The song was released on October 8, 2013. It serves as the third single from the band’s fourth album, "Too Weird to Live, Too Rare to Die!" The music video is a homage to D'angelo’s “Untitled (How Does It Feel)”. There are two versions of the music video, the standard video and the directors cut.
The song inspired fans Eva and Briar to create a completely fan-led project where fans volunteer to cut out paper hearts to shine a flashlight through during this song live. The P!ATD Hearts project has inspired thousands, and it wouldn’t be possible without this song.
"'I believe that you can’t control who you are. It’s something that I’ve experienced myself, that girls do love girls and boys. Girls are just more sexual in nature, much more so than guys. A lot of times people want to label something just to make themselves feel comfortable. They wanna call this person gay or this person straight. I have had similar experience with homosexuality, with bisexuality, and that’s something I feel comfortable talking about. It’s not something anyone should have to hide, and that goes along with the message of the song, that it’s important to know who you are, to be able to be proud of that, and have the courage behind your convictions. People can say whatever they want; it doesn’t matter unless you let it affect you. That’s an important lesson I had to learn with the band.'"
—Brendon Urie via NPR
"'We actually wrote this one in New York, the same time as we were writing ‘Nicotine.’ This one came about, Dallon had a bass part that I was really fond of, and he recorded it and I started just producing around it. I had this bass part that I had recorded for me, and I started just adding drums and I found the synth. And we started talking about, ‘love is not a choice’ was, like, the first official theme of it. We both are familiar with girls that love girls and boys. […] And that, for whatever reason, was just a sexy idea, we were like, ‘that’s really cool.’ […] To me it kinda sounds like a Cure song in a way, there’s a weird synth in the beginning that I think The Cure, it’s very Cure-esque. […] I think that’s one of the more suggestive songs, it’s pretty suggestive, pretty sexual.'"
—Brendon Urie via Rock Sound
During the Death of a Bachelor tour, a group of fans cut out paper hearts in rainbow colors and passed them out to concert-goers. They then held these hearts up to the flashlights on their phones, covering the arena with rainbow lights as a way to show support for the LGBTQ+ community.
Girls / Girls / Boys
Panic! at the Disco Lyrics
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Sometimes you're better off alone
But if you change your mind, you know where I am
Yeah if you change your mind, you know
Where to find me
'Cause I don't ever wanna be your boyfriend
And never did I think that I
Push another girl aside and just give in
Girls love girls and boys
Girls love girls and boys
And never did I think that I
Would be caught in the way you got me
But girls love girls and boys
And love is not a choice
Pose, you've gotta save your reputation
They're close to finding out about your girlfriend
But if you change your mind, you know where I am
Yeah if you change your mind, you know
Where to find me
'Cause I don't wanna save your reputation
And never did I think that I
Would be caught in the way you got me
Push another girl aside and just give in
Girls love girls and boys
Girls love girls and boys
And never did I think that I
Would be caught in the way you got me
But girls love girls and boys
And love is not a choice
I am just a villain vying for attention
From a girl
A girl who can't decide and here's the reason why
Girls love girls and boys
Girls love girls and boys
Girls love girls and boys
Girls love girls and boys
And never did I think that I
Would be caught in the way you got me
But girls love girls and boys
And love is not a choice
The song "Girls/Girls/Boys" by Panic! At the Disco feat. Lolo talks about sexuality and the complexity of love. The song's opening lines, "I don't wanna hear you've got a boyfriend, Sometimes you're better off alone," express the singer's interest in a girl who has a boyfriend. He wants her to know that he's available if she ever changes her mind, but he does not want to be her boyfriend, which is reiterated in the chorus. This suggests that the singer, while interested in this girl, is not looking for a serious relationship.
The chorus, "Girls love girls and boys, And love is not a choice," explores the idea of bisexuality and the fact that one cannot choose the gender they fall in love with. The lyrics suggest that the singer is comfortable with the fluidity of his love and is accepting of the girls who are attracted to other girls as well as boys. The second verse talks about how the singer is encouraging the girl to make up her own mind, without him trying to interfere in her decision-making process.
Line by Line Meaning
I don't wanna hear you've got a boyfriend
I don't want to listen to the fact that you have a boyfriend
Sometimes you're better off alone
There are times when being single is better
But if you change your mind, you know where I am
If you have a change of heart, you know how to contact me
Yeah if you change your mind, you know where to find me
Yes, if you have a change of heart, you know how to get in touch with me
'Cause I don't ever wanna be your boyfriend
Because I do not want to be your boyfriend, ever
And never did I think that I
I never thought that I
Would be caught in the way you got me
Would become trapped by the way you have me
Push another girl aside and just give in
Push one female away and submit to another
Girls love girls and boys
Females adore both other females and males
And love is not a choice
Being in love is not a voluntary decision
Pose, you've gotta save your reputation
You need to maintain your good standing
They're close to finding out about your girlfriend
They are about to discover information about your significant other
But if you change your mind, you know where I am
But if you alter your opinion, you know how to contact me
Yeah if you change your mind, you know where to find me
Yes, if you change your mind, you know how to reach me
'Cause I don't wanna save your reputation
Because I do not want to preserve your reputation
And never did I think that I
I never thought that I
Would be caught in the way you got me
Would be trapped by the way you have me
But girls love girls and boys
However girls cherish both girls and boys
And love is not a choice
Being in love is not a voluntary decision
I am just a villain vying for attention
I am only a wicked person competing for focus
From a girl
From a female
A girl who can't decide and here's the reason why
A female who is indecisive and here is why
And never did I think that I
I never thought that I
Would be caught in the way you got me
Would become trapped by the way you have me
But girls love girls and boys
However girls cherish both girls and boys
And love is not a choice
Being in love is not a voluntary decision
Lyrics © Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd.
Written by: Brendon Boyd Urie, Dallon James Weekes
Lyrics Licensed & Provided by LyricFind
@lelereidler
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I don't wanna hear you've got a boyfriend
Sometimes you're better off alone
But if you change your mind, you know where I am
Yeah if you change your mind, you know
Where to find me
'Cause I don't ever wanna be your boyfriend
And never did I think that I
Would be caught in the way you got me
Push another girl aside and just give in
Girls love girls and boys
Girls love girls and boys
And never did I think that I
Would be caught in the way you got me
But girls love girls and boys
And love is not a choice
Pose, you've gotta save your reputation
They're close to finding out about your girlfriend
But if you change your mind, you know where I am
Yeah if you change your mind, you know
Where to find me
'Cause I don't wanna save your reputation
And never did I think that I
Would be caught in the way you got me
Push another girl aside and just give in
Girls love girls and boys
Girls love girls and boys
And never did I think that I
Would be caught in the way you got me
But girls love girls and boys
And love is not a choice
I am just a villain vying for attention
From a girl
A girl who can't decide and here's the reason why
Girls love girls and boys
Girls love girls and boys
Girls love girls and boys
Girls love girls and boys
And never did I think that I
Would be caught in the way you got me
But girls love girls and boys
And love is not a choice
@ari-xs3mv
I don't wanna hear you've got a boyfriend
Sometimes you're better off alone
But if you change your mind, you know where I am
Yeah if you change your mind, you know
Where to find me
'Cause I don't ever wanna be your boyfriend
And never did I think that I
Would be caught in the way you got me
Push another girl aside and just give in
Girls love girls and boys
Girls love girls and boys
And never did I think that I
Would be caught in the way you got me
But girls love girls and boys
And love is not a choice
Pose, you've gotta save your reputation
They're close to finding out about your girlfriend
But if you change your mind, you know where I am
Yeah if you change your mind, you know
Where to find me
'Cause I don't wanna save your reputation
And never did I think that I
Would be caught in the way you got me
Push another girl aside and just give in
Girls love girls and boys
Girls love girls and boys
And never did I think that I
Would be caught in the way you got me
But girls love girls and boys
And love is not a choice
I am just a villain vying for attention
From a girl
A girl who can't decide and here's the reason why
Girls love girls and boys
Girls love girls and boys
Girls love girls and boys
Girls love girls and boys
And never did I think that I
Would be caught in the way you got me
But girls love girls and boys
And love is not a choice
Source: LyricFind
@user-zb4yv5rp2y
Director: but Brendon you’re naked
Brendon: no I’m not
Director: ...
Brendon: I’m wearing socks
@jorgegonzalez5265
Underrated coment
@jayrichardson5474
Brilliant comment. any respectful lad would understand
@misskrysti3209
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@user-ul8nv4hn3h
LOL
@editsclub8421
Don’t you mean kinky boots?
@sincerelya5354
Director: Alright we're making a video for Girls/Girls/Boys
Brendon: I need hair gel
Director: What are you going to wear?
Brendon: I need hair gel
@sharkfromikea
Honestly tho 😂
@papa_roach_2364
.....yes
@ronphom2833
1.1k likes and only 2 (3 now) replies...
You made everyone speechless