The Man Who Isn't There
Oren Lavie Lyrics


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Look at the sky
It belonged to a guy
That I know
And I thought I forgot
Long ago

Look at the trees
Didn't stop at the top
Not for him
Used to borrow the wind
For a walk

Look in his eyes for a dying flare
Look for the wind in his yellow hair
And pretend
You see the man
Who isn't there

Look at the sea
used to save all his waves
for hellos
used to climb up
his highs, down his lows

Look at the birds
used to flock as he walked
through the street
used to fly down
and march at his feet

Look in his eyes for a dying flare
Look for the wind in his yellow hair
And pretend




You see the man
Who isn't there

Overall Meaning

In Oren Lavie's song "The Man Who Isn't There," the singer reflects on a person they used to know. The first stanza begins with the singer looking at the sky and realizing that it once belonged to the person they used to know, who they thought they had forgotten long ago. This indicates that the singer and the person they used to know had a very close relationship, one that was important enough for the singer to make note of the sky belonging to the other person. In the second stanza, the singer continues to reminisce about the person and reflects on the natural world that used to surround them. The trees and the wind in particular are important, as they are described as being things that the person used to borrow for their own purposes, indicating that the person was either in tune with the natural world or had a strong connection to it.


When the singer looks in the eyes of the person they used to know, they see a "dying flare," perhaps indicating that this person has changed or is no longer the way they used to be. The wind in the person's hair is also mentioned, which connects them to their natural surroundings. The refrain instructs the listener to "pretend you see the man who isn't there," which could either mean that the person is physically absent or has emotionally changed so much that they are like a different person. In the third stanza, the sea is mentioned as a place where the person used to save their waves for greetings. This perhaps indicates that the person was very friendly and welcoming. The person also used to climb up and down the highs and lows of the sea, indicating a close relationship with it. Finally, the birds are mentioned as being friendly with the person, flocking around them as they walk down the street.


Overall, "The Man Who Isn't There" is a poignant reflection on a person that the singer used to know. The natural world around the person is brought to life, indicating the connection that they had with it. The person is also portrayed as friendly and welcoming, but now changed and perhaps lost in some way. The refrain tells the audience to "pretend" they see the person, which could either be an instruction to remember them as they were or to create a new image of the person that is better than who they are now.


Line by Line Meaning

Look at the sky
Directing attention to the sky


It belonged to a guy
Referring to a person who owned the sky


That I know
Acknowledging familiarity with the person


And I thought I forgot
Indicating that the person was forgotten before


Long ago
A long time has passed since the last memory of the person


Look at the trees
Directing attention to the trees


Didn't stop at the top
The person climbed beyond the top of the tree


Not for him
The person didn't climb for himself


Used to borrow the wind
The person used the wind to move


For a walk
The person walked with the help of wind


Look in his eyes for a dying flare
Searching for signs of fading vitality in his eyes


Look for the wind in his yellow hair
Seeking indications of his dependence on wind in his yellow hair


And pretend
Suggesting that the next action is make-believe


You see the man
Imagining the appearance of a person


Who isn't there
Despite detailed descriptions, the person doesn't exist


Look at the sea
Directing attention to the sea/ocean


Used to save all his waves
The person saved every wave he conquered


for hellos
The waves were saved to greet others


used to climb up
The person climbed up the waves


his highs, down his lows
The person went through various ups and downs in his life


Look at the birds
Directing attention to the birds


used to flock as he walked
The birds used to follow the person


through the street
The person walked on the street


used to fly down
The birds flew down from the sky


and march at his feet
The birds used to march near the person's feet




Lyrics © BMG Rights Management
Written by: Doron Burstein, Oren Lavie

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Most interesting comments from YouTube:

The Querier

When I listen to this song, I keep hearing the song in different contexts each time.

At first, I thought it was about Faith. God. "Wind in his yellow hair," like the Sun. About an individual suffering from disallusion, the stark reality that nobody is there. "Look at the sky, it belonged to a guy,"

Second time I listened to it, I thought it in the context of depression. "Look at his eyes, the dying flare... look for the wind, in his yellow hair," His happiness is the Sun. The Sun's a motif for the remainder of happiness he has. "Pretend you see the man who isn't there,". "Used to climb up his highs, down his lows..."

Now when I listen to it, I think in the context of Hope. They always have this idealised romanticised view that someone's going to come, save them. Save you. There's an alarming mystical tone especially during the bridge. When you're at your darkest, you try. You try anything to feel sane, so you don't lose it. Only until you listen to the song over and over again, you realise there is redemption for him: "I thought I forgot long ago,"... Perhaps it's not merely an illusion. Maybe there is hope.

I'll keep listening to this song. The meanings will always change, and I like the ambiguity of it. I truly think this is art of the highest form...



Pamela Sarkar

Look at the sky
It belonged to a guy
That I know
And I thought I forgot
Long ago

Look at the trees
Didn’t stop at the top
Not for him
Used to borrow the wind
For a walk

Look in his eyes for a dying flare
Look for the wind in his yellow hair
And pretend
You see the man
Who isn’t there

Look at the sea
used to save all his waves
for hellos
used to climb up
his highs, down his lows

Look at the birds
used to flock as he walked
through the street
used to fly down
and march at his feet

Look in his eyes for a dying flare
Look for the wind in his yellow hair
And pretend
You see the man
Who isn’t there.



Welcome to the rice fields, motherfucker.

Funny thing about recollecting this song and being brought back to this comment is that it's almost become like a picture album for me. Last time I came to it when I received a comment notification. This time I'm back here because I randomly remembered it. And each time, I stop to take a snapshot of myself and stare at the previous ones. These previous snapshots, despite having my likeness, seem so alien and unfamiliar.

It's been about 3 years since I made this comment, and at that time I couldn't even fathom what falling in love would be like. I thought I was meant to be alone. And then he entered into my life.

I never knew I was capable of having so many positive feelings. The problems that I was burdened with became trivial. Paintings, music and poetry became more vibrant and beautiful. It felt like I stepped out of the bleak world I've grown in and into a new one in which everything was pleasant, and for the first time in my life, I was genuinely happy.

But it was an illusion, and he was a ghost. I was in love with the man who wasn't there. He began to fade out of existence, taking my nirvana with him. As the world around me began to cave, I desperately chased after him. I ran madly towards a mirage on the horizon and away from the ground that was crumbling behind me. But eventually, my legs gave in, and I fell back onto cold, familiar concrete of reality.

I take this snapshot of myself: shattered, and in agony. I can only hope that I will fade too. I hope that I fade and morph into anything but what I am now. I hope that a future version of me will find this snapshot as unrecognizable and alien as I do the snapshots before it. I hope I can forget I ever left my reality. I hope I can forget that I ever loved.



Javier Mazuret

traduccion español:

mira al cielo
pertenecio a un tipo
que conoci
y crei haber olvidado
tiempo atras

mira a los arboles
no te detengas solo en las puntas
No por el,
solia pedirles prestado el viento
para salir a caminar

busca en sus ojos una flama que se apaga
busca el viento en su pelo amarillo
y pretende
que viste al hombre
que ya no esta ahi.

mira el mar
que uso para salvar todas sus olas
los saludos
que uso para escalar
sus altas y bajar sus bajas.

mira a las aves
que se arremolinaban mientras caminaba
por la calle
solian llegar volando
y marchar a sus pies.

busca en sus ojos una flama que se apaga
busca el viento en su pelo amarillo
y pretende
que viste al hombre
que ya no esta ahi.



All comments from YouTube:

citrus & nostalgia

Why does it feel like these songs have been forgotten? They have so many meanings and emotion in them, its such a shame that society has pushed them aside. Its art, but its not appreciated.

Geofanny Yohanes

Empress Of Cats He doesn't have as much fans as he should. But have you checked out his new album?

The Querier

When I listen to this song, I keep hearing the song in different contexts each time.

At first, I thought it was about Faith. God. "Wind in his yellow hair," like the Sun. About an individual suffering from disallusion, the stark reality that nobody is there. "Look at the sky, it belonged to a guy,"

Second time I listened to it, I thought it in the context of depression. "Look at his eyes, the dying flare... look for the wind, in his yellow hair," His happiness is the Sun. The Sun's a motif for the remainder of happiness he has. "Pretend you see the man who isn't there,". "Used to climb up his highs, down his lows..."

Now when I listen to it, I think in the context of Hope. They always have this idealised romanticised view that someone's going to come, save them. Save you. There's an alarming mystical tone especially during the bridge. When you're at your darkest, you try. You try anything to feel sane, so you don't lose it. Only until you listen to the song over and over again, you realise there is redemption for him: "I thought I forgot long ago,"... Perhaps it's not merely an illusion. Maybe there is hope.

I'll keep listening to this song. The meanings will always change, and I like the ambiguity of it. I truly think this is art of the highest form...

Cesar Olivera

Es la musica que te toca el alma habre la puertas de los recuerdos mas tristes es hermosa la melodia mis respetos para Oren Lavie

Pamela Sarkar

Look at the sky
It belonged to a guy
That I know
And I thought I forgot
Long ago

Look at the trees
Didn’t stop at the top
Not for him
Used to borrow the wind
For a walk

Look in his eyes for a dying flare
Look for the wind in his yellow hair
And pretend
You see the man
Who isn’t there

Look at the sea
used to save all his waves
for hellos
used to climb up
his highs, down his lows

Look at the birds
used to flock as he walked
through the street
used to fly down
and march at his feet

Look in his eyes for a dying flare
Look for the wind in his yellow hair
And pretend
You see the man
Who isn’t there.

Welcome to the rice fields, motherfucker.

Never fell in love before, but I think the way i feel listening to this song is what it would feel like.

Welcome to the rice fields, motherfucker.

I should be thanking you for being so kind and letting me share this with you. You're a complete stranger, yet you've shown me nothing but empathy and warmth. I greatly appreciate your responses. I hope I can have a more positive interpretation to share with you the next time I come on here.

Welcome to the rice fields, motherfucker.

I also wanted to mention how I find some amusement in the fact that the version of me that existed 3 years ago was able to so accurately predict what my love life would be like. If only I trusted my psychic intuition... I would have avoided this pain altogether.

Welcome to the rice fields, motherfucker.

Funny thing about recollecting this song and being brought back to this comment is that it's almost become like a picture album for me. Last time I came to it when I received a comment notification. This time I'm back here because I randomly remembered it. And each time, I stop to take a snapshot of myself and stare at the previous ones. These previous snapshots, despite having my likeness, seem so alien and unfamiliar.

It's been about 3 years since I made this comment, and at that time I couldn't even fathom what falling in love would be like. I thought I was meant to be alone. And then he entered into my life.

I never knew I was capable of having so many positive feelings. The problems that I was burdened with became trivial. Paintings, music and poetry became more vibrant and beautiful. It felt like I stepped out of the bleak world I've grown in and into a new one in which everything was pleasant, and for the first time in my life, I was genuinely happy.

But it was an illusion, and he was a ghost. I was in love with the man who wasn't there. He began to fade out of existence, taking my nirvana with him. As the world around me began to cave, I desperately chased after him. I ran madly towards a mirage on the horizon and away from the ground that was crumbling behind me. But eventually, my legs gave in, and I fell back onto cold, familiar concrete of reality.

I take this snapshot of myself: shattered, and in agony. I can only hope that I will fade too. I hope that I fade and morph into anything but what I am now. I hope that a future version of me will find this snapshot as unrecognizable and alien as I do the snapshots before it. I hope I can forget I ever left my reality. I hope I can forget that I ever loved.

Welcome to the rice fields, motherfucker.

@Fern S I've been listening to this on repeat for a while, and now I see the singer as me, and the man who isn't there as my past self, nothing to with love anymore. Hmm...

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