love is embarrassing
Olivia Rodrigo Lyrics


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I told my friends you were the one
After I'd known you like a month
And then you kissed some girl from high school
And I stayed in bed for like a week
When you said space was what you need
Waited by my phone like a goddamn fool

And now it don't mean a thing
God, love's fuckin' embarrassing
Just watch as I crucify myself
For some weird second string
Loser who's not worth mentioning
My God, love's embarrassing as hell

And I consoled you while you cried
Over your ex-girlfriend's new guy
My God, how could I be so stupid?
You found a new version of me
And I damn near started World War III
Jesus, what was I even doing?

'Cause now it don't mean a thing
God, love's fuckin' embarrassing
Just watch as I crucify myself
For some weird second string
Loser who's not worth mentioning
My God, love's embarrassing as hell

I give up, give up
I give up everything
I placed my bets and
It's not worth anything
I give up, give up
But I keep comin' back for more

Yeah, it don't mean a thing
God, love's fuckin' embarrassing
Just watch as I crucify myself, hey, hey, hey
For some weird second string
Loser who's not worth mentioning
My God, love's embarrassing as hell

Yeah, yeah, I give up, give up
I give up everything (ah-ha-ha)




I'm plannin' out my wedding with some guy I'm never marryin'
I'm givin' up, I'm givin' up, but I keep comin' back for more

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Olivia Rodrigo's song "love is embarrassing" delve into the raw emotions and experiences that come with navigating love and relationships. The singer expresses her vulnerability and the mistakes she made, highlighting the embarrassing nature of love. The song begins with her proclaiming to her friends that she believed this person she had only known for a month was "the one." However, her hopes are shattered when she discovers that this person kissed someone else from high school. This betrayal causes her to plummet into a state of despair, spending a week in bed and waiting for their attention.


The chorus reveals the singer's realization that love can be humiliating. She feels foolish for investing so much in someone who turns out to be a "second string" lover, not worth mentioning. Despite comforting this person during their moments of sadness over their ex-girlfriend, the singer questions her own judgment and actions, wondering how she could be so blind.


The bridge shows the singer finally giving up on the relationship. She acknowledges that she has placed her bets and lost, realizing that it was not worth the sacrifice. However, despite her resolve to give up, she finds herself coming back for more, showing the complex and often contradictory nature of love.


Overall, "love is embarrassing" portrays the rollercoaster of emotions that come with love, highlighting the moments of humiliation and self-reflection that can arise when navigating relationships.


Line by Line Meaning

I told my friends you were the one
I confidently declared to my friends that you were my soulmate


After I'd known you like a month
Even though we had only been together for a short time


And then you kissed some girl from high school
You betrayed me by intimately engaging with another girl from your past


And I stayed in bed for like a week
I was heartbroken and emotionally devastated, unable to face the world


When you said space was what you need
You claimed that you needed personal space and distance from our relationship


Waited by my phone like a goddamn fool
I anxiously waited for your call or message, foolishly hoping for reconciliation


And now it don't mean a thing
Our relationship has lost all significance and importance


God, love's fucking embarrassing
Love is utterly humiliating and shameful


Just watch as I crucify myself
Witness me torturing myself emotionally and mentally


For some weird second string
For a substitute lover who is not worthy of recognition


Loser who's not worth mentionin'
A pathetic and insignificant person not worth acknowledging


My God, love's embarrassing as hell
Goodness, love is excruciatingly and humiliatingly painful


And I consoled you while you cried
I comforted you while you were weeping


Over your ex-girlfriend's new guy
Because of your pain over your ex-girlfriend having a new partner


My God, how could I be so stupid?
Oh dear, how could I have been so foolish and naive?


You found a new version of me
You discovered a different version or replacement for me in someone else


And I damn near started World War III
I almost caused a huge conflict or argument


Jesus, what was I even doing?
My goodness, what was I thinking and why did I act that way?


'Cause now it don't mean a thing
Now our relationship holds no value or significance


I give up, give up
I surrender completely


I give up everything
I abandon all hope and let go of everything


I placed my bets and
I took a gamble and


It's not worth anything
It turned out to be worthless and meaningless


But I keep comin' back for more
Yet I continue to return, seeking more pain and disappointment


I'm plannin' out my wedding
I'm imagining and organizing a future wedding


With some guy I'm never marryin'
With a man whom I will never actually marry


I'm givin' up, I'm givin' up
I'm surrendering and letting go


But I keep comin' back for more
Yet I repeatedly return, subjecting myself to further pain




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: Daniel Nigro, Olivia Rodrigo

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@lilbrujita98

She's so good at capturing these niche extremely specific feelings

@Livilulu0226

Fr

@M4angie

Literally

@VanessaKim-sy6xg

She's amazing; I've never related to someone's songs so vividly until I discovered Olviia's new album today!!!! She's really one of the best ever, and I love the way she is so raw and honest in all of her music and she's not afraid to experiment with such cool interesting things in her songs!!!!

@jessicawalraven6241

Yas

@inescosta2671

Fr😂
I am in one of those rn

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@sabrinawinchester

I'm 100% convinced Olivia can never make a bad song. Even though I'm not a fan of some of her songs on the first listen, it immediately grows on me after the second listen lol.

@tara.kalpa_

ALL of her songs don't fit with me first listen, except Driver's License, Traitor and All I want, but I've learnt it this way- listen to her songs twice.

@seeratbhatia8405

HONESTLY I THOUGHT I WAS THE ONLY ONE

@Avizarr

EXACTLY how I feel with this album. Last night my first listen I was like “This feels a bit disappointing first listen”. My second listen it has been going better.

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