Sweet Guy
Paul Kelly Lyrics


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In the morning we wreck the bed
You bring me coffee black and boiling
Then we start up again and the coffee goes cold
I wake up drinking from your lips
Kisses warm and tender
And I'd give up the word just to see you smile
One thing I will never understand (It's become my problem)
And it's something that's right out of my hands (My hands are clean)
What makes such a sweet guy turn so mean?
I went to town with a moody man, a handsome Dr. Jekyll
He was right by my side turning into Mr. Hyde
I ran for cover but I ran too slow; I was stitched by strangers
And they shook their heads that someone could do the things you did
One thing I will never understand (It's become my problem)
And it's something that's right out of my hands (My hands are clean)
What makes such a sweet guy turn so mean?
I must be mad, I must be crazy, everyone tells me so
Everyday I see it coming, now I'm facing the wall, waiting for the blow
In the morning you kiss my head
You say it was another
Now you're down on your knees
Begging me to forgive you please
I wake up aching from your touch
Every muscle tender
Then I look in your eyes, the way you smile
And I'm hypnotized
One thing I will never understand
(It's become my problem)
And it's something that's right out of my hands




(My hands are clean)
What makes such a sweet guy turn so mean?

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Paul Kelly's song Sweet Guy describe a tumultuous relationship between two people, where the singer struggles to understand the behavior of their partner. The opening lines suggest a pattern of passion followed by conflict, as they "wreck the bed" in the morning before the coffee has gone cold. The singer finds themselves enchanted by their partner's tenderness and kisses, willing to give up everything just to see them smile. However, as the song progresses, it becomes clear that this "sweet guy" has a darker side. The partner turns "so mean" and transforms from a charming "Dr. Jekyll" into a frightening "Mr. Hyde." The singer runs for cover, but they are too late and are left with physical scars from the violence. Despite this, the partner remains charismatic and beguiling, and the singer struggles to understand why they would act this way.


The song delves into the complexity of abusive relationships, where the abuser may appear charming and kind at times, causing confusion and uncertainty for the victim. The singer is torn between their love and desire for their partner and the fear and pain that they inflict. The final lines suggest that this cycle may continue, with the singer facing the wall, waiting for the next blow.


Overall, Sweet Guy is a poignant and emotionally charged examination of domestic violence that explores the confusion, fear, and love that can coexist in an abusive relationship.


Line by Line Meaning

In the morning we wreck the bed
Every morning, we passionately make love and leave the bed messed up.


You bring me coffee black and boiling
You serve me hot black coffee, just the way I like it.


Then we start up again and the coffee goes cold
Our love is so intense that we forget about the coffee, and it gets cold.


I wake up drinking from your lips
I wake up kissing you passionately as if I were drinking from your lips.


Kisses warm and tender
Our kisses are filled with warmth and tenderness.


And I'd give up the word just to see you smile
I love you so much that I would do anything to see you smile, even if it meant giving up everything I own.


One thing I will never understand (It's become my problem)
There's something about you that I can't comprehend, and it has become my personal issue.


And it's something that's right out of my hands (My hands are clean)
Whatever it is that causes you to act the way you do, I have no control over, and I am not to blame.


What makes such a sweet guy turn so mean?
I can't figure out what turns you, a loving and gentle person, into a cruel and hurtful one.


I went to town with a moody man, a handsome Dr. Jekyll
I went to town with you, a good-looking man who can have two distinct personalities.


He was right by my side turning into Mr. Hyde
You were next to me, turning into a whole different person, not the sweet guy I fell in love with.


I ran for cover but I ran too slow; I was stitched by strangers
I tried to flee from you but it was too late; I was hurt by strangers who were horrified by your actions.


And they shook their heads that someone could do the things you did
People were shocked by your behavior and couldn't believe that someone could commit such cruel acts.


I must be mad, I must be crazy, everyone tells me so
Everyone thinks I'm insane for staying with you despite your appalling behavior.


Everyday I see it coming, now I'm facing the wall, waiting for the blow
Every day, I anticipate the worst from you, and I wait for the emotional blow.


In the morning you kiss my head
In the morning, you kiss my forehead affectionately.


You say it was another
You confess that you cheated on me.


Now you're down on your knees
You're now on your knees, begging for my forgiveness.


Begging me to forgive you please
You're genuinely sorry, and you're asking me to forgive you.


I wake up aching from your touch
I wake up feeling sore from the intense love we made the night before.


Every muscle tender
Every muscle in my body is sore, yet I still feel fulfilled and satisfied.


Then I look in your eyes, the way you smile
When I look into your eyes and see how you smile, I forget about everything else and become captivated.


And I'm hypnotized
I become entranced by your charm and love, and I can't resist you.




Lyrics © Warner/Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: PAUL MAURICE KELLY

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@FlyersRightsdotorg

I must have worn out this cassette back in its day. Never get tired of listening to this song. Thanks a ton for adding this.

@shux422

Sensational tune. What does make a sweet guy turn so mean? The opportunity to blame someone else for all his failings perhaps?
And it's true - familiarity breeds contempt.

@drumdust

Such a classic song, love the 60's sounding keyboard.

@xiphocostal

I don't think I really understood this song until I saw Vika Bull sing it. Amazing. I learnt after many of his songs came out that Kelly often writes from the POV of women or children.

@lapalad

Another classic from Paul Kelly

@i_am_kanani

i love this song. i might end up signing this for a school thing idk i just love this song a lot.

@BowieRulez

I hope people realize that he is singing this song from the perspective of a woman. He does it quite a lot. It's great.

@irishaussie970

Great song!

@eddddddievh

Brillant song writing

@rosskirby507

The Messengers were the be set group he has ever had

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