else
It feels like everyone is always looking for something better than what they currently have - including myself.


Lets talk about the future Lets talk about the wedding Lets talk about Gwen Stefani Let's talk about how much you like me And all that
Instead of dwelling on the negative, let's talk about our future together and all of the things we love about each other.


(Only in my head) It's only in my head
I need to remind myself that these thoughts and feelings are all in my head.




Lyrics © Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd.
Written by: Gwen Renee Stefani, Thomas Dumont, Tony Ashwin Kanal

Lyrics Licensed & Provided by LyricFind
To comment on or correct specific content, highlight it

Genre not found
Artist not found
Album not found
Song not found

More Versions