A Temperamental Widower
Norma Jean Lyrics


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We're not going backwards
We're not going backwards

We're just killing onward, today
And put that knife away!

My first thought, a dragon
My first thought, a dragon

Two contending marches

And put that knife away!

She'll sting you to death
Like a swarm of hornets
From the hive
Endlessly I drift
Into this distraction
Sign my name to shame
Press hard, there are three copies

You'll put me in the grave
You'll put me in the grave

We're not going backwards
We're not going backwards

We're just killing onward, today
Put that knife away!
And put that knife away!

Making progress like that of a dead man




Constant last words, the last word.
The last words.

Overall Meaning

The song "A Temperamental Widower" by Norma Jean contains dark and haunting lyrics that represent a person’s struggle to move on from their past. The first two lines of the chorus, "We're not going backwards" are repeated often throughout the song, suggesting the desire to move forward and not dwell on past mistakes. This is further emphasized by the line, "We're just killing onward, today," which highlights the determination to progress, albeit through a great deal of pain.


The line, "My first thought, a dragon," is ambiguous but suggests feelings of fear or anxiety. The reference to a "dragon" is often associated with the idea of a mythical creature that is difficult to defeat, which could represent the nature of the issues the person is dealing with. Furthermore, the line, "Two contending marches," highlights the conflict the person is facing between their past and their desired future.


The final section of the song, "Making progress like that of a dead man, constant last words, the last word," suggests that the person is struggling to move forward and feels stuck in their past mistakes. The line, "You'll put me in the grave," adds to the sense of hopelessness and despair.


Overall, the song is a powerful representation of the difficulties of letting go of the past and moving forward.


Line by Line Meaning

We're not going backwards
We won't return to the past


We're just killing onward, today
We're relentlessly moving forward with a focused purpose


And put that knife away!
Stop being destructive and violent


My first thought, a dragon
My initial reaction is to be aggressive and confrontational


Two contending marches
Two opposing forces clashing against each other


She'll sting you to death
She'll hurt you severely and cause great harm


Like a swarm of hornets
With the intensity and painfulness of a swarm of hornets attacking


From the hive
Coming from a source of organized and determined instinct


Endlessly I drift
I feel lost and aimless, without clear direction


Into this distraction
Giving in to something that diverts focus and attention


Sign my name to shame
Publicly acknowledging guilt and responsibility for wrongdoing


Press hard, there are three copies
Making sure the confession is recorded and documented for future reference


You'll put me in the grave
Your actions are leading me towards death and destruction


Making progress like that of a dead man
Advancing without any real purpose or passion, like a lifeless body


Constant last words, the last word.
The words spoken in desperation, the final statement before the end.




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