But It's Better If You Do
Panic! at the Disco Lyrics


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Now I'm of consenting age to be forgetting you in a cabaret
Somewhere downtown where a burlesque queen may even ask my name
As she sheds her skin on stage
I'm seated and sweating to a dance song on the club's PA
The strip joint veteran sits two away
Smirking between dignified sips of his dignified
Peach and lime daiquiri
And isn't this exactly where you'd like me?
I'm exactly where you'd like me, you know
Praying for love in a lap dance and paying in naivety?
Oh, and isn't this exactly where you'd like me?
I'm exactly where you'd like me, you know
Praying for love in a lap dance and paying in naivety?

Oh, but I'm afraid that I
Well, I may have faked it and
I wouldn't be caught dead, d-dead, d-dead, d-dead in this place

Well I'm afraid that I
Well that's right
Well I may have faked it and
I wouldn't be caught dead in this place

And isn't this exactly where you'd like me?
I'm exactly where you'd like me, you know
Praying for love in a lap dance and paying in naivety?
Oh, and isn't this exactly where you'd like me?
I'm exactly where you'd like me, you know
Praying for love in a lap dance and paying in naivety?

Well I'm afraid that I
Well, I may have faked it and
I wouldn't be caught dead, d-dead, d-dead, d-dead in this place

Well I'm afraid that I
Well that's right
That I may have faked it and
I wouldn't be caught dead in this place

And isn't this exactly where you'd like me?
I'm exactly where you'd like me, you know
Praying for love in a lap dance and paying in naivety?
Oh, and isn't this exactly where you'd like me?
I'm exactly where you'd like me, you know
Praying for love in a lap dance and paying in naivety?





Praying for love and paying in naivety
Praying for love and paying in naivety, oh

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Panic! at the Disco's song "But It's Better If You Do" depict a moment of vulnerability and desperation. The singer is at a cabaret, watching a burlesque queen perform and hoping for love in a lap dance. The strip joint veteran sitting next to him seems to know exactly what he's doing there, while the singer is sweating and praying for a connection.


The repetition of "isn't this exactly where you'd like me?" suggests that the singer is trapped in a cycle of seeking approval from someone who doesn't care about him. He's willing to pay for attention and affection, even if it means faking his emotions. However, the line "I wouldn't be caught dead in this place" reveals that he's not entirely comfortable in this environment and has some sense of shame or regret.


Overall, the lyrics paint a vivid picture of a lonely and misguided individual seeking love in all the wrong places. It's a cautionary tale about the dangers of seeking validation from sources that don't truly care about us.


Line by Line Meaning

Now I'm of consenting age to be forgetting you in a cabaret
I am now old enough to move on from you and indulge in the world of entertainment.


Somewhere downtown where a burlesque queen may even ask my name
I am in a place where even the performers are interested in knowing me.


As she sheds her skin on stage
The dancer is shedding her inhibitions and revealing her true self on stage.


I'm seated and sweating to a dance song on the club's PA
I am sitting and sweating while listening to a song played on the club's PA system.


The strip joint veteran sits two away
An experienced person who frequents strip joints is seated two seats away from me.


Smirking between dignified sips of his dignified Peach and lime daiquiri
The veteran is drinking a dignified Peach and Lime Daiquiri and smirking while observing the performances.


And isn't this exactly where you'd like me?
A rhetorical question, indicating that the person who hurt the singer might want them to be in this undesirable place.


I'm exactly where you'd like me, you know
Acceptance of the fact that they are in this place because of the person who hurt them.


Praying for love in a lap dance and paying in naivety?
The artist is hoping to find love in a lap dance but knows they are being naive in their pursuit.


Oh, but I'm afraid that I
The artist is hesitant and fearful about their current situation.


Well, I may have faked it and
The singer admitting to pretending to be someone they're not.


I wouldn't be caught dead, d-dead, d-dead, d-dead in this place
The artist would rather die than be caught in this place.


Well that's right
Agreement with the previous statement about not wanting to be caught in the place.


And isn't this exactly where you'd like me?
Reiteration of the earlier rhetorical question, indicating blame on the person who hurt the singer for their current situation.


Praying for love in a lap dance and paying in naivety?
Restating the idea that the singer has unrealistic expectations while in this place.


Praying for love and paying in naivety
Reiteration of the previous line, indicating the irony of the situation.


Praying for love and paying in naivety, oh
Final expression of the artist's hopeless situation.




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: George Ross, Spencer Smith, Brendon Urie

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Comments from YouTube:

@hanak5909

"an old one" u have two records

@itsvild4954

LMAO

@lukeandhismemes2418

I laugh at that every time I listen to this 😂

@hihi-xj7oc

true tho😂😂😂

@drangie4049

i just spit all over my phone omf

@renadams8144

😂

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@bearzookas

my friday nights are wild, just watching these performances lol

@idkchey

Same lol

@memesareforme4550

Jae'lynn Bryant same

@chillgiver

Haha same

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