Flesh 'N Blood
Oingo Boingo Lyrics


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My friend's flesh and blood
She lies overtime
You'd nail her if you could
But she says
Love me for my mind
In my time
I'm not that kind
My friend's flesh and blood
Night size, perfect ten
So rude, she's no good
But as she says
It pays to win
Play to win
She plays to win

My friend's flesh and blood
Street wise for her time
You'd nail her if you could
But she says




Love me for my mind
In my time

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of "Flesh 'N Blood" by Oingo Boingo capture the inner struggles of a woman who is aware of her physical appeal but also knows that she is more than just her body. The song is written from the perspective of a friend who observes his female friend's struggles with her sexuality and how it is perceived by others. The reference to "flesh and blood" implies that the woman is a real, tangible person with emotions and feelings.


The first verse of the song speaks to the woman's fear of being objectified and used solely for her physical attributes. She knows that many men are only interested in her for her body and would "nail her if they could." However, she refuses to be seen solely as an object of desire, instead insisting that others "love [her] for [her] mind." She knows that there is more to her than just her looks and demands that others see her for who she truly is.


The second verse continues to explore the woman's complex relationship with her sexuality. Despite knowing that she is physically attractive, she is also aware that this attractiveness has brought her nothing but trouble. She is "rude" and "no good" but continues to play the game of seduction in order to win in life. She recognizes that there is something inherently unfair about the way society values physical beauty over other qualities, but still plays along with the game in order to get ahead.


Overall, "Flesh 'N Blood" is a powerful commentary on the way that women are often objectified and reduced to their physical attributes. The song encourages others to see beyond outer appearances and to recognize the full complexity of a person's personality, thoughts, and emotions.


Line by Line Meaning

My friend's flesh and blood
Talking about a person who is close to me and is not just a random stranger


She lies overtime
She is overworked and tired, possibly indicating that she is undervalued and underappreciated


You'd nail her if you could
You have a desire to control this person, possibly in a sexual way, but she is not interested


But she says Love me for my mind
This person values her intelligence and personality, and wants to be loved for more than just her physical appearance


In my time I'm not that kind
She is confident in herself and knows what she wants, and it is not just a physical relationship


Night size, perfect ten
This person is conventionally attractive, with physical features that society deems desirable


So rude, she's no good
She may have a rebellious or non-conformist attitude that is not appreciated by everyone, but that does not diminish her worth


But as she says, It pays to win
She is competitive and driven, and feels that succeeding in life is important


Play to win, she plays to win
She is willing to do what it takes to achieve her goals, even if it means playing dirty or stepping on others


Street wise for her time
This person is savvy and aware of her surroundings, and able to navigate difficult situations


You'd nail her if you could
Once again, there is a desire to dominate or control this person, but she is not interested


But she says Love me for my mind
Her intelligence and personality are what make her unique and worthy of love and respect


In my time,
During this period of life




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: DANNY ELFMAN

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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

BEYOND Good & Evil

Over time
I've come to feel
That everything must come apart, it seems
From the little child
To the man of power
From the beggar to the angel of my dreams
From the thinnest thread
We are sewn together
From the finest string, we dangle over time
From the highest wire
Do we walk through fire
Should our balance ever falter, should our steps be unaligned
Such a big storm, yeah such a strong wind blowing
Such a loud voice calling for me to cross the line

But I'm not gonna give up the ghost
No, not gonna give up the ghost
I'm not gonna give up the ghost
No, not gonna give it up
'Cause I haven't the strength
To hold out too long
If we both hold on together
We can make each other strong

(After all) we're flesh 'n' blood
(After all) we're flesh 'n' blood
(After all) we're flesh 'n' blood
(After all) we're flesh
(After all) we're flesh 'n' blood
(After all) we're flesh 'n' blood
(After all) we're flesh 'n' blood
(After all) we're flesh

Drop the mask
Take away the house
And forget about the income and the car
We're all the same
Underneath our shell
We've all been to hell, and we know what it's like
And we've shared each other's sins
We all know what it's like
To give up the fight
We've all been ashamed at one time or another
We all have dreams
And nightmares, too
When it all comes down, we'll look out for each other
(No one else will)

But when I hear the call
When I feel the thirst
When the catcher comes to take my soul
He's gonna have to fight me first

'Cause I'm not gonna give up the ghost
No, not gonna give up the ghost
I'm not gonna give up the ghost
No, not gonna give it up
'Cause I haven't the strength
To hold out too long
If we both hold on together
We can make each other strong

(After all) we're flesh 'n' blood
(After all) we're flesh 'n' blood
(After all) we're flesh 'n' blood
(After all) we're flesh
(After all) we're flesh 'n' blood
(After all) we're flesh 'n' blood
(After all) we're flesh 'n' blood
(After all) we're flesh

Every cloud
Has a silver lining
And every soul is tender to the touch
We are made of stone
We are made of steel
And we're all the same when we return to dust

But when I hear the call
Yeah, when I feel the thirst
When the catcher comes to take my soul
He's gonna have to fight me first

'Cause I'm not gonna give up the ghost
No, not gonna give up the ghost
I'm not gonna give up the ghost
No, not gonna give it up
'Cause I haven't the strength
To hold out too long
If we both hold on together
We can make each other strong
I'm not gonna give up the ghost
No, not gonna give it up
I'm not gonna give up the ghost
No, not gonna give it up
I'm not gonna give up the ghost
No, not gonna give it up
I'm not gonna give up the ghost
No, not gonna give it up



All comments from YouTube:

BoingoTarash90s

This is an amazing song from top to bottom. And the album, while it doesn't hold a candle to their earlier work, is very underrated.

BEYOND Good & Evil

Over time
I've come to feel
That everything must come apart, it seems
From the little child
To the man of power
From the beggar to the angel of my dreams
From the thinnest thread
We are sewn together
From the finest string, we dangle over time
From the highest wire
Do we walk through fire
Should our balance ever falter, should our steps be unaligned
Such a big storm, yeah such a strong wind blowing
Such a loud voice calling for me to cross the line

But I'm not gonna give up the ghost
No, not gonna give up the ghost
I'm not gonna give up the ghost
No, not gonna give it up
'Cause I haven't the strength
To hold out too long
If we both hold on together
We can make each other strong

(After all) we're flesh 'n' blood
(After all) we're flesh 'n' blood
(After all) we're flesh 'n' blood
(After all) we're flesh
(After all) we're flesh 'n' blood
(After all) we're flesh 'n' blood
(After all) we're flesh 'n' blood
(After all) we're flesh

Drop the mask
Take away the house
And forget about the income and the car
We're all the same
Underneath our shell
We've all been to hell, and we know what it's like
And we've shared each other's sins
We all know what it's like
To give up the fight
We've all been ashamed at one time or another
We all have dreams
And nightmares, too
When it all comes down, we'll look out for each other
(No one else will)

But when I hear the call
When I feel the thirst
When the catcher comes to take my soul
He's gonna have to fight me first

'Cause I'm not gonna give up the ghost
No, not gonna give up the ghost
I'm not gonna give up the ghost
No, not gonna give it up
'Cause I haven't the strength
To hold out too long
If we both hold on together
We can make each other strong

(After all) we're flesh 'n' blood
(After all) we're flesh 'n' blood
(After all) we're flesh 'n' blood
(After all) we're flesh
(After all) we're flesh 'n' blood
(After all) we're flesh 'n' blood
(After all) we're flesh 'n' blood
(After all) we're flesh

Every cloud
Has a silver lining
And every soul is tender to the touch
We are made of stone
We are made of steel
And we're all the same when we return to dust

But when I hear the call
Yeah, when I feel the thirst
When the catcher comes to take my soul
He's gonna have to fight me first

'Cause I'm not gonna give up the ghost
No, not gonna give up the ghost
I'm not gonna give up the ghost
No, not gonna give it up
'Cause I haven't the strength
To hold out too long
If we both hold on together
We can make each other strong
I'm not gonna give up the ghost
No, not gonna give it up
I'm not gonna give up the ghost
No, not gonna give it up
I'm not gonna give up the ghost
No, not gonna give it up
I'm not gonna give up the ghost
No, not gonna give it up

Anna24243

I literally can't stop listening to this song.

IAMSKELETRON

So catchy

☆ Michael Nesmith ☆

Never knew these guys were in Ghostbusters 2 until now. Man I love Oingo Boingo.

Sierra Smith

one of the first albums I intentionally bought--fell in love with the song then...still love it 20 years later!

karmaofgood

Everything in this song is insane. Such that, it reeks of awesomeness.

XXLSSBBW

Have you heard their other song Insanity. Search it.

freakofevolution

I FUCKING LOVE THIS SONG!!!!!

Shelf feather

This song is kind of weird and interesting. It's surreal. I like it because it's authentic and quirky. So I respect it for not holding back.

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