Love Builds The Bridges
Patty Loveless Lyrics


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She's twistin' the ring on her finger
She's watchin' the clock on the wall
She's hopin' when it finally hits him
He's wrong
He'll come to his senses
And give her a call

Across town he's in a hotel room
He can't keep his eyes off the phone
He's thinking that soon she'll break down and call
To tell him she's sorry
And beg him back home

There's a lonesome fool waiting
On each end of the line
There's a measure of blame on both sides
Until each heart is willing
There's no hope at all
'Cause love builds the bridges
But pride builds the walls

The longer they wait on each other
The harder it gets to give in
They're too proud to see
They're just one call away
From putting their love back
Together again

There's a lonesome fool waiting
On each end of the line
There's a measure of blame on both sides
Until each heart is willing
There's no hope at all
'Cause love builds the bridges
But pride builds the walls

Until each heart is willing
There's no hope at all




'Cause love builds the bridges
But pride builds the walls

Overall Meaning

The song “Love Builds The Bridges” by Patty Loveless tells the story of a couple who have been separated due to their pride and inability to communicate. The woman is waiting anxiously for her partner to realize his mistakes and call her, while the man is also waiting for her to make the first move. Both of them are consumed by their pride, which is causing a divide between them. The song begins by describing the woman twisting the ring on her finger and watching the clock, while she hopes that her partner will call her. On the other hand, the man is in a hotel room staring at his phone, waiting for her to call him and ask him to come back home.


The lyrics suggest that both of them are longing for each other but are too stubborn to make the first move. The phrase “There’s a lonesome fool waiting on each end of the line” indicates that both of them are suffering the consequences of their actions. The song highlights the importance of communication, forgiveness, and vulnerability in a relationship. Love can build bridges, but pride can destroy them, and the longer they wait, the harder it becomes to reconcile.


Overall, the song Love Builds The Bridges is a story about the impact of pride on a relationship, and how it can slowly erode the love that once existed. The lyrics convey a message of hope, and encourage the couple to set their differences aside and build a bridge to bring their love back together.


Line by Line Meaning

She's twistin' the ring on her finger
She's nervously twisting the ring on her finger, feeling anxious and uncertain about what will happen next.


She's watchin' the clock on the wall
She's constantly checking the clock, waiting for time to pass so she can know the next step to take.


She's hopin' when it finally hits him
She's yearning for the moment when he realizes his mistake and wants to make up for it.


He's wrong
He has made a mistake and caused some kind of conflict or argument.


He'll come to his senses
He'll realize the gravity of his mistake, see things from her perspective, and understand the importance of making things right.


And give her a call
He'll take action by calling her to express his regret, apologize, and take steps to rebuild their relationship.


Across town he's in a hotel room
He's physically distant from her, which adds to the emotional separation between them.


He can't keep his eyes off the phone
He's desperately waiting for her to call and hoping to hear her voice.


He's thinking that soon she'll break down and call
He's confident that at some point she'll reach out to him and make an effort to reconcile.


To tell him she's sorry
She will admit her own mistakes and apologize for any hurt or pain she's caused him.


And beg him back home
She'll beg for his forgiveness and express her desire to have him home with her again.


There's a lonesome fool waiting
Both of them feel lonely and helpless in the face of their conflict.


On each end of the line
They're both waiting for the other to reach out and make an effort to bridge the gap between them.


There's a measure of blame on both sides
Both of them have played a role in the breakdown of their relationship and need to take responsibility for their actions.


Until each heart is willing
Until both of them are ready and willing to come to a resolution and make amends, there can be no progress or hope for reconciliation.


There's no hope at all
Without mutual effort and willingness to reconcile, their relationship cannot be salvaged.


'Cause love builds the bridges
Love is what creates connections and mends broken relationships.


But pride builds the walls
Pride and defensiveness can prevent people from being vulnerable and working towards rebuilding relationships, making it harder to move past conflict.




Lyrics © Warner/Chappell Music, Inc., BMG Rights Management
Written by: JIM MCBRIDE, JERRY SALLEY

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