Blame It on Your Heart
Patty Loveless Lyrics


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You've got a thing or two to learn about me baby
'Cause I ain't taking it no more and I don't mean maybe
You don't know right from wrong
Well the love we had is gone
So blame it on your lying, cheating, cold dead beating
Two-timing and double dealing
Mean mistreating, loving heart
Well all I wanted was to be your one and only
And all I ever got from you was being lonely
Now that dream is laid to rest
'Cause you have failed the test
So blame it on your lying, cheating, cold dead beating
Two-timing and double dealing
Mean mistreating, loving heart

Are you headed for a heartache, oh yeah
Gonna get a bad break, oh yeah
You made a bad mistake, oh yeah
Well, you're never gonna find another love like mine
Someone's gonna do you like you done me honey
And when she does you like she'll do you, it ain't funny
You need some sympathy
But don't be calling me
Hey blame it on your lying, cheating, cold dead beating
Two-timing and double dealing
Mean mistreating, loving heart

Are you heading for a heartache, oh yeah
Gonna get a bad break, oh yeah
You made a bad mistake, oh yeah
Well, you're never gonna find another love like mine
Someone's gonna do you like you done me honey
And when she does you like she'll do you, it ain't funny
You'll need some sympathy
But don't be calling me
Hey blame it on your lying, cheating, cold dead beating
Two-timing and double dealing
Mean mistreating, loving heart

Yeah blame it on your lying, cheating, cold dead beating




Two-timing and double dealing
Mean mistreating, loving heart

Overall Meaning

In the song "Blame It on Your Heart," Patty Loveless sings about a failed relationship where her partner has lied, cheated, and mistreated her heart. She makes it clear that she won't tolerate it any longer and that the love they had is now gone. Loveless suggests that her partner has much to learn about her, and she's not willing to be taken for granted any longer.


The chorus of the song repeats the phrase "blame it on your lying, cheating, cold dead beating, two-timing, and double dealing, mean mistreating, loving heart," emphasizing the wrongdoing that caused the relationship to fall apart. Loveless makes it clear that she will not take responsibility for the end of the relationship and that her partner's actions caused its demise.


The lyrics suggest that her partner will face heartache and bad luck in future relationships, and while Loveless acknowledges that he may need sympathy, she makes it clear that he won't find it from her. The song is an empowering anthem for anyone who has experienced heartbreak and won't allow mistreatment in a relationship.


Line by Line Meaning

You've got a thing or two to learn about me baby
You still have yet to fully understand me and my boundaries


'Cause I ain't taking it no more and I don't mean maybe
I refuse to tolerate your mistreatment any longer


You don't know right from wrong
You lack the ability to discern what is appropriate behavior in a relationship


Well the love we had is gone
Our relationship is over due to your actions


So blame it on your lying, cheating, cold dead beating
Your deceitful, cheating, cruel actions led to our breakup


Two-timing and double dealing
You were unfaithful and disloyal to me with others


Mean mistreating, loving heart
Your cruel behavior and mistreatment of me comes from a loving heart that is flawed


Well all I wanted was to be your one and only
All I desired was to be the sole person you loved and were committed to


And all I ever got from you was being lonely
Your neglect and betrayal left me feeling isolated and heartbroken


Now that dream is laid to rest
My hope of having a monogamous, committed relationship with you is over


'Cause you have failed the test
You were unable to meet the standards of our relationship and ultimately failed to maintain it


Are you headed for a heartache, oh yeah
You may be destined for heartbreak in the future


Gonna get a bad break, oh yeah
You will likely experience negative consequences due to your actions


You made a bad mistake, oh yeah
Your poor choices led to negative outcomes for yourself and others


Well, you're never gonna find another love like mine
You may regret losing me because you won't find someone as loving and devoted


Someone's gonna do you like you done me honey
You may face the same treatment you put me through from someone else in the future


And when she does you like she'll do you, it ain't funny
You will not enjoy being treated poorly by someone else, it is not a laughing matter


You need some sympathy
You may require some support and understanding


But don't be calling me
However, I am not the person to provide that empathy to you anymore


Hey blame it on your lying, cheating, cold dead beating
Your own negative behaviors are the cause of your situation


Two-timing and double dealing
You have been disloyal and unfaithful to others, which may catch up to you


Mean mistreating, loving heart
Your cruelty and mistreatment of others may be rooted in deeper emotional issues




Lyrics Β© Universal Music Publishing Group, HARLAN HOWARD SONGS, INC., Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: Harlan Howard, Kostas Lazarides

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Comments from YouTube:

@nicolesamuilow1058

Just saw and heard Patty perform an acoustic version of this at the CMHOF museum in Nashville. She was UNBELIEVEABLE all these years later. It was as if time stood still. Her voice sounded exactly the same and even better! Patty Loveless is a legend!!

@KellieLeigh48

Nobody talks about the killer guitar work Kenny Vaughan does on this song and that's a shame. He's the best

@stevegibson8711

Kenny is playing the intro. I played the Tele electric rhythm and the b-bender solo. Kenny is still a great player!

@susanhackney488

Everyone in this video is outstanding!!!

@martydibergi5228

@@stevegibson8711hi Steve all you Nashville geetar players are spectacular including John Jorgenson ❀

@gonecountry246

​@@martydibergi5228I agree. I can't put into words how much I miss this style of music on the radio. Everyone wants to talk about Waylon or Luke Bryan but for me, I'll always be stuck in the middle, in the '90s... because damn, the instruments had drive like no other decade. I'm grateful we have it on record to still listen to. I'm a musician myself and love and appreciate all the greats of Nashville back then like Brent Mason, Pig Robbins, etc. I grew up listening to it on the tractor and I'm ready for this kind of country to make a complete comeback!

@studyemail1977

Absolutely!

@jackhime5628

Patty Loveless is pure country and a great artist she did a song on the Troubadour album with the King of Country Music George Strait as a tribute to the man in black Johnny Cash. Congratulations on being inducted into the Country Music Hall of Fame

@dlmullins9054

She is something very special and puts a big smile on my face everytime i hear and see her sing. Such a beautiful and talented lady.

@WilliamEllison

Yeah, well, it's Patty Loveless for Pete's sake.

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