DON'T ASK ME
OK Go Lyrics


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Quit acting so friendly.
Don't nod don't laugh all nicely.
Don't think you'll up-end me.
Don't sigh, don't sip your iced-tea.
And don't say, "It's been a while..."
And don't flash that stupid smile.

Don't ask me how I've been.

Don't think I've forgotten,
You never liked that necklace.
So cordial, so rotten...
Kiss, kiss, let's meet for breakfast.
Don't show up so on-time
And don't act like you're so kind

Don't ask me how I've been.

Don't sit there and play just
So frank, so straight, so candid,
So thoughtful, so gracious,
So sound, so even-handed.
Don't be so damn benign
And don't waste my fucking time.

Don't ask me how I've been.





Hey! Get over it!

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to "Don't Ask Me" by OK Go are a sarcastic ode to an ex-lover or former friend who has moved on while the singer is still dealing with the breakup. The singer of the song is frustrated with the other person's behavior, which they perceive as phony and insincere. They don't want to hear the old platitudes and fake politeness that the other person is throwing their way, and they resent the fact that the other person seems to have gotten over the breakup so quickly while they are still hurting. The chorus ("Don't ask me how I've been") is a direct rebuke to the other person's attempts to reestablish contact and feign interest in their well-being.


The verses of the song detail some of the ways in which the other person is attempting to reach out and reconnect, such as showing up at the agreed upon meeting spot on time, offering to have breakfast together, and trying to seem kind and thoughtful. The singer rejects all of these overtures and instead demands that the other person show some real emotion and honesty. The anger and bitterness in the song is leavened with a healthy dose of humor and irony, as the singer recognizes the absurdity of the situation and their own inability to move on. The final rallying cry of "Hey! Get over it!" is a kind of pep talk to themselves, a reminder that they need to let go of the past and move forward.


Line by Line Meaning

Quit acting so friendly.
Stop pretending to be my friend.


Don't nod don't laugh all nicely.
Don't try to act polite and amicable.


Don't think you'll up-end me.
Don't assume you have the upper hand over me.


Don't sigh, don't sip your iced-tea.
Don't act so casual and uninterested.


And don't say, "It's been a while..."
Don't try to make small talk with me.


And don't flash that stupid smile.
Don't try to fake a friendly smile.


Don't ask me how I've been.
Don't inquire about my well-being.


Don't think I've forgotten,
Don't assume I've forgiven and forgotten.


You never liked that necklace.
You always had a problem with something about me.


So cordial, so rotten...
You act friendly, but your intentions are malicious.


Kiss, kiss, let's meet for breakfast.
Don't try to make plans with me, as if we are still close.


Don't show up so on-time
Don't arrive ahead of time, trying to impress me.


And don't act like you're so kind
Don't try to be extra nice to me in order to manipulate me.


Don't sit there and play just
Don't try to play it cool or put on an act.


So frank, so straight, so candid,
Don't be overly honest or blunt.


So thoughtful, so gracious,
Don't try to act like you are considerate or courteous.


So sound, so even-handed.
Don't show off how fair and reasonable you are trying to be.


Don't be so damn benign
Don't act innocuous or harmless when you really aren't.


And don't waste my fucking time.
Stop bothering me and trying to deceive me with your fake niceties.


Don't ask me how I've been.
Do not pretend to be concerned about me.


Hey! Get over it!
Stop trying to manipulate me and move on.




Lyrics © BMG Rights Management
Written by: DAMIAN KULASH

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Comments from YouTube:

@DrumCovers0096

Crazy underrated album. So many FANTASTIC songs

@anberee

So true!!

@hannahjosef35

I don't understand how some people can't like their new music. I love there new and old music.

@pokenutter

Honestly, it could be the audio mastering for the CDs. I don't know if it was deliberate or not, but the cacophonous nature of Of The Blue Color Of The Sky made it hard to listen to.

@amiethompson6062

*their

@toomdog

Where? Where do you love new and old music?

@melissaa.bernstein910

Their music changed a lot when OG Andy left, because he was the synthesizer guy. The self titled album is the last one he was involved with, so everything after that was less synth-y. I also attribute it to them just growing older, getting married, etc. They're fantastic guys and great performers.

@callowrat

Most people that like bands that go from punk to indie/electronic are like that

@egg7962

Guys, it's obviously a T-mobile commercial.

@xaytaytortot2540

XD

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