Mean To Me
Oscar Peterson Lyrics


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You're mean to me
Why must you be mean to me?
Gee, honey, it seems to me
You love to see me cryin'
I don't know why
I stay home each night
When you say you phone
You don't and I'm left alone.

Sing the blues and sighin'
You treat me coldly each day in the year
You always scold me
Whenever somebody is near, dear
I must be great fun to be mean to me




You shouldn't, for can't you see
What you mean to me

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Oscar Peterson & Harry Edison's "Mean To Me" describe a tortured love affair in which the singer is continually mistreated and emotionally abused by their partner. The first verse opens by addressing the partner directly, asking why they must be so cruel and delight in seeing the singer cry. Despite the pain that their partner causes them, the singer can't bring themselves to leave, instead waiting at home for a call that never comes. The chorus laments the way that the partner "treats [them] coldly each day in the year," scolding them whenever anyone else is around. The final lines of the song suggest that the singer's partner is playing some kind of game with them: "I must be great fun to be mean to me / You shouldn't, for can't you see / What you mean to me."


Overall, the lyrics to "Mean To Me" capture the experience of someone trapped in a toxic, one-sided love affair. The singer's partner is consistently abusive, never offering them any kind of emotional support or care. Yet, despite this mistreatment, the singer can't bring themselves to leave, held captive by their love for someone who treats them so poorly. The final lines of the song suggest that the singer is aware of how detrimental this relationship is to their well-being, but they still can't bring themselves to let go.


Line by Line Meaning

You're mean to me
You are unkind and cruel to me


Why must you be mean to me?
Why do you choose to treat me in such a hurtful manner?


Gee, honey, it seems to me
Honestly, from my perspective, it appears that


You love to see me cryin'
You take pleasure in causing me emotional pain and making me cry


I don't know why
I cannot understand


I stay home each night
I spend my evenings at home alone


When you say you phone
When you promise to call me


You don't and I'm left alone.
You break your promise and leave me feeling isolated and abandoned.


Sing the blues and sighin'
I feel sad and dejected


You treat me coldly each day in the year
You consistently treat me with a lack of warmth, compassion, or kindness


You always scold me
You frequently criticize and yell at me


Whenever somebody is near, dear
Whenever there is another person around


I must be great fun to be mean to me
I assume it's very entertaining for you to be cruel to me


You shouldn't, for can't you see
It would be better for you not to, as I hope you can comprehend


What you mean to me
The emotional impact you have on me




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