Congratulations
October Blue Lyrics

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Is that seat taken
Congratulations
Would you like to take a walk with me

My mind it kind of goes fast
I try to slow it down for you
I think I'd love to take a drive
I want to give you something

I've been wanting to give to you for years
My heart

My heart, my pain won't cover up
You left me, hu hu hu hu
My heart won't take this cover up
You left me, hu hu hu hu

I came to see the light in my best friend
You seemed as happy as you'd ever been
My chance of being open was broken
And now you're Mrs. Him

My words they don't come out right
But I'll try to say I'm happy for you
I think I'm going to take that drive
I want to give you something
I've been wanting to give to you for years
My heart

My heart, my pain won't cover up
You left me, hu hu hu hu
My heart
My heart won't take this cover up
You left me, hu hu hu hu

And I can't change this
I can never take it back
But now I can't change your mind
(You left me)
And I can't this
I can never take this back
But now I can't change your mind
Can't change your mind
(You left me, hu hu hu hu)
Can't change you mind
(You left me, hu hu hu hu)
(You left me, hu hu hu hu)
(You left me, hu hu hu hu)

Go away

Make it go away
Please

Overall Meaning

The song "Congratulations" by October Falls is a heart-wrenching ballad about unrequited love and the regret of missed opportunities. The lyrics are told from the perspective of the singer who has been in love with their best friend for years, but the friend has recently gotten engaged to someone else. The song starts with an awkward encounter between the two, "Is that seat taken, congratulations, would you like to take a walk with me?" The singer offers to take a drive with the friend and give them something they have been "wanting to give for years... my heart."

The singer's mind races, but they try to slow it down for the friend. The pain of the friend's engagement is overwhelming, "My heart, my pain won't cover up, you left me." The singer has missed their chance with the friend, "My chance of being open was broken, and now you're Mrs. Him." The singer tries to express happiness for the friend, but their words don't seem to come out right. They desperately wish they could turn back time and change the outcome, "And I can't change this, I can never take it back, and now I can't change your mind, make it go away, please."

The song is a powerful portrayal of unrequited love, missed chances, and the regret that comes with it. The imagery of the road trip and giving their heart to the friend is a metaphor for the journey of love and the singer's realization that they may never have that chance again.

Line by Line Meaning

Is that seat taken
Asking if the seat next to the person is unoccupied.

Congratulations
Expressing congratulations towards the person.

Would you like to take a walk with me
Inviting the person to take a walk.

My mind it kind of goes fast
Acknowledging that their mind is working quickly.

I try to slow it down for you
Making an effort to make things easier for the person.

I think I'd love to take a drive
Expressing interest in going on a drive.

I want to give you something
Wanting to offer something to the person.

I've been wanting to give to you for years
Expressing that this has been on their mind for years.

My heart
Referring to the emotion and love in their heart.

My heart, my pain won't cover up
Their heart is in pain and cannot be hidden.

You left me, hu hu hu hu
Feeling hurt over a past relationship where the other person left.

My heart won't take this cover up
Their heart cannot handle being covered up or ignored.

I came to see the light in my best friend
Referring to the positive qualities they once saw in their best friend.

You seemed as happy as you'd ever been
Observing that their best friend seemed very happy.

My chance of being open was broken
Feeling like they missed their chance to be honest about their feelings.

And now you're Mrs. Him
Referring to their best friend now being married to another person.

My words they don't come out right
Acknowledge that they struggle to express themselves verbally.

But I'll try to say I'm happy for you
Trying to express happiness for their best friend.

And I can't change this
Feeling powerless to change what has happened.

I can never take it back
Knowing that they can't undo what happened in the past.

But now I can't change your mind
Acknowledging that they cannot change their best friend's mind.

Can't change your mind
Repeating that they cannot influence their best friend's decision.

Go away
Expressing a desire for the situation to end or go away.

Make it go away
Yearning for the pain and heartbreak to disappear.

Please
Requesting this to happen with a sense of desperation.

Lyrics © BMG Rights Management
Written by: JUSTIN FURSTENFELD

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Comments from YouTube:

@silence433

3y↑32

Got this album when it first came out, I must've been only 14 or 15 at the time. I was too young to really know heartbreak but I had lost a close friend to suicide and this song always made me think of her.
I also always heard "you lift me up" instead of the "you left me" lyrics.
Love this album, thank you Blue October for such heartfelt music. I'm 28 now and still love hearing Foiled in its entirety.

@jakestein32

I HEARD THAT TOO for the longest time

@stephensmith3215

5y↑77

when you find a song by accident and it rocks you to the core damn what a fine piece of artistic talent

@ivansnegireff4765

3y↑1

miss u

@broadbandbooking4592

amen!

@shaxnax

13y↑9

No matter how many times I've heard this song.. every time the chorus starts my whole body gets goosebumps. :D I am in love with Blue October's art.

@paulk1888

3y↑17

He's fantastic I'm not really an emotional person but I've seen me sitting with tears running down my face because of him 😊

@trustfire

13y↑16

This has to be one of the emotional songs i've ever heard, you can hear the grief in his voice. Amazing song.

@RandomGenericComment

11y↑189

if not a "friend-zoned" song; it's a song about old loves and missed chances. Its hard to accept that you've lost someone forever, and takes a lot of time and repairing before you're able to love again. for most, anyways. The hard choice is whether its better to be a supportive friend to the person you love, or save yourself the immense pain of having to watch from the sidelines. What do you guys think?

@wendylamse9992

5y↑2

I personally believe that it depends on one's perspective. Love can be shown in many ways.

@scottgilberg6438

5y↑6

Learning to love truer.
And learning how to be a Good supportive friend. Tough call.
Sidelines are the healthy choice until the person "me" can do no damage. So to speak.
Much luv.

@sharicrocker5841

5y↑2

What does one really have to loose just to see😘

@theasporta5312

4y↑4

In both case... It sucks...

@jackielaster8035

I felt that

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@GenocideOnToast

12y↑2

I haven't heard this song for two years - it still hits me the same. I still remember all the words.

@marilopes3009

3y↑9

Eu to lendo "Confie em mim" do Harlan Coben e essa música foi citada no livro, e agora eu vim parar aqui apaixonada por ela

@martaalmeidamoreira5448

2y↑1

E eu agora, na mesma situação 😌

@justinheard395

Jeff Abbot wrote that not Harlan Coben

@estrelaalves829

40w

Eu também 😂

@estrelaalves829

40w

@justinheard395 their meant that this song was mentioned in Harlan Coben's book, and that's the reason their's listen to this song

@leetlargo

12y↑1

Just like everyone else, I relate to this song. I did come to see the light in my best friend back in November. I remember when she said to me she should have gotten with me a long time ago. She's married with kids but I'm glad she told me. She felt she owed me the truth even if she finally realized it years later. She is, unfortunately, in my dreams on a daily basis now. No bullshit. Hence why I'm here listening to this amazing song!

@loswatchdonosplease3630

need an update bro

@andromedagalaxy4268

9y↑40

1:53-2:15 Wow, so much emotion! To not sing along actually causes some physical discomfort! Such wonderful musicians!

@johnhoward5013

yes!

@elizabethambrose6396

It truly does

@lostgrunt7833

Almost ever song he sings has a part exactly like that!

@angelsmith1361

9y↑1

Every time I hear him say "My heart." I get the chills cx it's amazing I love this song and to all of you that aren't having the best day smile and just think tomorrow will be a better day! Hold your head up high, you're gonna wish you did one day. Have an amazing day! :)

@wtrmlnbookwrm

13y↑1

This song just fills me with happy. I have been in a situation like this with close friends. But I think the beauty of this song is that although the lyrics are sad and heartbroken, the music is so beautiful and moving that you cant help but still feel uplifted and looking with hope to the future. It can't rain all the time. And I feel happy for all those dear to me who are happy. :D I hope the smile forever!

@melissasalisbury4489

5y↑2

Every time. I hear a blue October song. I get chills .. Justin's voice is amazing.

@ML-uu7wy

Agree

@KiranKumar-zt4bx

10y↑1

Best band ever.They make such awesome songs.The lyrics are just superb.Top class.

@ferretappreciator

8y↑26

When I was younger I would force my Mom to play this song in the car because it was so calming, it's great. I even did a project about poetry on it ;^;

@fullarmormrnewtypex3rx-036

8y↑1

Taliyah it is man i love itt

@TheCryingDevil101

13y↑1

Im a new fan of BLUE OCTOBER and seriously, where the hell they've been in all my life??? Awesome band!!

@Autumnrain266

6y↑2

“ My words they don’t come out right but I’ll try to say I’m happy for you”😭😭😭 I felt that hard i love this band so much ❤️❤️❤️

@krisnotes1979

10y↑115

I bought this CD when it first came out because of Into The Ocean. I sat in my car just rock'n with all the songs then this one happens. It's like Justin read my damn diary....I cried like a baby. Now several years later...still makes me feel the same for the same person. Except we are in exactly this situation. He didn't read my diary he predicted my future :(

@kar1insky933

10y↑1

Interesting..........

@miikeconville5203

lame

@FlpSideOfSanity

Same exact thing with me but I bought it for she's my ride home

@nataliewinchell8946

krisnotes1979
I totally relate, same thing happened to me. And I had this CD when it first came out and this track still makes me feel the same thing too. Keep your head up and your heart open, it will work out the way it should

@lucyricardo3971

It's the sweetest song. And sad. I think you should always speak from your heart. I think it's so loving to tell a person they matter.

@ruelagoet_m5891

4y↑2

I remember 7 years ago when I was 10 I would listen to this song with my grandma all the time... brings back memories

@sammoody361

The first time I've heard your voice/ music my Tia would jam the hell out of every song; when I 11/12. Now 25, I still listen to you every day. I've been through some troubled times as young as I am. You guys have helped me through my darkest times and still do so. Thank you for that! #staysticky

@chantelbaldwin6126

8y↑10

Your songs are incredible! You are truly gifted in the way you speak in all your songs. I can appreciate the challenges you've obviously been through to communicate the way you do. Thank you for sharing. Bless you and keep up the great job!!!

@miikeconville5203

8y↑1

fart

@ThePatenty

yeah he's been to a lot, drug problems, mainly due to pibolarity sufferings

@fullarmormrnewtypex3rx-036

Chantel Baldwin blue October is amazing love the vocals and music

@chantelbaldwin6126

Sure enough!

@mikebarber7617

Thank u for the kind words of support I'm getting right trying to uplift as many as I can

@cptnsnowbe

4y↑6

Blue October always gives me the feels 😭

@rep415ca

13y↑3

it's interesting. the first time i listened to this song it consisted of slow dancing with my ex fiance and kissing in the dark and she'd just sing the song in the most..soothing voice. that was over 2 years ago. ironically i never thought the song was going to come to life for us. in a weird way, i think it was a way of love telling us you have eachother for now, but don't miss the big signs because it's not forever. learn from this. i dont cry hearing this now. i love you but goodbye<3+

@RandiRawrable

13y

This song is stupidly amazing. It reminds me of my best friend, but going into detail would probably make me cry more. xD This band has a key to my soul I swear.<3

@stingerster

10y↑38

I can only listen to them for so long than I have to rebuild myself emotionally. Amazing lyrics. Hate Me...

@Hashukuro

5y↑1

Ain't that the damn truth.

@susasamas12

6y↑1

Deserves 40 million more views such a good band and song

@mandyweathers3116

Isn't it amazing how much music can make you feel? I love it ^-^.

@weresdeluv

13y

this is really good! i heard this song on the radio yesterday and i loved it! thanks for the upload and the lyrics :)

@Taikedo1

13y↑2

I think this song is telling us that we shouldn't wait to tell the one we love our feelings towards them before it's too late, you have to tell them now or they are going to end up marring or dating someone else and you can never get to know the feeling of actually having them in your arms, not feeling the touch of their lips against yours, not experiencing the love and care that they will give to you, so don't waste time, it will only hurt you more.

@ANCISO15

14y↑1

strong words!!! love this song!! love all of their songs!!! Blue October FTW!!!!!!

@dream1092

13y↑1

i really like this song-can't stop listening to it, this song is for real!

@Kexce

4y↑7

This band was bomb back in the day too. And then Daybreakers plays one of their songs ,right when they are making a comback. Great timing 👍😀

@jaensadi4052

10y↑10

I stopped listening to Blue October for a time because my heart was pulverized already with the lyrics. LOL. But i love this band. I miss their music and am gonna soak in it til i fall asleep tonight. :)

@Huncho623

4y↑2

I was humming this song for YEARS and finally found it 😭😭😭

@Wuffskers

13y

Imogen and Justin should do more songs together, their voices are really good together :)

@babymoonowl

34w

I love this song!!

@PrettyKitty900

11y

this gives me chills...it's just too awesome!

@Nessun2023

4y↑1

I’m 16 now, but I remember being little and this being on radio stations always playing. Such a simple time.

@davidsalinas1024

i love blue October and ive been listening to them sense i was little but i didn't know this song until daybreak and when i first heard it i was just like WOW this song is amazing

@mintbutterfly10

5y↑1

Justin Furstenfeld is proof that people can get back up 💗 So needed. Love it. Still listening on good days and bad in 2019! And wearing out my band tees like a pro 😅

@raquelcarvalho5222

2y↑3

Blue October is one of the most beautiful gifts that life has ever given me. Tks! ❤️

@iluvagm

2y↑1

Absolutely!! Same here! Justen is a gift from above. 😎👍🏼🎶

@neonbelly9491

girl you couldve typed out thanks. you literally had 3 letters to go.

@raquelcarvalho5222

49w

@@neonbelly9491 In my country it is common to use Tks instead of thanks. It's a cultural issue. If you are ignorant, at least be polite and don't try to correct a word that isn't wrong. Tks u!!!!❤️

@chevelleklinert4346

you know its a good song when you get goosebumps and short-breathed. <3 i listn to Blue October for 2 reasons
blue october is a great band , this is what music is <3 <3 :)

@alexandriajones7028

3y↑2

The hardest thing to do is to walk away from someone you have strong feelings for even if you know you're not good for them.

@heavenkept

11y

I can't say enough about these guy's <3 My words they don't come out right. They have my heart!

@davelopezr

11y

todo por esta cancion y lo mejor es el sentimiento con el que la canta

@vernontaulbee9487

4y↑5

I hear this song and it reminds me of my ex-wife of 16yrs. When she told me she didn't love me any more I lost not only my best friend but my heart. I do miss her, but I found a new love and best friend to help me heal from that pain.

@npdantihero

6y↑2

this song is the first song I learned how to slow dance to with my first real true love. I've been waiting for the moment years later to have to sing this accordingly with the lyrics rather than remembering the first memory I attached to it.
looks like that time is here.

I'll try to say I'm happy for you.
congratulations

@Kateful23

13y↑1

I love this song a long lost friend who i think about daily and love deeply played this for me and things happened. I miss him despite it all. I love you CBE nothing will change that even with the bitter cold and hate in your heart.

@jarretlingle2553

This song is like it was written about my recent life. Now you're Mrs. Him? OMG that cuts deep!

@RandomlyDevin

11y

There's no such thing as listening to Blue October too much.

@roygonzalez4213

Im using my bfs account, but i absolutely just love their music... this entire album especially. .. they way he sings and how he puts his words together. .. i can relate to so much of every song....

@gla55ofscornxd62

I think blue october is the only band to break down the walls in my heart. All those memories that this song brings back. I hate it, still the best band

@boulson-clashofclans6930

I remember this song. I was in the car in 2007 with my mom, cousin, brother and aunt. We were going on a trip to Minnesota, and we were forced to listen to this song the whole trip and every time my aunt would change it, I would throw a fit. Haha, good times.

@missmandy8192

3y↑1

This my jam..even 29 years later

@donniedarko5802

5y↑1

Im trying hard to be supportive of my love and best friend as I lose her. This song hit home...

@jeff1967ist

3y↑1

Wow, this song! Awesome

@alleybrown2442

11y

Blue October helps me explain my feelings when I can't.

@Mar_len.

This song says everything I fell inside. Love is painful when you're not loved back by the one person you gave your heart to. 😢

@TheBrunetteBarbie11

13y

This reminds me of the music they play in the movies where two people realize they love each other for the first time.

@dewinmoonl

6y↑3

7 years ago I was listening to this song. Today I'm again listening to this song.
you know the reason. this song is so special

@Soaring_Hawk

This man brings even a hard man to tears

@iconiccavalier2240

4y↑55

I'm not here from whatever Daybreak is. I'm here cause I love Blue October, and my family has great taste in music.

@mysticcatstudios6683

3y↑2

I'm here because both. And Daybreak is a great show that starts off kinda silly,but each character is really well written and developed. I would definitely recommend it, especially if you like stuff like Evil Dead or Mall Rats

@g-6989

@Mystic Cat Studios it’s tragic that they canceled it smh

@chetanshah6354

3y↑1

What else would I like if I like Blue October!!

@allforone2544

2y↑2

yo i grew up on this song, in fact i grew up on the entire damn album

@luckoftheirish313

This song is amazing

@brooksjedi

13y↑1

this song has always reminded me of the day i was going to tell my best friend (she's now deceased) that i loved her, when she told me she got married. R.I.P Kari, i love you eternally.

@marcwaters4771

3y↑2

She knew, when she sent me his song, the message conveyed, the effects on me ,and the long lingering pain in the knowledge that she should have been my life...

@CaityRaindrop

13y

js, though i'm not such a fan of twilight, at least it's helped the song gain more popularity from the people who wouldn't normally even try listening to Blue October, cause it's absolutely brilliant (: My (now ex) was the first one to introduce me to this and I thought it was beautiful ^__^

@butterfly-pax2604

Congratulations for an Awesome song. Love it❤All your songs are so Awesome and all tell some amazing stories. Thanks for sharing 👍❤🤘✌

@wisleneaires2813

Cheguei nessa música por meio do livro guia oficial da série crepúsculo. Alguém mais?

@XDpeaceout

13y

my best guy friend sent me this song about a year ago.... it won me over. Our 3 month anniversary is coming up on the 13th :]

@Chillygaby15

9y↑2

this song is just too good!

@gotchabitch9029

4y↑1

This song is beautiful

@Starburstiscrunk

6y↑5

now that I'm older I understand the lyrics of all of blue October`s songs...

@jeannoteren2306

8y↑49

"My mind it kind of goes fast.... but I'll try and slow it down for you."
Fuck I love this song but it kicks me straight in the gut.

@jessicaallen3891

8y↑1

fuggin aye!

@aribernal9235

10y↑1

My dad would always play this song and now I'm addicted to it :i

@garydelamuertes9148

I've known this song for years. Happy to hear it in Daybreak. Also the reference to Girl in a Coma who opened for Blue October last time I saw them in concert.

@dokidokinox

12y↑1

To my best friend, who I helped to get into a relationship with my other close friend. Congratulations to both of you. Too bad our perfect trio is coming to an end.

@somethingwolfy6521

7y↑2

i have no words for the way this song opens my wounds. my heart can't take this cover up
.

@crazitaco

9y↑14

This song is emotionally crushing now that I understand the lyrics :'(

@obsessiveninja

11y

If there's one good thing to say about Stephanie Meyer, it's that she has the greatest musical taste. (I wish I could say the same about her books, though.)

@annimoellemand

13y↑1

This is such a beautiful song..(L) Love it when she sings: "You left me uh uh uh uh .." :)

@Raccoonpeep

12y

I'm experiencing the same thing. I was watching a movie last night and burst into tears after i saw the girl's crush kiss her best friend. I said "i know the feeling" and started bawling. i have my heart set, i'm not giving up on him.

@prestonsargent3370

Damn that shit hit me hard just now and I’ve been listening to this song for years…

@MasterKacey

This song has never and will never be relevant to me, but FUCK these lyrics never fail to emotionally destroy me every time I listen to it.

"My chance for being open was broken and now you're Mrs. Him."
OOOOF.

@tylababyful

13y

this song makes me feel relaxed nd think alot but it gives me alot to think about :)

@here777electra2

Love this song.. :)

@CorvinTheOracle

12y↑1

This is why I'm going to go to my ex's wedding and show her how much I love her and miss her. I'm going to sing either this song, Calling You, or Smile by Sixx:A.M.

@ZombiebrainsZombie

10y↑39

Every time I hear this song, I think about my ex, I wish it had never ended. I just feel lost and alone. I can't breathe, I have nightmares, I cry all the time. Even though he hurt me so bad, every time I listen to this song, I can't help it, I just miss him....

@ThatHanniganfellow

6y↑2

I hope three years have been long enough for you to heal.

@dangit6599

No, it never heals...you just have to move forward🎚👹🎚🤘

@71bekbek

Hope youre doing well❤

@kennedypanno8733

Super sad I feel bad for you

@kylercolbert4404

Jesus loves you and will change your life if you ask for forgiveness your not alone

@DTOX828

11y

my best friend is getting married, this is the song i'm singing at the ceremony

@observantowl7248

11y

This is about coming back to the love of your life after you have "fixed your problems" and realize that it was too late. Been there, done that.

@001Sparkie

My best friend just got married, I nearly died of multiple blood clots in my lungs.. Once out of the hospital I decided I'd tell her how I feel and wanted to be with her. I invited her over hoping to come clean, however she told me about this guy she's seeing and how happy she was. I supported her and now she's married with 1 kid and another on the way. I'm sad but blessed to be godfather to her child and glad she's happy. Hopefully one day I'll find the same.

@crimsonjewel86

13y

I think its funny how more people are going to be Blue October fans because of Twilight... Whatever can get more Blue October into the hearts of everyone!! Lol... Ya know, I do have to give it to those who come up with those Twilight soundtracks... they use a lot of independent music, and VERY good music! I was rather impressed while reading the list on the back of the cd.

@Strongeguy21

11y

love this song

@personaljeweler

12y

don't give up, try having heart to heart talks, calmly, and listen . both to whats said and whats not. You made her smile, YOU CAN DO IT AGAIN!

@DatSlowpoke

12y

Imogen Heap and Justin's voices just sound so beautiful together :,) Too bad Justin's already married, otherwise I think these two would have made an awesome musically talented couple.

@dxnkjojo491

5y↑1

This brings back some very dark, sad, and personal childhood memories.

@justabluegir11

12y

I adore this song, and this band...but it is so hard to listen to...it hits so close to home it wrenches my heart...I miss you Josh...

@dsauce93

11y

I know right.... I love blue october, I cry every time I listen to these guys but the pain is almost comforting, like Justin has felt the pain I'm in before so we are here coping together....

@Villeiam

After so many years of her being gone (2010)...watching daybreak and this song just brings the hurt right back. I hope you're happy M.K.W. I can say that I've moved on and I am happy. Met her 3 years ago and things are grand! I just wish the random reminders would stop. Sometimes you just cant stop loving even after the hurt.