Fly
Patty Griffin Lyrics


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Ain't no talkin' to this man
Ain't no pretty other side
Ain't no way to understand the stupid words of pride
It would take an acrobat and I already tried all that
So I'm gonna let him fly
(Gonna let him fly)
Things can move at such a pace
The second hand just waved goodbye
And though the light has left his face
But you can't recall just where or why
So there was really nothing to it
I just went and cut right through it
I said, I'm gonna let him fly, ooh yeah, yeah
There's no mercy in a live wire
No rest at all in freedom
Of the choices we are given
It's no choice at all, oh-huh
The proof is in the fire
You touch before it moves away, yeah
But you must always know how long to stay and when to go
And there ain't no talkin' to this man
He's been tryna tell me so
Took awhile to understand
The beauty of just letting go
'Cause it would take an acrobat and I already tried all that

I'm gonna let him fly
I'm gonna let him fly, fly, oh




I'm gonna let him fly, fly, oh
I'm gonna let him fly

Overall Meaning

Patty Griffin's song Fly is a poignant tune that reflects on the difficulty of letting go of someone you care for deeply. The song revolves around the singer's realization that the man she loves cannot be persuaded to stay, and she must, therefore, set him free. The first few lines, "Ain't no talkin' to this man, Ain't no pretty other side, Ain't no way to understand the stupid words of pride," establish that the man in question is stubborn and won't listen to reason. The use of the word "stupid" shows that the singer feels frustrated with the man's inability to communicate his feelings.


In the chorus, the singer repeats the phrase "I'm gonna let him fly," indicating that she has finally accepted that she cannot control the man's choices. She recognizes that there is no point in trying to hold onto someone who wants to leave. Instead, she must let go and allow him to find his way. The song's acoustic guitar and delicate piano chords create a melancholic atmosphere that lends itself well to the song's bittersweet message.


The second verse "There's no mercy in a live wire, No rest at all in freedom" suggests that freedom comes at a cost. While the man may feel liberated by leaving, he will also suffer the pain of separation. The singer, however, recognizes that she cannot hold onto him out of fear of the pain that separation will cause. The phrase, "The proof is in the fire You touch before it moves away," symbolizes the fragility of love and how sometimes, no matter how much we care about someone, they slip away.


Overall, Fly is a beautiful, introspective song that delves into the complexities of love and how sometimes, we must let go of someone we love to give them the freedom they need to find their happiness.


Line by Line Meaning

Ain't no talkin' to this man
Communication is futile with this person


Ain't no pretty other side
There is no ideal solution to this situation


Ain't no way to understand the stupid words of pride
Pride can cloud judgement and prevent understanding


It would take an acrobat, and I already tried all that so
Dealing with this person requires a great deal of skill and effort, which have already been expended


I'm gonna let him fly
It's time to let this person go and move on


Things can move at such a pace
Life can move quickly


The second hand just waved goodbye
Time has passed and can't be regained


You know the light has left his face
He no longer has the same spark or energy


But you can't recall just where or why
It's difficult to pinpoint what changed and when


So there was really nothing to it
It wasn't a difficult decision


I just went and cut right through it
I made a clean break


There's no mercy in a live wire
Danger is unforgiving


No rest at all in freedom
Freedom can be exhausting


Of the choices we are given it's no choice at all
Some situations allow for no good options


The proof is in the fire
The truth is revealed through adversity


You touch before it moves away
You have to act quickly to seize opportunities


But you must always know how long to stay and when to go
Timing is crucial


He's been tryin' to tell me so
He's been signaling his desire to leave


It took awhile to understand the beauty of just letting go
Releasing someone can be liberating


'Cause it would take an acrobat, I already tried all that
Dealing with this person is too challenging, and I've exhausted all efforts


I'm gonna let him fly I'm gonna let him fly I'm gonna let him fly
I am resolute in my decision to allow this person to move on




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: Patricia J. Griffin

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@VIBECHECK481

"Let Him Fly"

Ain't no talkin to this man
Ain't no pretty other side
Ain't no way to understand the stupid words of pride
It would take an acrobat, and I already tried all that so
I'm gonna let him fly
Things can move at such a pace
The second hand just waved goodbye
You know the light has left his face
But you can't recall just where or why
So there was really nothing to it
I just went and cut right through it
I said I'm gonna let him fly

There's no mercy in a live wire
No rest at all in freedom
Of the choices we are given it's no choice at all
The proof is in the fire
You touch before it moves away
But you must always know how long to stay and when to go

And there ain't no talkin to this man
He's been tryin to tell me so
It took awhile to understand the beauty of just letting go
Cause it would take an acrobat, I already tried all that
I'm gonna let him fly
I'm gonna let him fly
I'm gonna let him fly



All comments from YouTube:

@MegaDerek1975

One the best albums ever created by any artists on any planet within any microcosm of any universe.

@kandyrain6777

Omgeeeeeeee!! Just heard this song/version, tonight (1-11-22) on 9-1-1 Lone Star, and cried my lashes off! 😩
This song hits different when you don’t want to let go, but you know you have to do what’s best for YOU!! 💔
Praying for all of us that were touched by this song and/or lyrics. 🙏🏾

@gracessioson1702

That's where I heard it, too

@christinamitchell6796

I really wasn't going to say anything here because many people have made comments I agree with, but I'm very much in love with this song. I can as of recent relate to this, I just let someone go yesterday. every line signifies my pain, heartache but also the "beauty of letting go". I tried "acrobats" with this man, but all this time "there was no talking to this man" "he was trying to tell me so", so now it took a while but I'm gonna let him fly. sorry for so many quotes but it directly pointed to what I felt and knew in my heart, this song sealed my true reality.

@reemhosam6061

I feel the pain. I hope you're in a better place now.

@christinamitchell6796

very kind of you to say, believe it or not its still a work in progress not sure the direction we are not romantically involved but i still love him very much.I am trusting in the Lord for his will no matter what.

@eccentricflower29

Christina Mitchell ❤ I know it all too well

@Betcsbirds

Same boat here.. needed to happen but hurts. thanks for sharing...I hope you are doing well now!! hugs

@pameladarlenewoodward8385

Stellar post. Putting you'r truth on a forum?. Helps orthers too. Thanks for your honesty.

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@feverloca

Just like many the documentary " The Fear of 13" brought me here. Im just speechless. The way this man told his story, makes you feel like you jumped into a time machine and went back with him to see/hear it all. Not many writers/storytellers can do that. He could have achieved so much, but not is not always on your side unfortunately.

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