There's a Fine Fine Line
Original Broadway Cast Lyrics


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Kate monster
There's a fine, fine line
Between a lover, and a friend.
There's a fine, fine line
Between reality, and pretend;
And you never know 'til you reach the top
If it was worth the uphill climb.
There's a fine, fine line
Between love,
And a waste of time

There's a fine, fine line
Between a fairy tale, and a lie.
And there's a fine, fine line
Between "you're wonderful" and "goodbye".
I guess if someone doesn't love you back
It isn't such a crime

But there's a fine, fine line
Between love,
And a waste of your time

And I don't have the time to waste on you anymore.
I don't think that you even know what you're looking for.
For my own sanity I've got to close the door
And walk away...
Oh...

There's a fine, fine line
Between together,
And not.
And there's a fine, fine line
Between what you wanted,
And what you got.
You gotta go after the things you want
While you're still in your prime.

There's a fine, fine line




Between love,
And a waste of time.

Overall Meaning

The song "There's a Fine Fine Line" by Kate Monster from the musical Avenue Q explores the theme of love, friendship and the line between them. The lyrics describe the difficulty of distinguishing between a lover and a friend or between reality and illusion. The song captures the dilemma of romantic relationships where one tries to understand whether the uphill climb of love is worth the effort, and whether the other person reciprocates the same feelings.


The lyrics convey that there is a thin line between living in a fairytale and living a lie. Sometimes, one may feel like they are living in a fairytale, only to realize that the relationship is built on a lie. The lyrics also suggest that it is not a crime if someone does not love you back, but it can be painful to realize that the love you felt was a waste of time. The song describes the struggle of moving on from someone who doesn't reciprocate the same feelings and the need to protect one's own sanity.


In the end, the lyrics suggest that there is a fine line between finding what you want and getting what you want. It is important to go after the things you want while you are still in your prime, but it is equally important to know when to walk away. The song ends with the realization that love can be a waste of time, but there is always a fine, fine line between love and anything else.


Line by Line Meaning

There's a fine, fine line
There is a very delicate and narrow separation


Between a lover, and a friend.
It is difficult to distinguish between romantic feelings and platonic ones.


Between reality, and pretend;
It can be hard to separate the truth from what you want to believe.


And you never know 'til you reach the top
You cannot discern the true value of something until you've put forth effort and achieved success.


If it was worth the uphill climb.
Determining if the struggle was worth the outcome can only be recognized after the challenge has been overcome.


Between love,
The differentiation between feelings of deep affection and other emotions is tenuous.


And a waste of time
It is difficult to tell whether a relationship or pursuit is worth the effort or if it is simply a futile endeavor.


Between a fairy tale, and a lie.
Sometimes, it is challenging to differentiate between an idealized version of a situation versus an outright falsehood.


And there's a fine, fine line
Again, there is an easily blurred distinction


Between 'you're wonderful' and 'goodbye'.
The transition from abundant praise to dismissal can be abrupt and subtle.


I guess if someone doesn't love you back
It is not necessarily a moral wrong if someone does not reciprocate one's feelings.


It isn't such a crime
It is not innately evil to not share the same sentiment as another person.


But there's a fine, fine line
The line between love and futility, again, is very thin.


Between together,
The decision of whether to be united is oftentimes hard to determine.


And not.
The possibility of division is always present when deciding to enter a relationship.


And there's a fine, fine line
Once again, the line between different states of being is precarious.


Between what you wanted,
The perception of what an individual desires can change over time or upon further consideration.


And what you got.
The notion of having achieved one's goals does not guarantee that the end result is fulfilling or satisfactory.


You gotta go after the things you want
It is essential to pursue what one desires.


While you're still in your prime.
One should not wait too long to act if they wish to have the best chance of attaining what they want.


And I don't have the time to waste on you anymore.
I cannot expend any more effort on this endeavor.


I don't think that you even know what you're looking for.
I do not believe you have a clear understanding of your own goals.


For my own sanity I've got to close the door
I must discontinue this situation for the sake of my own mental health.


And walk away...
I must fully separate myself from this situation.




Lyrics © IMAGEM MUSIC INC
Written by: JEFF MARX, ROBERT LOPEZ

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@giulianas7564

There's a fine, fine line between a lover and a friend;
There's a fine, fine line between reality and pretend;
And you never know 'til you reach the top if it was worth the uphill climb.
There's a fine, fine line between love
And a waste of time.
There's a fine, fine line between a fairy tale and a lie;
And there's a fine, fine line between "You're wonderful" and "Goodbye."
I guess if someone doesn't love you back it isn't such a crime,
But there's a fine, fine line between love
And a waste of your time.
And I don't have the time to waste on you anymore.
I don't think that you even know what you're looking for.
For my own sanity, I've got to close the door
And walk away...
Oh...
There's a fine, fine line between together and not
And there's a fine, fine line between what you wanted and what you got.
You gotta go after the things you want while you're still in your prime...
There's a fine, fine line between love
And a waste of time.



@corinne5722

There's a fine, fine line between a lover and a friend
There's a fine, fine line between reality and pretend
And you never know 'til you reach the top if it was worth the uphill climb
There's a fine, fine line between love
And a waste of time
There's a fine, fine line between a fairy tale and a lie
And there's a fine, fine line between "You're wonderful" and "Goodbye"
I guess if someone doesn't love you back
It isn't such a crime
But there's a fine, fine line between love
And a waste of your time
And I don't have the time to waste on you anymore
I don't think that you even know what you're looking for
For my own sanity, I've got to close the door and walk away
Oh
There's a fine, fine line between together and not
And there's a fine, fine line between what you wanted and what you got
You gotta go after the things you want while you're still in your prime
There's a fine, fine line between love
And a waste of time



@jentrymuck9092

Kate Monster:
There's a fine, fine line between a lover and a friend;
There's a fine, fine line between reality and pretend;
And you never know 'til you reach the top if it was worth the uphill climb.

There's a fine, fine line between love
And a waste of time.

There's a fine, fine line between a fairy tale and a lie;
And there's a fine, fine line between "You're wonderful" and "Goodbye."
I guess if someone doesn't love you back it isn't such a crime,
But there's a fine, fine line between love
And a waste of your time.

And I don't have the time to waste on you anymore.
I don't think that you even know what you're looking for.
For my own sanity, I've got to close the door
And walk away...
Oh...

There's a fine, fine line between together and not
And there's a fine, fine line between what you wanted and what you got.
You gotta go after the things you want while you're still in your prime...

There's a fine, fine line between love
And a waste of time.



All comments from YouTube:

@donkeywiththemoon

This song took me completely by surprise when I went to see the musical. Was not expecting this very real and sentimental song. It's amazing how relevant it is! There IS a fine, fine line between love and a waste of time... 

@mistylear19

donkeywiththemoon I feel the same way with "Fantasies Come True" -- especially the way it ends.

@MrGabeanator

its tre

@btnapoli

Going through it right now

@sarahgrisetti3915

I performed this song over a decade ago for my musical theatre final. It's helped me through ever failed relationship for 16 years now, from when I first saw the show in high school until now. It never fails to help me feel at least a little better. It absolutely nails what I'm feeling right now.

@mandyadcock603

I came backt to this song haha, I needed it

@lannisahernandez

I’m choosing this song for a performance in my music class while also going through a breakup, I’m glad to hear it’ll last me at least another 16 years😂🤝🏽👏🏽

@StarlightSong1

I loooooove how this incredibly poignant song is featured among incredible life lessons such as "Everyone's A Little Bit Racist", "There Is Life Outside Your Apartment", "You Can Be As Loud as The Hell You Want When You're Making Love" and "The Internet Is For Porn". Among everything else. It's such a change from all the silliness and I like it.

@DarkHearts4

+StarlightSong22 Life lessons from The Internet is For Porn?

@xxkewldudexx

+Dark Hearts Well, parody life lessons, anyway. lol

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