To Each His Own
Patrice Rushen Lyrics


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A person came to my front door just yesterday
Wanting to know if I believed in what they say
I cannot say if your ideas are right or wrong
But you have yours and I have mine
To each his own

To them that's got the best will come or so they say
The ones without won't care or miss it anyway
If all men have the right to taste prosperity
I wonder why this choice is such a rarity

A baby's born a chance in life he does deserve
The choices that he has to choose from he soon learns
Are they determined by the colour of his skin
Or do we take the time to see what lies within

To each his own
Understanding is the real thing oh, ooh
To each his own
We sacrifice or compromise through foolish pride
We'll even lie to each his own hmm, yeah

Ooh, ooh
You do it your way hmm
Your own thing
Your own thing
Your own thing
Your own thing
Your own thing

Sometimes a thousand questions
Seem to plague your mind
Somedays the answer are impossible to find
And everybody has advice on what to do
Just carry on with what you feel for you is true

With all we are we never seem to satisfy
The expectations others have of you and I




So critical of who I am and what to do
Looking at me when you should be looking at you.

Overall Meaning

In "To Each His Own," Patrice Rushen offers a powerful message of individualism and tolerance that speaks to the need for people to find their own path in life. The lyrics describe a person who comes to her door asking if she believes in the system they are selling, and she responds that everyone has their own beliefs and ideas. She then questions why some people have more opportunities than others and whether a person's choices are dictated by their skin color or if we take time to see what lies within a person. The chorus emphasizes that everyone has their own way and that understanding is the key to finding happiness. She acknowledges that sometimes life is a struggle, and everyone has their own questions and voices offering their opinion on what to do. She then reminds the audience to focus on what they believe in and not get caught up in the expectations that others have for them.


Line by Line Meaning

A person came to my front door just yesterday
I had a visitor yesterday who came to my house uninvited


Wanting to know if I believed in what they say
The visitor asked me if I shared their beliefs


I cannot say if your ideas are right or wrong
I cannot judge the validity of your beliefs


But you have yours and I have mine
We have different beliefs, and that's okay


To each his own
It's important to respect others' beliefs and choices


To them that's got the best will come or so they say
People believe that those who have wealth and success will always have more


The ones without won't care or miss it anyway
People who don't have wealth and success don't value it as much as those who do


If all men have the right to taste prosperity
If everyone has the right to succeed and be prosperous


I wonder why this choice is such a rarity
I'm curious why not everyone is able to achieve prosperity


A baby's born a chance in life he does deserve
Every baby is born with the right to a fair chance in life


The choices that he has to choose from he soon learns
As a child grows up, they learn about the options they have in life


Are they determined by the colour of his skin
Are their future opportunities based on their ethnicity?


Or do we take the time to see what lies within
Or do we see people for who they are, based on their inner character and abilities?


Understanding is the real thing oh, ooh
The real key to getting along and respecting others is empathy and understanding


We sacrifice or compromise through foolish pride
Sometimes we let our pride get in the way of making compromises or sacrifices for others


We'll even lie to each his own hmm, yeah
In some cases, we will even deceive ourselves or others to maintain our beliefs


Sometimes a thousand questions
At times, we have many questions on our mind


Seem to plague your mind
These questions may trouble us


Somedays the answer are impossible to find
Sometimes, we simply can't find the answers we're looking for


And everybody has advice on what to do
Everyone has their own opinion or advice to give


Just carry on with what you feel for you is true
It's important to follow our own hearts, and to do what we feel is right for ourselves


With all we are we never seem to satisfy
No matter how much we do, we never seem to be fully satisfied


The expectations others have of you and I
The expectations of others can be burdensome


So critical of who I am and what to do
Others can be overly critical of us, even when we're doing our best


Looking at me when you should be looking at you.
Instead of focusing on others, it's important to focus on ourselves and our own growth




Writer(s): Patrice Rushen, Lynn Davis

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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

@morabonilla6814

A person came to my front door just yesterday
Wanting to know if I believed in what they say
I cannot say if your ideas are right or wrong
But you have yours and I have mine, to each his own

Own, hmm
Yeah, yeah

To them that's got, the best will come or so they say
The ones without won't care or miss it anyway
If all men have the right to taste prosperity
I wonder why this choice is such a rarity

A baby's born, a chance in life he does deserve
The choices that he has to choose from, he soon learns
Are they determined by the colour of his skin?
Or do we take the time to see what lies within?

To each his own
Understanding is the real thing, ooh-ooh
To each his own
Sacrifice, compromise through foolish pride
We'll even lie, yeah

To each his own, mm (yeah, yeah, yeah)
To each his own
Ooh, ooh-ooh
Ooh-ooh-ooh
You do it your way

Hmm-mmm
Your own thing, your own thing
Your own thing, your own thing
Your own thing

Sometimes a thousand questions seem to plague your mind
Some days the answers are impossible to find
And everybody has advice on what to do
Just carry on with what you feel for you is true

With all we are, we never seem to satisfy
The expectations others have of you and I
So critical of who I am and what I do
Looking at me when you should be looking at you

To each his own
Understanding is the real thing, understanding is the real thing
Understanding is the real thing (ooh-ooh)
To each his own
We sacrifice, compromise through foolish pride
We'll even lie

To each his own (ooh-ooh-ooh)
(Carry on) to each his own
(Hmm, so they say) to each his own
Understanding is the real thing, yeah

To each his own (ooh-ooh-ooh)
To each his own (tell me it's inside me)
To each his own (ooh-ooh)
To each his own



All comments from YouTube:

@CurtisWhitehead-wn5bs

No Queen Mother Songstress. I "Haven't Heard" this one before. Thank you for ALL the fantastic music you've blessed us with. πŸ’–πŸŽΆ

@MidnightMadness81

I play this every day before work

@jeshun7071

Happy 68th birthday Patrice Rushen, Jazz pianist and R&B singer. She is also a composer, record producer, multi-instrumentalist, songwriter, and music director.

@og_sane

Beautiful music. Patrice Rushen is still one of my favorite artists ever, respect from Finland.

@sydnemorgan560

I'm going to take u back to the first time on pop let the music take me still got 12, inch holla at a fool if u can

@TheFever77

The production on this is outstanding. What a track..

@ogplr5914

So underrated. Strong message

@jakien

Lyrically, this is genius. Musically it's genius too, but I never realised until I heard this mix. Thank you Strut for taking the time, I am currently homeless (no joke) but hustling my way up. The first thing I buy next week with my first paycheck will be this album. You will never know how much finding this song helped me, I may not be here if it weren't for that. Thank you ever so profusely and please don't stop uploading πŸ™‚

@riskytalent461

Jake you will make it I believe πŸ™βœ¨βœ¨βœ¨βœ¨

@malfevra

Jake Nicholls bless you

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